Recieving an Apology, too late Options

[AimeeLynn]

Ok, Don't you hate if you had an ex give you an apology after a long period of time of ignoring and when you are over him/her? Then all the pain just comes back?



Maybe it's only me but it hurts just thinking about it.

What about you? What do you think?

[shiftieeyedpnoi]

What's worse is when they start to act with you like they did back when you two were still going out. Even when they're already in another relationship.

[AimeeLynn]

^ I know exactly what I mean.

[KayleighKins]

I know exactly what you mean. I think if my ex randomly called me up and apologized I'd break down.

[pinayprincess]

What's worse is when they start to act with you like they did back when you two were still going out. Even when they're already in another relationship.

yahhh.. kind of happening to me right now though my ex is my best friend.. we bring the past back up A LOT... and he always apologies for the times he'd hurt me but its okay now... it doesnt really bring up back the bad memories b/c we have soo many good ones; i mean hes my best friend! even though we arent together, being friends is almost good enough for me =]

[xSybarite]

At first, all the bad memories and the anger come back out but after the initial flood of emotions, it gets better. In my personal experience, getting an apology that is too late is better than not getting one at all.

[*Moderator*]

I had to do that the other day, it wasn't very pretty. I ended up in tears but at least i got it off my chest.

[xFaith]

That would suck.
I would think:
"Why didnt you think of that earlier?"

[*Michelle*]

I think:

"Haha, TOO LATE! na-nee-na-nee-poo-poo"

:P

If it's too late, then it's too late. I'm not going to change how I feel even after their pathetic attempt at an apology. Well, I might change a tiny bit, but still... people gotta move quickly to keep their relationships.

Kind of reminds me of Anne in Valley of the Dolls. (EVERYTHING reminds me of that book since I read it)

[ashxx69xbaby]

yes... the last time i seen my x which was in march of this year he said srry for breaking up w/me and everything.... it brought back A LOT of pain. but he never really told me the real reason but its done and over w/i found a new guy that i love

[animalinside]

Im a sucker when it comes to ex's especially if im bored.

Last year, i was doing homework in my room, got a call from a girl i went out with maybe 6 months ago.

Long story short, she got into my pants that night

[*Sandraaa*]

If my ex should call me up and apologize for everything, I'd be in shock but I don't think I'd break up with him because to me, he'll never change. No matter what.

[ClaudelGFX]

I do act the same way with everyone, no matter if its one of my Ex'es or someone else. I tend to let people see with their own eyes when i'm sorry about something, so i don't really use the word that much.

[xburnoutx00]

well. this happened to me this weekend. It wasn't really too late though, I was just waiting for it for almost a year and a half. I forgave him [ he did a lot of stuff that needed apoligizing ] & now I feel some sort of closure and I can get on with my life.

[*Uronacid*]

Alright... I think about it, and this actually makes me have feelings... :/

I'm sorry this happened to you. I know what your talking about, but it kind of worked out between me and Holly. We had a huge dip in our relationship a while back, and I did some stupid things... luckily she's who she is. I hope we never take each other for granted again.

[lovescream]

When I first broke up with my bf, he thought it was a joke and laughed. He then stopped and realised it was serious. I really didn't wanna break up with him, but I don't know what came over me. In fact, it took me weeks just to break up with him because I was too scared to. Well, it was complicated, but when I said it, I felt like something pierced my heart and I sorta regret it. Like I said, it was complicated. Friendship problems that involved him and my bestie and stuff.

And then after a few weeks of awkwardness, just came outta nowhere, hugged me, kissed me on the cheek, said bye, and I was like "wtf?!?!?!" We didn't reallly ignore each other though. We both just avoided. >_>;;

[AimeeLynn]

^ That's what happened to me! Well he dumped me then we wanted to hang just as friends then he's an ass so he kiss me and stuff. Then he was like "bye". I was like wtf?
Then he came out of the blue and tried to talk to me like nothing happened and I was like no. We can't be friends after that. Sorry.

[EmoEyelinerx]

What's worse is when they start to act with you like they did back when you two were still going out. Even when they're already in another relationship.

Yeah, I hate when they do that. It also makes me like think about what it was like when we were going out and its really confusing.