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 Jun 15 2004, 01:22 PM
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 Tina + Tommy  Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575  |
i've been going out with this guy for at least a week but i think that he doesnt love me anymore because from what i think hes been ignoring me and everytime i im him online he says brb and then signs off. when he signs back on he doesnt talk to me. he use to call me every night..but now he doesnt even bother to call..im not sure if hes lost feelings or anything..he told me that he also have feelings for his ex..so im jus so confused right now.i dont know what im suppose to do..
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Jun 15 2004, 01:36 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
hmm, sounds familiar- kinda like my ex. anyways, confront him about it- ask him if he still likes you, and if he does, then ask him why he's doing all those things.
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Jun 15 2004, 01:40 PM
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so lemme get this straight. youve being going out with him for a week and you guys are already in love, isnt that a bit rushing it? maybe hes been preoccupied, and wants to get things right. or maybe your just a bit to clingy with him, and if he likes his ex and if you "truely love him" you should let him go... personally i dont believe in OHH HES THE ONE, theres always other guys out there =/
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Jun 15 2004, 01:43 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
A week though? If he's already losing things between you two after only a week, maybe he's not worth it. But, if you feel that you'd like to stay together with him, you need to figure out how he feels about his ex and you. If he still has feelings for his ex, then I think you two should have a break. He can't have both of you.
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Jun 15 2004, 05:09 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
yehh i used to feel like that with an ex... but you need to talk to him wut he really wants.. he needs to be straight out!!!
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Jun 15 2004, 05:29 PM
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 ::<YuMMIES>:: Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,479 |
well i dont think u love him in just one week i think that u really really like him...my ex was like that two after the second week he started hanging out more with his friends instead of me then he broke it off the third week.....i think u should talk to him and tell him to make up his mind if he does not want anything with u to be man enough and tell you because u cant be waiting for him and loving him when his thoughts are on someone else that isnt you. good luck and dont worrie there are other guys =)
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Jun 15 2004, 06:08 PM
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Hmm...how old is he? If he's not mature already, he'd probably say the three words even though he doesn't mean it. Maybe you should confront him in person again. If he comes up with a lame excuse, then I suggest you break up with him. I mean, you don't deserve that. There are plenty of other people out there that would treat you even better.
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Jun 15 2004, 09:47 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
you really have to talk to him about this. not online, talk to him in person. that way you could see his facial expressions and make out what he really feels through his body language. and if he continues ignoring you then, break up with him. He's not worth the pain. I hope things get better.
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Jun 15 2004, 10:19 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
so its only been a week? omg CHILLLL....
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Jun 16 2004, 11:20 AM
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 <3~Tara~<3 Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491 |
if u juzz be there for him things will get better
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Jun 16 2004, 11:20 AM
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<3~Tara~<3 Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491 |
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its bcuz u guys arent dat close yet i mean juzz a week give it some time.... |
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Jun 16 2004, 12:14 PM
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sry gurl but a week long relationship doesnt mean that u love eachother... thats just being naive... love is when u are willing to kill yourself for that person... what u have is just infatuation for the a$$hole... sry i called him that but thats wut he is... if he really "loves" you then he wouldn't be thinking bout another gurl. my advice: dump the pig, he's a loser and u deserve so much better than a pig for a bf... ~regards CT
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Jun 16 2004, 01:14 PM
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Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
thankz everyone fer your advice it realli helps...i jus need some time to get over him..
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