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 Jul 28 2007, 12:19 PM
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K so I posted this about 2 weeks ago and was just wondering now if I could have some more advice if you guys/gals want to give some. This first part is what I posted a couple weeks ago so you can see my situation.
*K so well there is this girl i like (common situation for me ) And well over the past few months seems we've been getting closer ex. we talk more often, she jogs with me now and then, she asks me to visit her at work. So you know everything is gonig great, I was thinking about asking her out cause i don't know if she really does like me or is just teasing me *shrugs*. So i hear a couple of days ago that she met some guy out of the blue and she kinda likes him. I don't know im just confused a bit and stuff now. Like i've been really ncie to her and stuff, and there when she had some problems. And iunno kinda just goes out and likes some random guy she met for 15 minutes. Her friend told me she doesn't know what she wants, either to have fun, be in a relationship, or be single. I don't know just kidna cofusing if she does not know what she wants but might start dating another guy. *i guess the random thoughts and choices of a teenage girl* So i guess my question is what should i do? Like i don't know if this thing with that other guy is gonna last. Last relationship she was in lasted about 3 days. So should i just be a really good friend right now, wait it out see how things last and be there for her when she needs me, or should i just say *screw it* and move on. I have liked this girl for a while now.* OK so now I'm pretty sure she is either having more feelings for this other guy or is actually dating him. The only thing I want to know is what should i do now. Yes i still have feelings for her, can't really stop what you feel about someone (I'm sure you all were young once). So yea should I either You know still be there for her when she needs me and be her friend still and stuff and show her i still care and when maybe if they break up comfort her and be there for her and show her I'm always gonig to be there. Or B should i just cut off now and talk to her but not as frequent and try to see her less? Thanks for the advice 
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Jul 28 2007, 12:37 PM
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*Influential Guitarist & Inspiring Writer* Group: Official Member Posts: 1,217 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,134 |
this really depends on you, maybe it's you who is taking it the wrong way. She might be getting closer to you and you to her you might want to consider this might also be a way she acts around very good friends with no love involved, you didn't mention if there was some kind of love in your friendship right now, she can just be toying with you to get your attention to make a move, maybe she really likes you but how can you tell, if you really cut ties with her and ignore her there ain't gonna be nothing but hearts broken for you and her, so decide on that if I blank her out how would it affect me, will it change the way I live and think? If I were in your position I'd still be there no matter what, why throw away a friendship that has been good and is still getting stronger? Just think on it, try to think more outside than what your feelings say, not all the time are your feelings right.
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Jul 28 2007, 01:04 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,876 |
Thanks for your post and opinion, we all can't always listen to thsoe stupid voices in our heads that tell us to act or do something a certain way...........no i'm not crazy
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Jul 28 2007, 01:12 PM
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*Influential Guitarist & Inspiring Writer* Group: Official Member Posts: 1,217 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,134 |
well its more being cautious think before you act dont let your heart rush out and take advantage of you.
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Jul 28 2007, 01:15 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,876 |
lol don't worry about that, im taking things slower than a freakin sloth now. my ex basically took my heart and well stepped on it countless time with a high heel lmao but that's in the past
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Jul 28 2007, 01:17 PM
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*Influential Guitarist & Inspiring Writer* Group: Official Member Posts: 1,217 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,134 |
wow violent, but at least you have a clear mind to think on, i wish you luck.
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Jul 28 2007, 01:19 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,876 |
If i was irish i wouldn't need luck......but sadly i ain't irish lmao so thanks
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Jul 31 2007, 04:27 PM
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I see. Well, do not cut her out of your life, please don't. I'd suggest you tell her that you've got feelings for her but still intend to be her friend no matter what.
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Jul 31 2007, 04:38 PM
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she's young. she going to experiment. let her do her. if it was meant to be it probably would of already happened by now. just take it in stride and ask yourself would you rather have her in your life for a long time or a 3 day dating thing.
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Jul 31 2007, 08:23 PM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
I think you should still be her friend.
Just be there for her, and maybe she'll see that throughout her multiple relationships, you are the one who has always been there for her. You have to be a good friend first and foremost. Be supportive of her, wait it out, and who knows? Maybe you will end up meeting a better girl along the way. |
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