Having friends with benefits..., Yes or no? |
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 Jun 17 2004, 08:05 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan"  Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368  |
With my past experiences, I say it could work out both ways, but most of the time I get my feelings hurt..lol..oh well!
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Jun 17 2004, 08:13 AM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
I wouldn't do it. Thats risky business.
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Jun 17 2004, 08:33 AM
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 old school member Group: Member Posts: 1,796 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 843 |
No. That's way to risky for most people. Plus the friendship becomes twisted after that.
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Jun 17 2004, 09:12 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 356 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,503 |
like you said so yourself ... you get your feelings hurt .... so why do it? I personally wouldn't ...
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Jun 17 2004, 09:23 AM
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I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Yes..yes...sigh...just can't help it I kind of get drawn into these kind of situations.. seems that the girl likes me but, comes to find out she just used me! Its not like I do it on purpose...
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Jun 17 2004, 10:53 AM
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 barbies token black friend Group: Member Posts: 496 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,165 |
i wouldnt do it feelings can get in the wayh and like Roxanne said there is too much at risk you and your friend could end up havin an argument and thats the end of the friendship
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Jun 17 2004, 01:22 PM
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Hmm I wouldn't do it. My friends have done it. Hmm...perhaps that's because I don't have a friend to have benefits with.
 Oh well. I probably wouldn't do it because, as they said, it's risky. You don't want to become too attached, or if you're with someone then...heh.
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Jun 17 2004, 01:47 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
eer too risky for me... cuz feelings could get involed and one person would get jealous of another... and then all this drama!!! nahh wouldnt work out for me.
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Jun 17 2004, 02:32 PM
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 03.21.00 <3 LaTe 637 Group: Member Posts: 744 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,890 |
i say no.. because i think ultimately one person wil start to have feelings for the other.. and then they will end up getting hurt...
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Jun 17 2004, 02:49 PM
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 LunchboxXx Group: Member Posts: 1,789 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,810 |
i have one and it's great!
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Jun 17 2004, 05:10 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
friends w/ benefits is bad. I been in one and it sucks. One person always gets hurt in those things. Sadly I was the one who got hurt but he was a d!ck and now im w/ the best guy ever
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Jun 17 2004, 06:31 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
QUOTE(xquizit @ Jun 17 2004, 8:13 AM) I wouldn't do it. Thats risky business. yep. I think it's kinda creepy. friends with benefits... pshh. |
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Jun 19 2004, 04:30 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
i say no cuz thats kinda risky for some
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Jun 19 2004, 11:32 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 7,048 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,696 |
thats just straight up bad for everyone
ur feelings get hurt, so do theirs u lose friends sometimes, so do they |
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Jun 19 2004, 12:22 PM
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 ::destroy ure tv:: Group: Member Posts: 149 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,005 |
i had one and it was great. sigh. but it ended up getting complicated and the only reason we're still friends is coz we love each other so much. we just dont want to threaten our friendship and that always comes first.
i say 'yes' if ure not too close with the person, 'no' if u are. |
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Jun 19 2004, 01:00 PM
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 .::BreathlesS::. Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,954 |
ah, I can't have friends with benefits.. It wouldn't feel right to have sex with someone I'm not going with. When I do it, its with someone I love.. not with someone who wants meaningless sex..
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