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 Jul 20 2007, 07:28 PM
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FIRST MOVE????
Should the guy make the first move? the girl? or does it matter? |
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Jul 20 2007, 07:56 PM
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I would say the guy, I guess since maybe guys want to be like in charge or something, it's traditional though...
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Jul 20 2007, 07:59 PM
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personally i`d say guy . but i think i made the first move in my relationship !
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Jul 20 2007, 09:50 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 247 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,723 |
it doesn't matter.
i guess the guys usually make the first move. but girls do it a lot too. |
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Jul 20 2007, 10:23 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 547,364 |
i think girls should make it, most guys like when the girl takes charge. it shows them that YOU actually want something and not just going along with what they do
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Jul 20 2007, 10:32 PM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
I'd like the guy to make the first move.
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| *stephinika* |
Jul 21 2007, 02:53 AM
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Either way. Depends on the personalities of the two people and the situation really.
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Jul 21 2007, 03:01 AM
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 we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
one ,two, three, to the four, i am a pimp ,so i dont get no hoes.
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Jul 21 2007, 03:07 AM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
It's whatever comes naturally. If you want to kiss him, go for it. He's probably too afraid to make it himself, so unless you flat out tell him you want to kiss him, he's just gonna question himself. Ya'll have been dating for 10 months, GO FOR IT WOMAN!
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| *Sandraaa* |
Jul 21 2007, 03:10 AM
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It depends on the situation. Personally, I HATE waiting for guys to tell me they like me. I want to get started with it so sometimes I make the first move. I am not a patient person.
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Jul 21 2007, 05:59 AM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
Uh...
depends? Usually, when I feel like it, I'll make the move. 
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Jul 21 2007, 10:46 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
I'd let the guy, but if you want to, go for it.
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| *MyMichelle* |
Jul 21 2007, 11:45 AM
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It depends on who is the dominant person in the relationship. I'm old-fashioned, so I would prefer the guy to make the first move. But I got my first boyfriend by asking him out the day I saw him (in 7th grade). Keke.
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Jul 21 2007, 01:16 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
It doesent matter. Usually the guy does though. I personally make the first move though, guys like it when the girl takes charge. It shows that you actually want something more in the relationship and your not just going with what they want.
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Jul 21 2007, 05:03 PM
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we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
yes its better if the girl goes for it first, guys dont want to come of as being creepy and kissing when the girl isnt ready.
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Jul 21 2007, 05:19 PM
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we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
well atleast help the guy out and give him signs for him to make it.
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Jul 21 2007, 05:56 PM
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I don't think it matters at all.
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Jul 22 2007, 09:28 PM
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 I know you're gonna save me Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,431 |
QUOTE(brownsugar @ Jul 21 2007, 05:24 PM)  I like people to ask me first. Like, "Can I kiss you?" If I say no, then it's a good thing that you didn't go for it. I would've pulled away from you, and if I reallllyyyy didn't like you--I would bite you. If I say yes, then aren't you glad you asked? Then you don't have to worry about anything. The whole asking thing ("Can I kiss you?") is okay I guess if you two aren't already dating, but if I'm dating someone and anticipating a kiss and its a nice moment and all and the guy ruins it by asking me instead of just growing a pair and going for it, I'd be more than a little annoyed (if you haven't guessed, this has happened to me more than once). Anyway, usually I end up making the first move cause the guy ends up being too shy, but those relationships have all ended badly. The ones in which the other guy initiated the whole thing all work out better for me, which I guess proves that I'm more of a match with confident guys. It really all just depends. |
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Jul 23 2007, 10:07 AM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
I've never been the first to ask out a guy, haha. I have no balls for that. Plus, it doesn't look as bad if a girl rejects a guy than if a guy rejects a girl - people always feel more sorry for the girl. I can't stand that.
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Jul 23 2007, 11:17 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,011 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 533,410 |
I think it depends on personality.
Like who has to be dominant in a relationship (sometimes girls you know...) =] |
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