CAN GUYS TELL..., if its your gf's first time kissing... Options

[lalalalala12345]

so i was wondering if a guy can tell if its their gf's first time kissing. i heard that a girl can tell if its their bf's first time. but what about the other way around?

okay, so i was wondering this because iv'e only kissed one guy. and i only kissed him once. we were more of sex buddies. but that was all the way back in january. the both of us didnt know how to kiss so we both made our mistakes with everything we did. we didnt have actual sex so please dont make comments about the whole sex buddy thing. however, i read on the internet how to kiss... even if i read on the internet how to kiss do you still think that a guy would be able to tell that it's almost my first time kissing?

i think i might have seen a topic about this in the girls locker room about how girls can tell that its their bf's first time kissing. i dont think their was a topic about if a guy can tell though.

sorry if my wording is confusing or anything... i posted this in the guys locker room because i wanted to get my feedback from the guys.

[brokenxwingsx]

Wait, you only kissed the guy once, but you have some kind of sexual relationship with him? I don't understand. If you didn't actually have sex, then what is it?

[lalalalala12345]

we had more of the safe-sex he told me that he didnt like kissing so we didnt really do it much.

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

Wait I am confused.

You can't be sex buddys if you don't have sex. -_-
Do you mean make out buddys?
Kissing and sex are 2 way different things. O_o

I think they can tell just as girls can tell if guys don't know how to kiss.

[lalalalala12345]

^^^ we would like jack off together and help eachother jack off. but this is besides the point coz im not worried about that. im just worried about the kissing.

[EmoEyelinerx]

Wow..you would help eachother jack off? hahaha

Im a girl and I can tell..sorta if its the guys first time kissing.

[Aerjae]

If they're horrible, then its their first time kissing.

[cherry90]

myfirst kiss was absolute shit!! but then it was my first kiss to and i dunno wat she thought bout me!!!!

i mean fing is it cld b a guys 1st time or 5th time ands they cld still b shit!

one ex of mine i know she had got off wid other guys but she was naff

so i mean it depends!!

[*Flair*]

Hahahahaha. Jack off buddies? Right. Annyyhoooo ... I don't know. I can't remember my first kiss with a boy. I haven't been a guy's 'first kiss' since my first.

Although, if the guy is somewhat reluctant or doesn't 'open' his mouth much, that might give you a clue? Like I said, I'm not sure.

[omgomgKATHY]

LOLOLOL XDD

and yes, guys can most likely tell aswell.

[xBUTTMUNCHx]

first off i would just tell the guy i have never kissed, nor been kissed.
saves the hassle of feeling akward when he finds out i dont know how.

[KayleighKins]

He didn't....like kissing?

Yeah he def was a first time kisser then. Or he doesn't find you attractive but instead thinks of you as his own personal sex doll.

[oqqusham]

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[MrStrife]

so i was wondering if a guy can tell if its their gf's first time kissing. i heard that a girl can tell if its their bf's first time. but what about the other way around?

I don't believe that because my first time kissing, my back then girlfriend didn't believe me when I told her that was my first kiss.

[YourSuperior]

This is kind of weird that you had sex before you kissed. But yeah sometimes you can tell if it's a girl's first time kissing a guy.

[illriginal]

It's either their first time kissing, or they still don't know how to kiss. Or maybe they just like the simple little kid kisses... which kills off the mood.

[jennyjenny]

^^^ we would like jack off together and help eachother jack off. but this is besides the point coz im not worried about that. im just worried about the kissing.

wouldn't it be "jack in" for you?

and i wasn't my ex's first girlfriend but he sure did suck at kissing/making out! it seemed so.. sloppy

[*steve330*]

Idno. Only person I ever did anything with was MY first kiss rofl

[karmanat]

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[Chicago]

well, i can't.. haha. i've kissed girls for there first, and some for not and they all seemed the same..

when it comes to making out, i've only done it with one girl and it was both our first.

[xKatt]

Ummmm... does it really matter? If they suck, they suck.

[tr1pp1n]

i can tell if ur a virgin a mile away

[*IVIike*]

yeah it's pretty easy to tell, becuase they suck

[AngelinaTaylor]

So you were sex buddies who didn't have sex? I always knew I sucked at the English language.

[transcendentalis...]

eh.

my ex or whatever the hell he is now and i were each other's first kisses. i didn't believe him when he finally told me i was the first :P he was really good.

aand er.. he knew i had like never done anythingg with any other guys before him, and he was kinda like.. whoaa, was i really your first?! :D

soyeah, it's stupid to assume that guys can just tell.
if you're good, you're good.. if you're not, you're not.

hell, what's there to hide anyway? there's not much of a purpose unless you've been lying about how you've kissed before or anything.

[Spirited Away]

Tee hee. What was the question again... these responses are funny and made me forgot.


Oh... yea, well, if someone has kissed before, he/she should be able to tell if it's his/her partner's first time kissing. It's a pretty natural thing though. If you want to cover up that you lack experience (though I don't know why you care so much), just blame it on nerves when it gets awkward. He'll understand if you're nervous.