f**k GUYS., cheaters, Liars and c**t'S! Options

[weed]

OK. so remember how i was DESTROYED that my boyfriend went away, well now im more pissed off because the little c**t was getting "neck massages" from some WHORE.

W T F?! 2 f**king years and its ok to get neck massages from some girl? i dont think so!

FDSJGHASDFJKLGH im sofa king PISSED off.

Accoring to him he had STIFF NECK and he needed it. I could care less what he f**king needed. he could have just done nothing about it. man f**k this shit. f**k him i cant f**king forgive him for some dumb shit like that.

If I did something like that id be HUNG, ohh but its dandy when he does it. a-hole.

What would you have done?

*sorry for cussing so much im pretty pissed off.

[minioligo]

what's wrong with a neck message...

edit://alright, i guess it's a little weird, but i think you're overreacting a bit?

[weed]

NO im not.
i wouldnt do shit like that i KNOW better.
SOME GIRL WAS RUBBING UP ON MY MAN?!

WTF wouldnt you be pissed

[transcendentalis...]

how does this guy even stand you?
two f**king years mean there should be some level of trust between you guys.

FDSJGHASDFJKLGH im sofa king PISSED off.

Accoring to him he had STIFF NECK and he needed it. I could care less what he f**king needed. he could have just done nothing about it.

you could care less what he needed. are you even his friend?

man f**k this shit. f**k him i cant f**king forgive him for some dumb shit like that.

If I did something like that id be HUNG, ohh but its dandy when he does it. a-hole.

What would you have done?

if you have reason to believe that this girl who gave him a neck massage was a sketchy person and was secretly trying to seduce your man and steal him from you, hell then, be angry. but why so much with your guy? if he needed a massage so much, then big f**king deal. you're his girlfriend, you should know how much to trust him or not.

honestly, stop acting like a possessive little middle schooler.

edit;
this girl was not grinding with your dude. quit making things so much bigger than they actually are. rubbing up? oh, psh.

[weed]

you dont know girls where im from.

im not being possesive or childish, i just think its f**ked up that he thinks its alright to do some shit like that.

its DISRESPECTFULL.

i love him, and if he loved me he wouldnt DO shit like get a massage from another girl.

[brooklyneast05]

are u the same chick who was intending on getting ur boyfriends name tattooed on u?

[transcendentalis...]

^LOL. anyways.

how is it disrespectful, exactly?

i'm going to just sit here while my neck is in excruciating pain and not get a neck massage from someone who's willing because i love my girlfriend? personally, i think that's impertinent.

why does he have to sit through having a stiff neck?

eh whatever. i guess my parents are like that too. hell, my dad hates it when my mom talks to other guys her age. he totally goes nuts actually.

your standards, my standards. they're different, big deal, whatever suits ya.

[*karmakiller*]

^ Girls from where you're from? That's a bit stereotypically. I could agree with you being angry if you actually knew this girl and she happened to be someone who's been trying to get with him for a while, or she was a girl who's character you actually knew.

Honestly, it was neck massage... I'm sure her hands stayed on his neck. You have to trust his judgement, do you really think that he would throw away what you two guys have over a neck massage? In my opinion, there are worse things he could've done.

[transcendentalis...]

^i'm not quite sure she meant it literally that way; i think she was saying that we don't understand her point of view. please clarify?

[minioligo]

NO im not.
i wouldnt do shit like that i KNOW better.
SOME GIRL WAS RUBBING UP ON MY MAN?!

WTF wouldnt you be pissed

not unless you KNOW for sure that she was trying to "seduce him" then you shouldn't care if he got a massage. its a massage, not a lapdance...

if you loved him that much then you should be able to trust him with that sort of stuff, yeah?

i think this is the same girl that wanted to get pregnant too.

[*Michelle*]

It is understandable that you're upset, but maybe you should discuss it with him when you're more calm.

Meanwhile, beat up a stuffed animal or something; it will still love you. :D

[redpeony]

I wouldn't be happy with it, and I might mention it jokingly, but I wouldn't be unable to forgive him about it. If he's ridiculously protective over you and does anything he pleases, I think you guys need to talk. But just chill out.

[shiftieeyedpnoi]

Just thank God it was his neck she was massaging.

[luku]

You sound like he cheated on you...I really think you are over reacting.

[LadyXTor]

She was just rubbing his neck, she wasn't rubbing his nasty.

I think you should trust him, he's not cheating on you. But I can understand why you would be mad.

[Comptine]

I can understand that you're uncomfortable that your boyfriend is getting a massage from another girl but you are overreacting.

Has your boyfriend ever given you any reason to suspect that something like this would mean more or have bad intentions?

I think you seriously need to grow up. You hack into his Myspace account which shows you don't trust him. Like you said, you invested two years into your relationship. Don't you think you two are stronger enough to survive a massage? Are you going to a massage ruin two years? You posted before that you might be starting a family with him and that you're committed enough to consider a tattoo for his sake. Get over this one incident and move on. You have more important matters to worry about than this.

[Rachel]

Stop over reacting. A neck message is a lot better than fucking the "whore". You are coming off as a crazy psycho bitch.

[xburnoutx00]

HAHAHA.
well, I guess I don't really have to say anything, it would just be redundant.

[*stephinika*]

Firstly, calm down. Talk to him and if you really don't trust him, just check to see if it was really just a neck massage...and if it was, just relax. It really isn't that big of a deal...if it was some sort of other 'massage', yes you have every right to be mad, but otherwise I think you need to be less protective of him.

[ClaudelGFX]

Move on, since he didn't slept with any "whore" like you name it, but hey its up to you, if want to just erase all those 2 years because of a Silly Neck Massage rofl, its your choice.

being Overprotective might get you only problems and nothing good out of it.

[queen]

you guys need to have a sit down and talk about what's important to the both of you, and what you both would be okay with or what would bother you, and deal with that. then you need to learn to trust more.

[KayleighKins]

I wouldn't dump him and tell him to go f**k himself, but a man should know that a womans hands on any part of his body for any period of time is a no-no in a relationship.

I often have a stressed/tough/stiff neck. I give myself neck massages, it isn't hard, and it feels great.

It does sound like an excuse for him to flirt with this girl. He knows he was at least flirting, or allowing her to flirt with him.

I'm not really sure why there are people sticking up for him. Seems obvious to me that he's not a clueless idiot, he knows the boundaries that comes with a relationship and crossed them.

There isn't any trust in a relationship if he acts like that.

[EmoEyelinerx]

NO im not.
i wouldnt do shit like that i KNOW better.
SOME GIRL WAS RUBBING UP ON MY MAN?!

WTF wouldnt you be pissed

Yea I would be pretty pissed.

[*Programmer*]

lmfao....get real....A guy is always going to take advantage of a good thing...we are guys...if your offered a free neck message from a pretty girl... and have a girlfriend... it's not like were cheating on you. Were just there for the message. grow up.
----
Now on the other hand if it were more the a message then kick his ass.

[*Moderator*]

I would be a little bothered by it as well, but really just calm down. I know you're mad but like the others said you're overreacting. All she did was give him a neck massage and that was all. There's no need to consider "Our two years down the drain." Do you trust your boyfriend?

[MrStrife]

Can you say "Psycho Ex Girlfriend"?

[KayleighKins]

Maybe he was having some serious neck problems.

lawl@lame excuse.

But I forgive you. Your just trying to help the guy out. Although I don't know why.

And shut up Peter, if I had ever dated you and you got a message I would cry so hard you wished I was angry.

YEAH BITCH.

[ClaudelGFX]

Can you say "Psycho Ex Girlfriend"?

HAHHAHAHAHAHA ! rofl sry that just blow the candy :))

I would cry
YEAH BITCH.

Rofl, i for one simply ignore cry babies.

[KayleighKins]

^ Like I give a shit?

rofl rofl rofl

Also, I know you are busy killing presidents and whatnot, but you should probably try to find where you left your sense of humor.

It's dry.

It's great.

[pinacoolada]

i love him, and if he loved me he wouldnt DO shit like get a massage from another girl.

If you loved him, you wouldn't be this mad. I don't care how "girls are" where you live.

[*Spencer*]

What if he were to pay someone to give him a massage, you know like at a spa? How is that different?

I also don't think your topic title fits. Obviously you found out about it either by him telling you or through the grape vine, and it's apparent he didn't deny it, so how does that make him a cheater or a liar?

[ClaudelGFX]

^ Like I give a shit?

rofl rofl rofl

Also, I know you are busy killing presidents and whatnot, but you should probably try to find where you left your sense of humor.

It's dry.

It's great.

I might get busy on you, but get wet first.

[KayleighKins]

I might get busy on you, but get wet first.

Gross. I don't do barbarians.

If you loved him, you wouldn't be this mad. I don't care how "girls are" where you live.

What does it take? 10 seconds to write an angry post? You really think she's that angry? I seriously doubt it. She probably had a burst of angry, angry hate, and then slid back into the normal everyday pissed off, which we all know means she's just hurt.

Seriously guys, stfu about her not liking someone or is untrusting just because she used red font, used the word f**k and made her letters big.

the internet is so srs

srs bsness

[Enigma87]

I agree you are overreacting...but i do understand how you feel..its pretty hard too let it slide like its no big deal.Just talk to him and tell him you dont like it and hopefully he will respect that your not ok with girls rubbing on him...but its defiantly not worth breaking up over

[KayleighKins]

^ Unless she feels like she's unable to cope with these types of things that he decides to pull and act like they are ok.

If she feels like breaking up with him, then it's probably a good idea for her to.

[ClaudelGFX]

And you are? the photographer ? rofl. go get wet with yer dildo and let people post w/e they want.

I wonder where this little dummie is actually from :))) mars moon ?:))

[orgasm]

^ haha, I was thinking the same thing.

And to the topic - maybe you should chill a little. I mean, I've gotten a neck massage from a guy before and it was the furthest thing from flirting. I mean, ew.

At least he didn't have, like,... an upper-thigh cramp.

[blacknailpolish]

Whoa, girl, calm down... really now, its a neck massage? "Where you live" is that like the equivalent of a blow job? Seriously, get over yourself and let it go.

[Crash2]

I agree with everyone here. Calm down, it shouldn't be that big of a deal. If it was just a neck massage and nothing else, I don't see a problem.

Try talking to him and keep an open mind.

[*Podomaht*]

jesus you're annoying.

[KayleighKins]

Psh, I guess I just think of neck messages as crazy erotic because they are to me. I won't go into it, but neck massages are my equivalent to a blowjob.

I'm actually blushing saying that, but yeah. I can't have people touching my back. I don't know, it's just really sensitive. And--yeah, hard pushing.

Anyway.

I'm just saying that I'm not the only one. My last boyfriend was the same way.

Neck massages are f**king hot man.

[LittleMissSunshi...]

well if there was something suspicious OTHER THAN neck massages you could go ballistic. but if this relationship is for 2 years, don't you guys have a trust level? if you love him that much, and dido for him too, you shouldn't have nothing to worry about. relationships are about trust, if he gets it frequently then you can go really mad. but for this, you can let it slide..

[queen]

what you folks gotta understand is people have different limits and expectations out of a relationship. there are girls who wouldn't even stand for their boyfriends to LOOK at anyone. then there are some girls who let their boyfriends kiss their friends goodbye on the lips. people have different values. if she considers having neck massages to be disrespectful, then understand why she's so pissed off.

however, i do think that should've been communicated earlier in the relationship. it should've been clear to him what would piss you off. but then again, since he did tell you about it, i'm pretty sure it's nothing big and he was most likely oblivious. you just gotta trust him.

[nosylilme]

Yeah I understand, though. I would be f**king pissed off too if some girl did that. Honestly, if I get a stiff neck, I don't ask a guy to massage my neck for me. No, I just stretch it around and deal. It IS disrespectful, and it IS hurtful, but it is NOT worth ruining a relationship over. Talk it out.

agreed.

I'd be pretty mad too, but not enough to end the relationship. Just calm down a bit and have a talk with him. Tell him about how you feel about the whole situation.

[Pumpx3itup]

Haha Neck massage is cheating?
Uhmm.. I thought I over reacted
when my bf made out with my best
friend...
Thats what I consider cheating...
UNless the massage was very sexual.

[*Uronacid*]

OK. so remember how i was DESTROYED that my boyfriend went away, well now im more pissed off because the little c**t was getting "neck massages" from some WHORE.

W T F?! 2 f**king years and its ok to get neck massages from some girl? i dont think so!

FDSJGHASDFJKLGH im sofa king PISSED off.

Accoring to him he had STIFF NECK and he needed it. I could care less what he f**king needed. he could have just done nothing about it. man f**k this shit. f**k him i cant f**king forgive him for some dumb shit like that.

If I did something like that id be HUNG, ohh but its dandy when he does it. a-hole.

What would you have done?

*sorry for cussing so much im pretty pissed off.

LOL, what the f**k. You're ex sounds like the dumbest mother fucker alive. I think you should have sex with his "best friend", and then send him a card with a picture of his dick inside of you with a message that says, "OMG, he is so much bigger and better than you were."

Good idea?

Holly, do you want a neck massage? By the way, yesterday I had some girl wash my feet because they were dirty. I swear, you are the dumbest bitch alive. I'm going to give you some advice.

I think that you should tie your ex to a leash if you don't want to get upset with him. Seeing as you say that he would get upset with you if you received a neck massage from a boy, I think you should tie a leash around both of your necks, and then tie those leashes together. I think that will fix you two.

Fuck, if you can't trust him in the relationship, at least try and trust him.

[Smilessss]

so what? its just a neck massage right? you shouldnt be freaking out over your boyfriend, youre HIS girl you know? you should know that he wouldnt be cheating on you when he really loves you, you should trust him as he does the same with you, i mean if some girl massaged my boyfriend, sure i would be jealous, but at the same time i trusted him with all my heart because i know that he loves me so much and never anyoneelse, come on girl, you gotta be strong, if all of us could do it then you could too

[ClaudelGFX]

Rofl, other ppl get back 2gether after they had sex with other partners and you winne about a massage duh.