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[manaway]

alright well theres this girl ive known her for a while now
she works for my dad and everything is fine we never fight we kinda f**k around while we work like picking on eachother n shit then finally she just graduated and i went to her graduation party

Well she was drunk like a hour or so before i got there so she was pretty sober when i was there but i showed her my car n everything and we started talking hugging n everything then were sitting around her fire and shes sitting on my lap i had my hands all over her she didnt car she liked it cause she never said anything we started kissing here and there

and i was like your going away to college now what am i going to do without u here and shes like dont worry ill come back just for you

the whole time this was happening we ended up making out a couple times n shit and her boyfriend was inside sleeping i no she wants it over with him cause the kids young n immature but today when i tried to call her she never picked up i left a voice mail telling her to call me about hanging out later but nothing ever went down

then i called 2 more times to see if she would answer like later on tonight and she ignored both of them

i dont no what to do i think all this is bullshit i dont no if shes leading me on or iff she was with her bf the times i called

what do all u think i should do?

[*Spencer*]

girls that play games = not worth it

if she's going to sit here and do things with you, but then later realize it was a mistake, it'd probably be better for you to just let her have her space because it's apparent she doesn't care about your feelings, nor does she care about what's going to happen in the future.

[LadyXTor]

I think it was just a one night fling. Move on to someone better and unattached.

[kasraka]

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[ashxx69xbaby]

girls like that are just too dumb to realize what they had. she played ya sweetie srry to say it but its the truth && coming from a girls point of view.... it was just a fling && its not worth holding onto at all

[KayleighKins]

I think she really, really regrets it.

She's probably trying to keep away from you due to her own guilty feelings. But you know what? Don't jump to conclusions. Besides, nobody falls in love in one night. Of course she wouldn't "come back just for you".

[*Steven*]

Or maybe she was still drunk?

[*Michelle*]

Let her go. There's no point in continuing a relationship with someone who would cheat for you.

[manaway]

its so funny cause i knew she had 2 boy friends but she broke up with one of them that night n then f**kin sat on my lap like 30 min after that

i dont no if she is really playing me or if she doesnt want anything right now cause of college n shit cause shes going like 2 hours away and i no shes breaking up with her boyfriend for a fact so i really dont no we always get along better then me and my x gf used to HAHAHA but i dont no

i should get over it but then again i have to see her when she comes back every thursday and friday and work with her and i swear i wont be able to do that cause ill be pissed

[*Spencer*]

the fact that you just said she had 2 boyfriends that night and later moved on to you shows that she's not responsible and she shouldn't be taken seriously. stop letting her play games with you because that's all she's doing. she loves the attention and you're giving it to her.

i should get over it but then again i have to see her when she comes back every thursday and friday and work with her and i swear i wont be able to do that cause ill be pissed

then be pissed. she played with your feelings, you have every right to hate her. it might be hard to ignore someone, but once they get the hint that you don't like them, they'll stop bothering you.

[dustbunny]

the ONLY thing you need to do: GET OVER HER for so many reasons

she had two boyfriends before? that should say something about her personality...

[*Steven*]

You need to get over her if you're going to be working with her.

[animalinside]

oh my goodness dude....why the heck are you crying? you're getting freebies without any of the baggage.

Would you wanna sit with her while she talks about nothing for hours...or keep things like they are now, while you search for a girl you would actually consider getting serious with?
If you guys were actually very close before all this and your feelings were deeply rooted, then i would understand, but y'all are co-workers man...go with the flow and reap the rewards as they come.

[manaway]

haha man im no where near crying trust me i just dont feel right doing shit with girl everytime i do im not kidding i feel like a huge scum bag when im not going out with them i hate the feeling even if i went out with the girl for a day -whenever i would feel better about doing shit with her

i dont no should i ask her whats up like if shes pissed about it or something