I have this problem.., Falling inlove.. |
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 Jul 14 2007, 06:35 AM
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I have this very close friend, she is 24 yrs old, and I am only 18. Whithin a month, our bond is inseparable. This is because she had a financial problem lately, and i was the one who was able to helped her. One time, I invited her to watch a movie. And then I realize, she is really sweet with me. I think, i am falling for her, however, my heart broke when i learned that she has a boyfriend, a 3 year relationship and she is engaged. One time, she texted me that her relationship is rather shaky and what if she falls out. i am really confused if she feels a brotherly love or a different one? Should i fight for my feelings?
I will gladly accept comments and advices.. if parts are not clear, questions can be asked from the thread.. (.!_!.) |
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Jul 14 2007, 03:36 PM
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 Peggy. Group: Member Posts: 2,508 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 214,025 |
Well, it's a "what-if" situation. Does that mean she still hasn't fallen out of that relationship with her boyfriend who she is engaged with? Have you ever confessed your feelings to her? If you have never done so, confess to her a while after (not RIGHT after) she breaks up with her boyfriend. But....if her relationship soon becomes more stable, then I guess you should move on and find another girl who is as sweet as her. She might feel a brotherly love for you, since she seems quite dependent on you.
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Jul 16 2007, 01:23 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
She pretty much said it all ^
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Jul 17 2007, 09:20 AM
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 people are wrong. women ARE objects. Group: Member Posts: 189 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 540,281 |
f**k her and break them up
take action man dont be a bitch ass nice guy and wait for it. |
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| *ersatz* |
Jul 17 2007, 04:18 PM
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Wait, she's a very close friend and you had no idea she was engaged?...
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Jul 17 2007, 04:46 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(ersatz @ Jul 17 2007, 02:18 PM)  Wait, she's a very close friend and you had no idea she was engaged?... Lol, I was thinking the same thing. As mentioned above, her breaking up with her boyfriend is a "what-if" situation. Instead of pouring all your time, engery, and love into a possibility, try to find someone who isn't engaged. |
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| *Mercy* |
Jul 17 2007, 05:14 PM
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Engagements are kinda iffy.
Shes being really silly if shes actually going to go through for a marriage if her relationship is "shaky".But dont expect for her to leave him for you if its that serious. Start looking at your options mate. |
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Jul 17 2007, 05:22 PM
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 Steph Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 459,939 |
You might need to look at the situation from her point of view.
She's in a shaky relationship. Her boyfriend is obviously upsetting her in some way. I agree with the idea that she is dependent on you. You may have some qualities that her boyfriend doesn't. Maybe she's finding casual time with you because he isn't. Maybe the fact that you're so much younger than her makes her feel dominant in this friendship thats mimicking a relationship, and she's feeling small in her actual relationship. You cant be that person for her. It will only hurt you both, and land her in a situation with her boyfriend. You need to confront her about it. Ask her why she hangs out with you even though she's with him. Ask a girl questions, and if she confides in you, you'll most certainly get answers. |
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Jul 17 2007, 08:21 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 545,704 |
Thanks for the replies and comments.. (.!_!.)
Well, she is the type of a friend that needs to be ask first before talking.. |
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