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 Aug 16 2007, 11:03 PM
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 isketchaholic  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,977 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,154  |
punch walls? punch people? kick your pets? bitch out people on cb?
If I'm online I usually write out a bunch of A:LSKJFA:LDKFJA:DLKFJDAs, but when my mom throws my clothes in the garbage I walk out of the house. Otherwise, I call up my friends and talk things out. |
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Aug 16 2007, 11:15 PM
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 Home is where your rump rests! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,235 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 451,969 |
I am the absolute worst with venting. Usually, I just go online and pray that someone who I want to vent to is on AIM. I can't do the writing stuff or the punching stuff, I'm not patient nor strong enough for that stuff, and yet...venting never felt all that..I dunno, good.
Complaining actually helps me feel better...but venting? Even when I go on AIM and vent to someone, I feel dumb during and afterwards. It just feels like I'm saying a bunch of stuff that I know I'll be looking back on and feel stupid because I'm not mad about it anymore. |
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Aug 16 2007, 11:20 PM
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 Ohhh yes. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,148 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 552,569 |
Sometimes I stick my face in a pillow and yell until I want to stop. Other times I call someone and talk... but I get really bad at lashing out at people.
I never get physical with anger so I guess that's good. |
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Aug 16 2007, 11:21 PM
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 I know you're gonna save me Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,431 |
QUOTE Complaining actually helps me feel better...but venting? Even when I go on AIM and vent to someone, I feel dumb during and afterwards. It just feels like I'm saying a bunch of stuff that I know I'll be looking back on and feel stupid because I'm not mad about it anymore. Completely agreed. I have only a few people I come to voluntarily when I'm really pissed (which doesnt happen all that often, but even as I'm telling people, I feel so stupid and like I shouldn't be mad about it at all. Usually I just kind of ignore it when I'm angry, and eventually it just goes away. |
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| *ersatz* |
Aug 17 2007, 12:05 AM
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I just start crying. I get so frustrated and I'm the type of person who would rather be completely stoic than show weakness by having extreme emotions, so I let things build up and just break down.
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Aug 17 2007, 12:17 AM
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 vengeance. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,058 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,024 |
I scream in my pillow.
Or sing screamo. 
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Aug 17 2007, 12:23 AM
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isketchaholic Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,977 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,154 |
QUOTE(HakunaMatata @ Aug 16 2007, 09:15 PM)  Complaining actually helps me feel better...but venting? I consider complaining venting..! complaining is another one of my ways to calm me down when I'm mad about something, especially if it comes down to something about my friends. I love my friends and all, but everyone has their faults and sometimes i just need to complain about certain things for a while; then I can get over the faults and move on, and just love my friends again. |
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Aug 17 2007, 12:45 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,480 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 444,349 |
I either self injure or I do the scream in a pillow thing or I write. And the punch walls thing I sometimes do that too.
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Aug 17 2007, 12:53 AM
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 msladyliberty Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 105,766 |
1st I cry, 'cause I cry when I'm soooo angry!
2nd I call all my friends to go drinking! 3rd I dress up really really cute and drink the night away!! -yea...that's the only way to get me totally wasted...when I'm pissed! 
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| *alovesopure* |
Aug 17 2007, 12:53 AM
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QUOTE(HakunaMatata @ Aug 17 2007, 12:15 AM) Complaining actually helps me feel better...but venting? Even when I go on AIM and vent to someone, I feel dumb during and afterwards. It just feels like I'm saying a bunch of stuff that I know I'll be looking back on and feel stupid because I'm not mad about it anymore. Same here.  And uh.. I let it build up... which is really bad, but I do.Sometimes I'll vent to friends about little things that made me upset/angry/etc, and during it I just think "Wow, this is a really dumb reason to be upset, WHY am I so upset about this?" aaaand sometimes I just yell at the people who are making me mad, and make them mad as well. Which never turns out good. But if there is no one to talk to, I just sit quietly in my room and just think about everything. Or blog about it on an anonymous blog I have. |
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Aug 17 2007, 01:01 AM
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 ^ I might look scary but i'm the nicest person in cb! Group: Member Posts: 1,364 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,979 |
i would like to punch on a punching bag but right now i don't have one. For now i sleep it off.
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| *stephinika* |
Aug 17 2007, 01:01 AM
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I'll vent to my boyfriend usually or best friend. I usually end up crying it out though...I cry pretty easily and in the end I usually feel a bit better.
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Aug 17 2007, 01:14 AM
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 vivacity Group: Official Member Posts: 3,183 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,247 |
QUOTE(ersatz @ Aug 16 2007, 10:05 PM) I just start crying. I get so frustrated and I'm the type of person who would rather be completely stoic than show weakness by having extreme emotions, so I let things build up and just break down. I'm like that too, up to the point where I can start listing out all the problems I have in my life. I blog a lot - for me, that's actually pretty effective...hopefully someone reads it. |
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Aug 17 2007, 01:18 AM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
i cry, sit there and stare, think about shit, sleep, lock myself in a room.
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Aug 17 2007, 01:19 AM
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wow I always thought I was the only who did that and then I would feel really stupid after since no one in my house actually cares enough to pay attention. |
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Aug 17 2007, 01:20 AM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
I always talk to my friends or family.
 I can tell them anything.
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Aug 17 2007, 02:32 AM
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 yawn :) Group: Official Member Posts: 2,926 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,041 |
I usually just yell at people and if i am online then i will vent my anger on anybody
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Aug 17 2007, 09:22 AM
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I run over the neighbors dog with my lawn mower. XD
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Aug 17 2007, 10:35 AM
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 i'll fvck you til you luv me fagget Group: Official Member Posts: 2,152 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 428,884 |
I make fun of ugly people online.
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| *Moderator* |
Aug 17 2007, 10:36 AM
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I write in my diary. *flips bangs*
Usually, I just take a walk to the park and play handball. Pretending that the person's head is the handball as I angrily smack it. 
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Aug 17 2007, 12:53 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
I scream and throw things. I got in a fist fight with my mom a few times to..we forgot all about that though. Sometimes I just sit on the computer and listen to music too.
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Aug 17 2007, 12:55 PM
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Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(sugar_street @ Aug 17 2007, 02:18 AM) i cry, sit there and stare, think about shit, sleep, lock myself in a room. QUOTE(whabam @ Aug 17 2007, 02:19 AM) ^ wow I always thought I was the only who did that and then I would feel really stupid after since no one in my house actually cares enough to pay attention. You guys arnt the only ones. I do that too. |
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Aug 17 2007, 01:01 PM
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 forgive & forget Group: Member Posts: 176 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 551,100 |
same for me...
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Aug 17 2007, 01:05 PM
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 Lauren :D Group: Member Posts: 2,105 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 176,997 |
...I talk to myself... and I lock myself in my room and cry.
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Aug 17 2007, 01:18 PM
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 :electro[u]nique: Group: Member Posts: 148 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 561,877 |
i write in livejournal.
and i yell. a lot. |
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Aug 17 2007, 01:23 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 3,291 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 503,024 |
I play Lacrosse. That's how i make things better.
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Aug 17 2007, 01:23 PM
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QUOTE(BLAZINASIAN @ Aug 17 2007, 11:35 AM) I make fun of ugly people online. haha, I like you. i do that to. it makes me feel better. |
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Aug 17 2007, 02:12 PM
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 XOTY*06 :D Group: Member Posts: 2,635 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,747 |
Yelling and slamming everything.
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Aug 17 2007, 03:34 PM
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 roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
Cry. I don't mean to..but that's my body's way of releasing anger if I can't scream or rant.
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Aug 17 2007, 04:20 PM
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 The more things change,The more they stay the same. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,319 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 442,600 |
If its too bad,Tears come out my eyes,Not like Im a bitch or something, But I mean you just get so fed up at times,I mean they just come out!
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Aug 17 2007, 04:23 PM
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QUOTE(doiink @ Aug 16 2007, 11:03 PM) punch walls? punch people? kick your pets? bitch out people on cb? Haha I do it many different ways. Sometimes it is bitching, but more"IRL." |
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Aug 19 2007, 01:53 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,020 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,785 |
QUOTE(ersatz @ Aug 17 2007, 12:05 AM) I just start crying. I get so frustrated and I'm the type of person who would rather be completely stoic than show weakness by having extreme emotions, so I let things build up and just break down. Me too. I hold everything in, until the slightest thing makes me start bursting out into tears.
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Aug 19 2007, 02:56 PM
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muhfucka yo mama's a bitch Group: Banned Posts: 1,461 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 506,674 |
I just hit the gym and probably run it off.
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Aug 19 2007, 02:59 PM
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I listen to angst ridden singer/song writers, or just sulk until it goes away or something laughs. I don't do that much venting. Sometimes I let it out on cB, but mostly I just contain.
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Apr 9 2008, 01:45 AM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
I usually slam my fist on the table, or yeah punch walls. And sometimes, you'll see me bitch everyone on cB. HAha.
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Apr 9 2008, 09:15 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
mee.. justt litt summ RIPP yoo.. likeee ppll pisss mee offff me justt litt sum RIP... LITT DITT RIPP!!! .. mmmBbb *poooof*
QUOTE(doiink @ Aug 17 2007, 12:03 AM) punch walls? punch people? kick your pets? bitch out people on cb? If I'm online I usually write out a bunch of A:LSKJFA:LDKFJA:DLKFJDAs, but when my mom throws my clothes in the garbage I walk out of the house. Otherwise, I call up my friends and talk things out. dam.. bruceee leee.. calmmm down... 
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Apr 9 2008, 09:26 PM
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 yo yo yiggidy yo. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,606 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,591 |
hmm. i go to my friends and rant. i go to my lover and rant. i go on livejournal and rant [barely]. i isolate myself in my room and i clean and clean and clean... and clean some more.
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Apr 9 2008, 09:26 PM
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yo yo yiggidy yo. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,606 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,591 |
hmm. i go to my friends and rant. i go to my lover and rant. i go on livejournal and rant [barely]. i isolate myself in my room and i clean and clean and clean... and clean some more.
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Apr 9 2008, 09:27 PM
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yo yo yiggidy yo. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,606 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,591 |
hmm. i go to my friends and rant. i go to my lover and rant. i go on livejournal and rant [barely]. i isolate myself in my room and i clean and clean and clean... and clean some more.
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Apr 9 2008, 09:28 PM
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yo yo yiggidy yo. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,606 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,591 |
hmm. i go to my friends and rant. i go to my lover and rant. i go on livejournal and rant [barely]. i isolate myself in my room and i clean and clean and clean... and clean some more.
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Apr 9 2008, 09:29 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
^... uhh yee.. howw boutt u goo n STFFUU!!!
jeeezz shiett.. stopp spam..!!! 
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Apr 9 2008, 09:31 PM
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yo yo yiggidy yo. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,606 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,591 |
QUOTE(PrIncEoFSeXaPpeAL @ Apr 9 2008, 10:29 PM) ^... uhh yee.. howw boutt u goo n STFFUU!!! jeeezz shiett.. stopp spam..!!! YEAHHH, sorry guys. my internet is acting up. the funny thing is i only hit the submit button once... can someone delete those posts? thanks. :] I'M NOT SPAMMING. |
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Apr 9 2008, 09:31 PM
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 paperthin pride. Group: Member Posts: 76 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 626,463 |
i don't get angry quite easily. but if i do, woah. i just might punch your face.
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Apr 9 2008, 09:32 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
QUOTE(shaunxx @ Apr 9 2008, 10:31 PM) i don't get angry quite easily. but if i do, woah. i just might punch your face. nah.. usee da GRILLL kidd... cutt pplll kidd.. |
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Apr 9 2008, 09:53 PM
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 sang loves hayden. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,373 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,687 |
I don't get mad easily or I don't get mad frequently.
If I do, I'll end up talking to my friends or I just swim. |
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Apr 9 2008, 09:56 PM
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QUOTE(aaayotiffany @ Apr 9 2008, 09:28 PM) hmm. .... Exactly what I do. I'm temperamental, but I admit it. |
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Apr 9 2008, 10:11 PM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
Punching bag, music, write, makeup, exercise in general, rant, randomly warn people on cb :)
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Apr 10 2008, 05:05 AM
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I used to get very worked up; we're talking bunny boiler territory here, but I'm pretty chill with things now. I'll have a string of exotic words ready and a rant on my blog now.
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Apr 10 2008, 06:22 AM
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(′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
im like tiffany and whitney. i clean and fix things. but before i do that i cry, throw things, break things, rant to my bf, and very rarely now i write stuff down.
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Apr 10 2008, 09:14 AM
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yo yo yiggidy yo. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,606 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,591 |
QUOTE(doughnut @ Apr 10 2008, 07:22 AM) im like tiffany and whitney. i clean and fix things. but before i do that i cry, throw things, break things, rant to my bf, and very rarely now i write stuff down. same, i don't usually like to write things down when i'm angry because i know one day i'll find it again and i'll be reminded of the situation. lol.so i just clean, a lot. and my mom leaves me alone when i'm mad and i isolate myself because i KNOW that i will blow up on whover aggravates me. |
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Apr 10 2008, 09:14 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 717 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 636,551 |
I write in livejournal, or go to friends. That, or play mmo's. Grinding helps ease the angst. >:3
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Apr 10 2008, 09:35 AM
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(′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
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Apr 10 2008, 09:38 AM
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 Melieized Group: Official Designer Posts: 1,372 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,715 |
well i would sit out on my deck for a little bit just to clear my mind or i would take deep breaths.
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Apr 10 2008, 09:57 AM
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 <(^_^<) DANCE!(>^_^)> Group: Official Member Posts: 1,304 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 586,621 |
i lock myself up in my room and listen to music or vent to my best friend or boyfriend. if i'm really angry/upset i drive to the park or the beach.
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Apr 10 2008, 10:29 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 |
Dependin on the level of PISSED.
A. Meditation (just angry) B. Weight lifting / Cardio (hard core shit) (pretty pissed) C. Punching bag (so f**kin pissed off I wanna gut out that piece of shit human like a pig) |
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Apr 10 2008, 05:39 PM
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 crushed. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
working out while listening to loud music on the i-pod sometimes helps.
but the thing that helps the most for me is writing in my journal. |
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Apr 10 2008, 05:41 PM
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 AIDS at RAVES. Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,386 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 598,878 |
u can tell when
Im mad I usually reply to threads with an attitude, and it somehow vents :] |
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Apr 10 2008, 05:41 PM
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I curse out whoever made me mad.
...idc who it was.. they will be cursed at :O ...not really.. I handle it maturely. |
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Apr 10 2008, 05:41 PM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
I click "Jay See Teriyaki (brooklynsomethingsomething)" on my buddy list, and type away. Music and TV calm me down though.
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Apr 10 2008, 08:12 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,450 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,407 |
masturbation.
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Apr 10 2008, 08:30 PM
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 Vae Victis Group: Official Member Posts: 1,416 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,227 |
I ignore it. Emotions are for weaklings.
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