Is it wrong ?, that you fckn repulse me Options

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

So, lately all the guys that I've been into and that have been into me as well, and we've made the motions of talking and going beyond friendship, when i think about him, i become disgusted. And i no longer want to look at him, much less go out with him. Maybe it's cus im a dirty teasing slut, and I know they're not right for me, I just want something to do when I'm bored. I'm thinking it has to do w/ shit that's happened in the past but i could have sworn i'd gotten over it. Maybe I didn't. Or maybe this is a whole 'nother thing and my past isn't even relevant. Anyways, point of topic is :

Does that ever happen to anyone ? You hella like someone, and all of a sudden I am just turned OOOOFFFF.

[Tung]

lol, your from hayward? what high school you go to. i graduated mt. eden in 2006 lol.

[dustbunny]

yeah..I noticed last year that i had a tendency to become close to guys, and all of a sudden i would draw back; but then again i think that's because WE WERE SUPPOSED to be friends and they ended up liking me and i had no choice

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Yeah, I'm class of 09' tho bro.

But the thing is i mainly hang out with guys. And whenever one of them happens to form a crush on me it gets really awkward cus i never like any of them back. what do you mean you had no choice ? you had no choice over them liking you ?

[dustbunny]

no choice as in I had no choice to "draw back". i mean, they liked me while i was just being friends with them; I wasn't flirting or anything; that's why I guess I had to pretend I was a bitch or something and not be their friend or be so nice. haha does that make any sense

[kenshinx001]

I understand your situation pretty well. It's all weird now that this friend of yours like you right? You can't do the same things that both of you do normally. You're probably scared to hurt friend if you hang out with your other guy friends. I don't have a definite answer to solve this kind of problem because I'm in this kind of situation too. I wanted to be friends with her but my feelings for her gets in the way specially now that she knows about my feelings. She gets hurt whenever I get hurt. I get hurt more if she gets hurt. I'm in a situation where I can't go back the way it was or be able to move forward. I do suggest that you become honest to that guy who likes you. At least give them the respect by rejecting or accepting them so both of you can move on.

[seonho]

First of all, I'm not favoring your attitude and the tone of your post(s). AT ALL. You're talking like you are some hot F UCKING shit, but you ain't SISTA. So shut the f**k up and correct your attitude.

Second of all, you grotesque fat piece of hideous shit, I don't know what the guy's see it in you. Seriously. Are they F UCKING blind?

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

^ Dang, are you mad.




( I had a feeeeling you were gna reply to this. And I, personally, think I am way prettier than your girlfriend. But that's just MY opinion and very obviously isn't yours. Get over yourself. )


Oh, and i lost a lot of weight ! But yes, im still grotesque and fat. But still, a lot ! =D

[tooeffingcrazy]

First of all, I'm not favoring your attitude and the tone of your post(s). AT ALL. You're talking like you are some hot F UCKING shit, but you ain't SISTA. So shut the f**k up and correct your attitude.

Second of all, you grotesque fat piece of hideous shit, I don't know what the guy's see it in you. Seriously. Are they F UCKING blind?

I'm glad I'm not the only one who noticed that.

[Kay-]

I think your looking for a challenge.

Like i think you need to find a guy that you need to work for because in the end if you get him it will be worth so much more. I noticed that in the guys i've liked before, it's like once you get him you lose interest or you get bored.

[please don't be angry at my comment because im pretty sure i kinda of sound bi*chy]

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

It didn't sound bitchy (=

Yeah, that's pretty much what I meant tho. The whole "chase" is over once I know they like me too, and I just get bored and disinterested. The last boy i was talking to, was just boring, had no self-esteem, no confidence and hand really ugly hands. I have a thing about hands, like a fetish. So if they're pretty hands I'll love them, but if they're hideous, they will disgust me. His low self esteem and lack of confidence is what turned me off the most. He'd randomly ask if i thought he was ugly, or tell me im pretty and what was i doing talking to him and blabla. Just put me off =\

[MrStrife]

^Then why were you talking to him in the first place?

Well, first impressions aren't always right. I'm just guessing you are horrified by the way they really act when you both get comfortable.

[*Moderator*]

I think I see where you're coming from. A boy that plays hard to get? For me, I don't really mind if they let me chase them or not. If I like them, I'll go after them. Insecure people, ah. Its so hard to boost their confidence sometimes.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

^ yeah, he didnt really play hard to get which is why i lost interest as well, but if def. wasn't the main reason. He was so eager to tell me all these nice things, but would turn around and try to pryyy compliments from me. He'd be all " Do you think im ugly ? I think girls dont like me cus im too nice, and they think im ugly " and bla bla. What the hell am i supposed to say to that ? I didn't think he was that cute, but my friends thought he was and kept on telling me how smart and chill he was, and thats what interested me. And even when we were just talking as friends, not talking in a relationship sort of way, he wanted to know what i was doing where i was and who i was with then he'd ask what i was doing alll over again alll the time. It was just annoying since I'm not even his girl.

^Then why were you talking to him in the first place?

Well, first impressions aren't always right. I'm just guessing you are horrified by the way they really act when you both get comfortable.

Yeah. The guy I'm talking about seemed really smart and like a pretty laid back guy that I'd have fun hanging out with. I knew that he was shy, but i kind of liked that. But after it took me a while to get past the shy, and i got to know him he was just not really interesting. And instead of being all laid back and smart, he seemed pretty uncomfortable and awkward ( and maybe i made him feel that way, who knows ) and like he didn't comprehend things very well, which irritated me. And I have this thing, just a this thing about hands. And his were uglllyyy and weird and just ew. He was also very judgemental and rude. It just hella turned me offff.

[Shahin]

First of all, I'm not favoring your attitude and the tone of your post(s). AT ALL. You're talking like you are some hot F UCKING shit, but you ain't SISTA. So shut the f**k up and correct your attitude.

Second of all, you grotesque fat piece of hideous shit, I don't know what the guy's see it in you. Seriously. Are they F UCKING blind?

Wtf?








Did he jus say 'sista'?

[*Uronacid*]

yes that has happened to me, but only when I realize... I really don't like this person.

WTF!!! HOW COME IT ALWAYS DOUBLE POSTS!!