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 JULiiANA FAYE.  Group: Member Posts: 460 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,749  |
Well me & T been going out since August 20th .hes 16 & im 14. yea hes been held back so now hes in 8th with me. when hes supposed to be in 11th (thats why hes in my classes) well i for reals like him. Well we were at this dance and he was slow dancing with me, and we look over and his cousin's girlfriend was dancing with some other dude. T got all pissed and was like "dayum i gotta tell my cousin." well he looks at me in the eyes and was like "baby tell me you wont ever dance with some other guy. " i said "never ever i love you too much" so yeah our dance was okay but he kept telling me to go away with my friend so it took me a while to look for my friend, and he would leave me there somtimes in the dance by myslef while i looked for my friend. well when that one "booty booty rockin every where" song played, i went to my friends and started dancing, i look over & there he was dancing with some other girl with that song. I look ever at my friend and tapped her and was like "i gotta go to the bathroom..." and i ran to the batroom and cried.
 . i found T again and he was like "whats wrong" and the dance was over. so i cried and i called him a hypocrite & i told him i still wanna be with him.my point being, am i doing the right thing to stay with him & give him this second chance, i mean i already told him im not gonna give him a third. is this right ? & yes i do like him a lot hes my everything. and he lieks me back, but for some reason i feel like boys are always like this? i dont really know what to do anymore.  |
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| *SinfullySweet* |
Sep 9 2007, 04:31 PM
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Honey, you need to bitch up. If a guy I was dating asked me not to dance with any other guys, so long as he doesnt dance with any girls, I would be find with that. But if I saw him being a f*g hyopocrite, I would dump his dumbass on the spot.
 Even if you really do like this man. I garuntee you 100% you WILL NOT end up with him. |
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Sep 9 2007, 04:44 PM
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I have to agree.
At 14 years old, you're also a little bit young to be taking things so seriously. I'm surprised this 16 year old lad hasn't recieved any teasing from his mates because of the age difference. Could that be why he seems so flippant around you? This guy is being a hypocrite. He is also not taking into account your feelings and, I hate to say, probably does not love you as much as he professes. Some boys find loving words easy to say when their attention lies with other matters. Take a step back a moment. He tells you he loves you, then buggers off to check on the other totty? That's not how boyfriends behave. Dump the loser and enjoy being single. |
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| *SinfullySweet* |
Sep 9 2007, 04:53 PM
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Oh, and Also, I reccomend you dont have any "relationships" when you're a tiny middle schooler. I have no clue why middle school/freshman kids try to even be a couple. You have to go on dates, i.e. actually going to restaraunts together, and not just "hold hands" at school to say you are dating, and that you are a couple.
I have to add too. What s-majare said, his love for you is bullshit. Sorry, but it is true. He seems to be infatuated with other women, and takes little consideration into your feelings. Until you can drive, have a job, and are almost 18, enjoy your time as a young single girl. Go to parties, go out with friends, have fun, but dont get into relationships that have no meaning that only create drama. Oh. He must be pretty stupid in the educational proportion of his life, seeing as how he got held back twice. |
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Sep 9 2007, 07:49 PM
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Pussy.
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| *Steven* |
Sep 9 2007, 07:56 PM
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Seon Ho stop w/ the member bashing. Verbal warning. You'll receive a PM.
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Sep 9 2007, 07:58 PM
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QUOTE(SinfullySweet @ Sep 9 2007, 05:31 PM)  Honey, you need to bitch up. If a guy I was dating asked me not to dance with any other guys, so long as he doesnt dance with any girls, I would be find with that. But if I saw him being a f*g hyopocrite, I would dump his dumbass on the spot. Even if you really do like this man. I garuntee you 100% you WILL NOT end up with him. Amen, sista. Especially the "bitching up" part. :D |
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| *digitalfragrance* |
Sep 9 2007, 08:40 PM
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Dump him. Seriously... he's not for you.
And going out since August 20th isn't even a month! Save yourself a major heartbreak and end it now. Oh, and try not to get so attached that early... you won't take well to "dating around" in the future if you take early relationships that seriously |
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Sep 10 2007, 04:13 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(SinfullySweet @ Sep 9 2007, 05:31 PM) Honey, you need to bitch up. If a guy I was dating asked me not to dance with any other guys, so long as he doesnt dance with any girls, I would be find with that. But if I saw him being a f*g hyopocrite, I would dump his dumbass on the spot. I have to agree 100%. |
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Sep 10 2007, 07:50 PM
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 pyrobeastilnecrophilaic Group: Member Posts: 217 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 562,974 |
your so innocent and naive its not even funny
XD thinking hes not going to hurt you any more after you talk to him cant change a flaky man who likes to play around with other girls |
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Sep 11 2007, 07:51 PM
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LOL
 he was dancing with another girl and you cried??? okay here's what's totally wrong: 1. you went to dance with your friends...what the hell was he supposed to do? stand there while you have fun? hella no! YOU LEFT HIM, so it's not like he ditched you for someone else. 2. don't cry over this. please. if i was you, i would've gotten up behind him, start getting up on him, and i bet you he would've turned right around and forgotten that girl right away. 3. don't be a baby! unless he was caught with some other girl in bed or making out, he doesn't desereve a second chance here since he did nothing wrong. you need to grow up. 4. yeah what he said was ridiculous and he's a total hypocrite, but he looks like he wants to have fun. unless you're willing to talk to him and not burst into tears, i would re-think even being in a "relationship" this early. you have your whole life to get heartbroken, it's no biggie. |
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Sep 11 2007, 08:00 PM
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i think that you should dump him your only 14, and yes im 15 but my boyfriend and i have been together a long while and have an amazing relationships, being 14 you have many other boys to choose from and a long time before you need to buckle down. you dont need to be stressed or pressured over a boy at 14.
:D just be happy |
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| *Moderator* |
Sep 11 2007, 08:11 PM
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It doesn't seem to serious. When I first read the topic, I thought you meant he cheated on you. But it seems like hes a sort of player. Don't make too much of a deal out of it. If it bothered you, then talk to him about it. Don't expect him to just udnerstand why you're upset. Guys aren't mindreaders. It seems that you're not ready for a relationship. We're still young, enjoy the time. If you don't feel right with him, then break it off. No need to think that "but hes the one for me, he completesss me." Do it now before its too late. But if you think you can work it out as a couple, go on.
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Sep 11 2007, 11:20 PM
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 ٩(●̮̮̃•̃)۶ Group: Official Member Posts: 1,403 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,173 |
Mann, don't date someone that fell behind THREE GRADES.
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Sep 11 2007, 11:32 PM
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can i sprinkle my pubes on u ;[ Group: Banned Posts: 176 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 568,257 |
QUOTE(SinfullySweet @ Sep 9 2007, 02:31 PM) Honey, you need to bitch up. I garuntee you 100% you WILL NOT end up with him. You spelled guarantee wrong. |
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Sep 12 2007, 05:37 PM
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DAMN. Supposed to be in the 11th grade ? Someone get this kid some Hooked on Phonics or send his ass to the Sylvan learning center !
And honestly, it was just a dance. Boo f**kin hoo. |
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Sep 12 2007, 05:42 PM
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 s e c r e c y * Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 417,181 |
I'm sorry but I must say...
13-14 year old girls are stupid. Please focus in school, no boyfriends. ^_^ |
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Sep 12 2007, 05:45 PM
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What the hell.
Hes a f**king dumbass, Both ways, seriously. He failed 3 times? And youve been going out what? 3 Weeks. Move on with your life. |
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Sep 12 2007, 06:18 PM
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QUOTE(wreckless @ Sep 11 2007, 11:32 PM) You spelled guarantee wrong. Like I give a shit. |
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Sep 13 2007, 07:10 PM
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he probably will do it again...but it's up to you if you wanna deal with it a second time. There's bound to be other guys out there. =] take things slow and besides...you honestly want to be with a guy whos gonna dance with another girl even though he knows youre bound to see him? he seems to not respect you at all.
love yourself and break up with him before he breaks your heart. |
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Sep 13 2007, 09:44 PM
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QUOTE(Hiphop d[-_-]b @ Sep 12 2007, 03:37 PM) DAMN. Supposed to be in the 11th grade ? Someone get this kid some Hooked on Phonics or send his ass to the Sylvan learning center ! And honestly, it was just a dance. Boo f**kin hoo. ZOOLANDER FOR KIDS THAT CANT READ GOOD |
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Sep 13 2007, 10:03 PM
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QUOTE(Hiphop d[-_-]b @ Sep 12 2007, 06:37 PM) DAMN. Supposed to be in the 11th grade ? Someone get this kid some Hooked on Phonics or send his ass to the Sylvan learning center ! And honestly, it was just a dance. Boo f**kin hoo. LOL word. |
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Sep 13 2007, 10:04 PM
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QUOTE(SinfullySweet @ Sep 9 2007, 05:31 PM) Honey, you need to bitch up. If a guy I was dating asked me not to dance with any other guys, so long as he doesnt dance with any girls, I would be find with that. But if I saw him being a f*g hyopocrite, I would dump his dumbass on the spot. Even if you really do like this man. I garuntee you 100% you WILL NOT end up with him. ENOUGH SAID! |
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Sep 13 2007, 10:06 PM
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 AttacKATTack! Group: Member Posts: 697 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 536,660 |
I went through the same exact thing. I was in 7th grade and he was 16 years old, in the 8th grade.
Yeah, he was the most absolute sex-addicted psycho, womanizing, immoral, unreadable, selfish person on the planet. But he managed to charm me into being his girlfriend, and I hate myself for my impaired judgement. Oh and he was also begging another girl to be his girlfriend behind my back while we were going out. Yeah, and she happened to be my friend, so... she told me, haha. And believe me, in a few years you'll be like "What the hell was I thinking?" So take my advice don't meddle with him. He's a jerk. Find a guy with priorities. He's going to grow up to be a failure. |
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