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 Jul 26 2007, 02:45 PM
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Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 427,137  |
so i started talking to this guy and after we hung out he stopped calling me we talked right after we hung out and it seemed fine but now he doesnt call me and everytime i send him a message he just reads it. i dont know what to do
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Jul 26 2007, 02:49 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
hmm...sounds like you're being way too clingy. stop trying too hard and just forget him! honestly, he's prolly trying to send you the message to leave him alone. just stop texting him, calling him or whatever. next time you hang out, make sure you look HOT, make eye contact, smile, and just go about normal buisness. make hime want you. for guys it's all about the thrill of the chase. when it becomes too easy that's when they give up. make it hard for him.
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Jul 26 2007, 02:52 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 427,137 |
thankyou!!!! i hope it works yea i jus wrote him twice . never texted or called him but yea i will do that
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Jul 26 2007, 02:54 PM
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Well obviously it seems he is trying to avoid you for some reason. maybe he has started talking to someone else. He could at least replied back or something. Id say forget him, there more fishies in the sea.
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Jul 26 2007, 03:12 PM
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Senior Member Group: Banned Posts: 32 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 551,063 |
So much for being sophisticated..
let go of him, he probably doesn't wanna be around 24/7 |
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Jul 26 2007, 03:17 PM
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 Naomi loves you. Y'all may call me NaNa Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,925 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 427,774 |
Everyone pretty much said it all, just forget him, there is plenty fishes in the sea.
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Jul 26 2007, 03:49 PM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
The next time you see him, act like you never wrote this topic.
Meaning, act like it never bothered you the fact that he didn't reply to your messages. You can't force him to do something he doesn't want to. Maybe he's just not that into you. |
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Jul 26 2007, 03:58 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 70 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 543,006 |
yea people pretty mcuh said it all ignore him sooner or later hes going to come back they all do.act lyk ur not into him and stuff. trust me same thing happen to me. he'll come around
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Jul 26 2007, 04:50 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 427,137 |
thankyou all very helpful
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Jul 26 2007, 04:52 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 427,137 |
oh yeah and i also jus edit my friends(myspace) and took him off my friend list. my page is private so maybe if one day he goes on my page and realizes he aint my friend anymore then i dont know maybe he will care
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Jul 26 2007, 06:07 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 247 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,723 |
QUOTE(Sophisticated_Ladyiie @ Jul 26 2007, 02:52 PM)  oh yeah and i also jus edit my friends(myspace) and took him off my friend list. my page is private so maybe if one day he goes on my page and realizes he aint my friend anymore then i dont know maybe he will care a little harsh.. kinda. it's just myspace :P but i guess if u guys don't talk on it, and you two don't know eachother that well. there's no reason to keep him as a friend. |
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Jul 26 2007, 06:19 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 7,149 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 213,509 |
I remember reading this in a magazine, if you hang out with a guy one day, and never talk the next day[etc], it said that they are not interested in you anymore. IDK about your situation though. They'll only reply to a text if they ACUALLY like that girl.
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Jul 26 2007, 06:20 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 427,137 |
ok this is the dealo we ment on myspace because he wrote to me and we had like a week conversation. it was cool and everything..now i didnt know him know him but i always seen him at parties and stuff.he called me and we talked on the phone.then we hung out at a party and everything was good. he even came to my house and we talked in his car for hours. he even walked me up to my door. then we even talked when he went home from being at my house. but i let him go because i told him he needed to get sleep and i told him to just call me in the morning. he never did.and then i wrote to him on myspace and everything seemed fine. but then when he would tell me he had to go i would tell him well call me later then. and he never would. so then i wrote to him again and asked why he was ignoring me. and then i had my friend write to him at the same time to see if i was tripping or if he was ignoring me. well he replied to her message and never read mine. so then that just pissed me off so i decided to delete him as my friend .
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Jul 26 2007, 06:25 PM
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Naomi loves you. Y'all may call me NaNa Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,925 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 427,774 |
I would delete him too. Get you friend to ask him some questions.
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Jul 26 2007, 07:10 PM
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Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
Deleting him on MySpace won't really do anything, but it's something.
You really didn't have to ask why he was ignoring you. That's a sign of neediness - nobody likes that. But at least now you know that he's not worth it. |
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| *Michelle* |
Jul 26 2007, 07:43 PM
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Just let him go... it seems like he's irritated with you. :T Or you can try to contact him in person and ask him what's up. It could be many different things, but there are plenty of other guys out there, so don't waste your time trying too hard.
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| *Sandraaa* |
Jul 27 2007, 03:24 PM
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You're worth way better than that jerk. Move on.
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Jul 30 2007, 01:12 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(sweetest-emotion @ Jul 26 2007, 03:49 PM) hmm...sounds like you're being way too clingy. stop trying too hard and just forget him! honestly, he's prolly trying to send you the message to leave him alone. just stop texting him, calling him or whatever. next time you hang out, make sure you look HOT, make eye contact, smile, and just go about normal buisness. make hime want you. for guys it's all about the thrill of the chase. when it becomes too easy that's when they give up. make it hard for him. I agree completly. |
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