Is this normal?, 14-17 yr olds please Options

[xxRAWRxxx]

[font="Century Gothic"][/font][size="1"][/size][color="#FFA500"][/color] Ok basically im 16 just turned (august 16th). And i havn't really been in a relationship at all.It is by choice but I seem to feel like the only one who is getting anywhere.I am more into my school and stuff but even when I wasn't I still wasn't dating.most people my age are not virgins..me Im still a virgin and I don't know if there is someone out there who hasn't just felt the need to be with anybody..I actually feel like shit.. but um.. people my age let me know if your in a similar situsation or if you have a comment to say bout this.Thanx

[RAWRstephishere]

A lot of people are like you too, they just dont go bragging about how they are virgins.

Mainly if people arent virgins, they said they arent. So you hear more people they that they arent than they are.

[xxRAWRxxx]

A lot of people are like you too, they just dont go bragging about how they are virgins.

Mainly if people arent virgins, they said they arent. So you hear more people they that they arent than they are.

im bragging?but umm.. so alot of people haven't really had a relationship at 16?I feel that pretty sad and pathetic

[lkajsfklajskds]

[font="Century Gothic"][/font][size="1"][/size][color="#FFA500"][/color] Ok basically im 16 just turned (august 16th). And i havn't really been in a relationship at all.It is by choice but I seem to feel like the only one who is getting anywhere.I am more into my school and stuff but even when I wasn't I still wasn't dating.most people my age are not virgins..me Im still a virgin and I don't know if there is someone out there who hasn't just felt the need to be with anybody..I actually feel like shit.. but um.. people my age let me know if your in a similar situsation or if you have a comment to say bout this.Thanx

i wouldnt say your alone at all. there are thousands of people like you.

[RAWRstephishere]

im bragging?but umm.. so alot of people haven't really had a relationship at 16?I feel that pretty sad and pathetic

Wow.

Im trying to say that if someone is a virgin, they dont go around tell people that they are whereas if someone isnt a virgin then will go and tell people about it.

[xxRAWRxxx]

i wouldnt say your alone at all. there are thousands of people like you.

yea?I feel like a loner lol..my mom wants me to have a bf cause she hasn't seen me with one.I don't know It sucks becuz I want to have a relationship but I don't know how..it's really frustrating.There are actually 2 people who say they love me "think we aretogether" but I don't love them or feel like im with niether one

[xxRAWRxxx]

Wow.

Im trying to say that if someone is a virgin, they dont go around tell people that they are whereas if someone isnt a virgin then will go and tell people about it.

Mmmhm..

I know that.

[tooeffingcrazy]

am more into my school

Well it ain't helpin' girly. You should just go have sex, because you being "into" school hasn't really paid off.

I can't say anymore; your grammatical errors have placed me in a daze.

[iDecay]

Oh please. Serious relationships? I've seen like.. 2? And eventually all the girls at my school end up pregnant and giving BJs on school property.

Consider turning lesbian.

[xxRAWRxxx]

Well it ain't helpin' girly. You should just go have sex, because you being "into" school hasn't really paid off.

I can't say anymore; your grammatical errors have placed me in a daze.

well Geez do you think im trying to worry about my "grammatical errors" if I was I'm pretty sure I would have not "placed you in a daze".you really would have been better off not being such a dick about the situation and at least try to give some advise..good advise at that.you telling me about my "grammatical errors grammatical errors" was really uncalled for and really was pointless.

Oh please. Serious relationships? I've seen like.. 2? And eventually all the girls at my school end up pregnant and giving BJs on school property.

Consider turning lesbian.

Nah.
I'd rather not.thanx anyway =/


DO NOT DOUBLE POST, THANKS :)

[tooeffingcrazy]

well Geez do you think im trying to worry about my "grammatical errors" if I was I'm pretty sure I would have not "placed you in a daze".you really would have been better off not being such a dick about the situation and at least try to give some advise..good advise at that.you telling me about my "grammatical errors grammatical errors" was really uncalled for and really was pointless.

Oh dear lord, save this girl.

Advice! Advice! Holy mother of Jesus.

Here's my advice to you: Stop complaining about you not getting laid.

[LadyXTor]

So basically, you're asking if it's okay not to be in a relationship and not be sexually active? Seriously? I'm sure there are a BUNCH of kids at your school who don't care to be in a relationship right now.

And no need to double post, dear.

[1angel3]

I'm a virgin myself and I focus on my schoolwork more, don't even worry about it, it's ok to feel this way because your human but your not alone.

[xxRAWRxxx]

Oh dear lord, save this girl.

Advice! Advice! Holy mother of Jesus.

Here's my advice to you: Stop complaining about you not getting laid.

Gawd slap yourself.Your a moron.How am I complaining when im asking if it's normal not you.For f**ks sake.

I'm a virgin myself and I focus on my schoolwork more, don't even worry about it, it's ok to feel this way because your human but your not alone.

OMFG!!! finally someone with a decent comment/answer thanx.thats really all I needed to know from someone who is actually going threw it.

Stop double posting, thanks :)
-Steven

[tooeffingcrazy]

Gawd slap yourself.Your a moron.How am I complaining when im asking if it's normal not you.For f**ks sake.

God, slap yourself. You're a moron.*

Well then, it's normal. Just becuase you don't put out, maybe because no one wants you, doesn't mean you're a freak.

[towntown2]

There is no law saying that when you're 16, you must have had at least one relationship with someone.

Take life as it goes.

[xxRAWRxxx]

God, slap yourself. You're a moron.*

Well then, it's normal. Just becuase you don't put out, maybe because no one wants you, doesn't mean you're a freak.

What a dick.How bout you shut the f**k up and refrain from typing to me.You were no help and im pretty sure your not 14-17 grow up f**kin jack ass loser.oh and by the way I am wanted.sorry ass...

[iDecay]

So this is gonna sound really stupid but.. Remember Lena from The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants? You're like her. Eventually you'll find a balance between school and boys. Perfectly normal.

[*Steven*]

Also, don't expect 100% kind answers. You asked a question and people are responding to you. If you're just gonna lash back at someone who doesn't give you the answer you want, then why did you ask in the first place. You just want someone to agree with you.

[vietbabiiix3]

Just live your life, who needs guys right now? Don't go to them; let them come to you.

[tooeffingcrazy]

What a dick.How bout you shut the f**k up and refrain from typing to me.You were no help and im pretty sure your not 14-17 grow up f**kin jack ass loser.oh and by the way I am wanted.sorry ass...

I don't believe my age is relevant; however, if you want to know, I'm sixteen. I did help as much as I can. I was just stating my opinion on how this thread makes you look desperate and idiotic.

Thank you. I love dicks. <3 I mean being one.

[pinacoolada]

Oh sweet Jesus.
Of course it's normal.
Why do people always ask that? It's common sense.
It's not like "ohhh you haven't dated anyone! *shuns*"
So what? I'm 15, and my best friend (who is almost 16) can't even talk to a boy she likes without making a fool out of herself. It really doesn't matter. It's perfectly fine.

What a dick.How bout you shut the f**k up and refrain from typing to me.You were no help and im pretty sure your not 14-17 grow up f**kin jack ass loser.oh and by the way I am wanted.sorry ass...

And geez. Why be so mean? o_o
Chill. I'm sure the person was just kidding around.
You sound pretty immature for 16 if you respond like that.

[TimeZonesAway]

let's not worry about the maturity//immaturity level
and the "mean" responses given..as well as gramatical errors. this is cyber talk..nobody has perfect grammar

to actually stay on topic;
you say most people your age aren't virgins..well it's probably just the people you know.
or the school that you are in.
so don't worry about being sexually active and what not.
as for relationships
those that don't search always seem to end up with what they've wanted.
at least that's how it is in the movies.
lol.
if you purposely look for relationships just for the sake of having one..it's not gonna end pretty.
those never work out
if you just wait for the right // good ones to come. it will be fine.
f**k age.
you said you pay attention to school. great.
stick with that.
as someone said it will help you in the long run.

i mean if it helps you could always put yourself out there and let people get to know you. [[if you don't do that already]]
or even like participate in groups // clubs or whatever.
or ways for people to know you so then they could be like "hey yeah i know that girl, she's cool"

lol idk.
just trying to help.
=)

[Relentless]

Yes, it's normal and there are a lot of OTHER students who are virgins. It's better off for you to work you're butt off in school cuz it will be worth it later. High school are not the best way to find relationships usually.

Besides, when you graduate and you go to college. You'll find you're self in a different situation than high school and there will be other guys that you might be interested in.

[EmoEyelinerx]

Alot of people are into their schoolwork more then being into a relationship. Trust me, relationships arent all they seem to be. Half the time they guy just breaks your heart and you feel worse. Be thankful you havent went through that. You will find a guy adventually who likes you for you and doesent care if you have had any past relationships or not. If you dont want to date dont, if you do go ahead. Just dont force yourself into something you dont want or go have sex with some random guy because alot of people your age are having sex.