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 Aug 18 2007, 08:28 PM
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OK SO ME AND MY FIANCE WERE TOGETHER OVER 2 YEARS AND A WEEK BEFORE WE WERE SUPPOSED TO GO TO THE COURT HOUSE TO GET MARRIED HE DECIDES TO BRAKE UP WITH ME HE IS 19 HE SAYES THAT HE DOES NOT WANT TO BE WITH ANYONE AND IM WONDERING WHATS GOING ON WE STILL LIVE IN THE SAME HOUSE CAUSE HIS GMA SAID I COULD STAY WE HAVE A CHILD TOGETHER HAS ANY GONE THROUGH THIS BEFORE HE TOLD HIS GMA HE DID NOT WANT TO BE WITH ANYONE IM TRYING TO FIGURE OUT IF HE IS GOING TO COME BACK TO ME IM HOPING SOMEONE CAN TELL SOMETHING MAYBE SOMEONE WHO HAS BEEN THROUGH THIS
    
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Aug 18 2007, 09:10 PM
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Instead of wondering and asking a forum you just signed up in, why not confront him about it? edit:\\ Welcome to CB forums. |
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Aug 18 2007, 10:13 PM
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 AttacKATTack! Group: Member Posts: 697 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 536,660 |
THE FACT THAT YOU'RE CONSULTING A BUNCH OF 11-16 YEAR OLDS ABOUT A SERIOUS, ADULT MATTER BAFFLES ME.
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Aug 18 2007, 10:21 PM
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 roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
^ Agreed
And speaking of adult matters...if you were planning to get married, you should know that problems in your marriage cannot be solved by others. Communication is good in any relationship, and if you don't know why he backed out yet...then maybe you weren't meant to marry him. |
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Aug 18 2007, 10:53 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
I agree with everyone...i really dont think that something as serious as marriage should be discussed just out of the blue on a forum that mostly is made up of teens..also try talking to your boyfriend/fiancee/idont know about the problem this guy is young and most likely he does not want the responsibilty of marriage so he is afraid. just talk to him.
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Aug 18 2007, 10:57 PM
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 <joke> inside </joke> Group: Official Member Posts: 2,283 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 470,590 |
completely agreed. and sorry, cant help you much. and why not try asking him again why he broke up with you? i feel there is a better reason than he doesnt want to be with you right now. you were together for two years, he says that now?
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| *SinfullySweet* |
Aug 18 2007, 11:05 PM
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& You still want anything to do with him why ..?
&, Please. Use periods, and lay off the caps. I hade the hardest time reading that. |
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Aug 19 2007, 11:17 AM
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 ♥Just Another Teen Love Song♥ Group: Member Posts: 80 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 537,492 |
QUOTE(xKatt @ Aug 18 2007, 11:13 PM)  THE FACT THAT YOU'RE CONSULTING A BUNCH OF 11-16 YEAR OLDS ABOUT A SERIOUS, ADULT MATTER BAFFLES ME. Maybe they didn't realize? |
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| *Villainess* |
Aug 19 2007, 12:58 PM
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WELL LETS START WITH HOW OLD ARE YOU? BECAUSE ITS COMMON FOR SOME TO BRAKE OFF ENGAGEMENTS WHEN BOTH PARTNERS ARE TOO YOUNG AND IMATURE AND THEY GET OVERWELMED.
NO IM NOT YELLING AT YOU. |
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Aug 19 2007, 08:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,806 |
i had two friends step up and take that responsibility at that age, they were both mature about it. besides you asking a random bunch of people on a random forum, how about talk to him about it? if he still wont marry you then at least have him understand the child is still his too
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Aug 19 2007, 08:09 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,020 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,785 |
QUOTE(xKatt @ Aug 18 2007, 10:13 PM) THE FACT THAT YOU'RE CONSULTING A BUNCH OF 11-16 YEAR OLDS ABOUT A SERIOUS, ADULT MATTER BAFFLES ME. Yeah. And now my eyes hurt from trying to read it. |
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| *Moderator* |
Aug 19 2007, 08:28 PM
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I understand that you're upset. But instead of consulting us for advice, I think its best if you just sit down with your beau and talk about how you feel and what he really wants. Its the only way you will really know. Good luck.
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Aug 20 2007, 10:25 AM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
Agreed^.
Just try talking to him about it, no one here has really gone through that because most of the people on thease forums are 10-16, some being older. |
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Aug 20 2007, 10:46 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 310 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,834 |
Well... since you asked ... maybe he's just scared to commit to something as serious as marriage. But everyone is right - we're just a bunch of teenagers, we can't really solve your problem when all you need to do is talk to him.
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