i let her play me., all the way til the end |
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there was this girl who i always thought of as a friend, and nothing more. then one day she tells me that she has feelings for me so we just hit it off. but in the back of my mind i knew that she was a liar. i guess i was just looking for something real, but it seems as though i stepped out of reality.
long story short -i asked her out, she said yes -now i cant tell if she was playing me or not -maybe im in denial -she went to colorado for a few months -wrote me a not that said when she comes back she hopes that we can be together again and that she loves me what should i do??? haha...im so confused. everyone i know tells me to just let her go. should i??? |
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Aug 3 2007, 09:15 AM
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 forgive & forget Group: Member Posts: 176 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 551,100 |
it's your decision to make..
but just curious.. why would u think she's a liar.. what made u think she was like that kind of person.. but oh well if u really love that girl.. then you'd decide to be with her again.. but if not then don't.. why would u be with her again if you don't love her.. ....0_= love not too much, but real.. prepare to get hurt, but don't complain.. love is not being happy all the time... feel free to cry for a while.. but love like you've never lost your smile..0_= |
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Aug 3 2007, 03:18 PM
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 [leave blank] Group: Member Posts: 142 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 536,546 |
Once you asked her out you had a feeling she was a liar? Well that just means that you can't quite trust her. And I agree with xcorphz's answer. It's your choice.
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Aug 3 2007, 03:32 PM
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 101708 <3 (: Group: Member Posts: 253 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 382,431 |
why would you say that she's a liar? i guess it all depends on how much you love and trust her. just keep your guards up and wait for hr i guess?
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Aug 3 2007, 03:46 PM
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From what you've said, you haven't given me any reason to believe you shouldn't trust her. Honestly, it doesn't seem like she was playing you. Did something else happen to make you think that?
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Aug 3 2007, 03:51 PM
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She's cheating on you. Break up with her and get with that slut from your church.
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Aug 3 2007, 04:45 PM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
Liar?
Did she lie to you? On the note, you said that she hopes to be together again when she comes back. Does that mean you two are broken up or does it mean that she misses you because she's away? So far, I think you're simply speculating. Nothing's definite yet. Find out more. |
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Aug 3 2007, 05:12 PM
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 for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
QUOTE(false @ Aug 3 2007, 04:51 PM)  She's cheating on you. Break up with her and get with that slut from your church. LOL, good advice! |
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Aug 3 2007, 05:56 PM
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 I know you're gonna save me Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,431 |
I'm quite positive I have no clue what's going on. All of what you've told us about her sounds just fine: she told you she likes you, you asked her out, she said yes, she went to colorado and told you that she loves you....where does the lying and "playing you" part come in?
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Aug 3 2007, 10:35 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
i guess it just depends on how you feel. do you feel like you can trust her? what's the point in a relationship if you have no trust for her? my last boyfriend was always accused of cheating and lying, but i took that risk. i let his past get to me, and now i'm miserable without him, but now, i choose to trust him and i'm willing to take that risk of getting hurt because i love him. so are you willing to take that risk as well? can you trust her? if you can't then you might as well move on.
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Aug 4 2007, 11:21 PM
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let her go. blah..blah..end of the topic.
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Aug 4 2007, 11:25 PM
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It seems like you dont trust her. Perhaps you just have a bad past? Has she done anything to you that makes you think she's a liar/player?
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Aug 5 2007, 05:18 PM
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 BeUnique Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031 |
um if u dont trust her..(cause u t hink she lies) then u should mve on.. but it sounds like you dont mind being played? thats what i understood..
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