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 Jun 15 2004, 10:14 AM
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 Styna  Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047  |
Do u think that internet relationships last and are they just games of cheating?
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Jun 15 2004, 10:17 AM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
I guess it can work for some people if they're really committed to that sort of relationship. I mean, some people have even married people they've met on the internet. I guess for it to work, there also needs to be a lot of trust.
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Jun 15 2004, 10:21 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
roxanne is right .. a lot of trust has to be involved in an on line relationship .. some have worked so far .. and some have gotten together and even married later on ..
but i dunno .. i'm really iffy about the internet relationships because some people don't know what they're getting themselves into .. the person may turn out to be nothing as they make themselves appear through the internet and it's very dangerous .. be careful if you get into an internet relationship and make sure you know who you're talking to before you decide to meet up with them .. i personally wouldn't want an internet relationship because of the risks involved .. =/ |
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Jun 15 2004, 10:24 AM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
i don't really trust internet relationships cuz u can never tell if the person on the other side is really who he/she says they really are u kno? u gotta b really careful
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Jun 15 2004, 11:03 AM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
how do you have a relationship online? when you don't know what that person is doing in real life... example at shcool or whatever...
like meeting a guy first from the internet and then having a person to person relationship from there on is okay, cause you actually get to see that person now... |
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Jun 15 2004, 11:27 AM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
i guess its ok... like i say if you make it work its gonna work!!
 but then again.. do you really feel the chemistry between the two people? sure you can talk when you're online... but how about over the phone? or even in person? the chemistry has to be there!!
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Jun 15 2004, 12:30 PM
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Styna Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047 |
I think i like havin internet relationships it's just that i would neva consider meeting the person in person becus it's to risky.I believe that internet realtionships are not really serious becus u can have many relationships just for fun or for socializing.
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Jun 15 2004, 12:44 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,694 |
i think online relationships are for the people who dont want a real commited realationship at first but you never know what you will get yourself into
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Jun 15 2004, 12:59 PM
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goose bucket. Group: Member Posts: 756 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,411 |
i met someone on vacation 2 years ago and we spent the week together hanging out and getting to know each other and stuff, so we kept things going online for a while... but then school started back and he was going to a co-ed public school for the first time and i didn't want to him to be tied down to someone far away and i myself didn't want to be taken by someone online... so we kinda went our separate ways, but he's still my friend, so in our situation it *kinda* worked... but a word of warning: sometimes people are really different and uninhibited online... but in real life, they're just not the person you got to know online. so yeah, best of luck to everyone considering an online friendship/romantic endeavor.
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Jun 15 2004, 01:03 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i dont believe in online relationships, if i had one ill jus play around cuz i believe that u know how the person is wen u see them or hear them, i can say "i dont know" in a normal way where i really dont know teh answer .. or "i dont knowwwwwwww" and change the tone of it and it'll mean something different, of course u can only see that in person, but online if i said i dont kno the other person wouldnt kno what kinda attitude i said it in
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Jun 15 2004, 01:23 PM
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 <3~Tara~<3 Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491 |
they last but usually they're not really serious bcuz who knows if they're cheatin on u?
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Jun 15 2004, 01:25 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
Personally, I'm not all that into an online relationship, because you just never know. But I guess one good part about it is that it's not based on looks or social status. More on what the person has to say and how they think. So there's no harsh judgement there. But then again, even if what they say or how they may appear to think and such, may not be real.
You just never know. 
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Jun 15 2004, 05:04 PM
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 Jamey Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,066 |
yea. to me, internet relationships seems shady. because you never know who exactly the person is, how old they are, what they look like, etc. but, im all for internet friends. talking about your interests with a person far away can be will therapeutic.
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Jun 15 2004, 09:56 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
depends. but I don't think that internet relationships never work.
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Jun 15 2004, 10:18 PM
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Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
what if that person doesn't come online for a few days? what would you think? where is that person? hmmm on a date with soemone else? yeshhh most likely...
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Jun 16 2004, 02:53 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
I personally think internet relationships can work as long as you both trust each other and put in some effort. But also make sure you talk on the phone and view webcam with him so that you're certain he's not a horny 54 year old grandfather.
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Jun 16 2004, 02:58 AM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
My uncle's brother.. (the in-law uncle) is married to a woman he met online..
They're relationship seems to be doing good  and she's HELLLLLLLLLLLLLA preeeetty
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Jun 16 2004, 03:03 AM
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 Master Debater Group: Member Posts: 1,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,719 |
Eh.
Online relationships can work assuming you eventually met the person face to face on a fairly-regular basies. Pssh, I come off as a immature jerk-off online; but in real life i'm shy and meek...and a tad cynical. Go figure. |
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Jun 16 2004, 08:20 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
online relationships seem like a tricky one there.. you never know who's on the other end of the chatline. it can be the gorgeous guy he talks about, or, i quote, "a horny 54 year old grandfather".
 on the other hand, an online penpal where you remain anonymous would be a good idea, like a friend that gives you advice and stuff without judging you - or having any reason to judge you, since she/he hasn't really seen u in person. i've been lookin for one..
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Jun 16 2004, 05:07 PM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
i think internet relationships dont work cuz u onli get to talk to that person but u dont get to see them real relationships isnt like that.
well thats my point of view but others mite not think so |
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Jun 16 2004, 05:37 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
lols...i guess they could werk...i tried...lols...it werked at a point...but i guess he thought i didn't like him no more...so without telling me....he started doohickying with this other chikk....and yea....xD
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Jun 16 2004, 07:58 PM
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 I hate my username... Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,634 |
it doesn't work. don't waste your time trying. just go out and look for one. easy as that.
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Jun 17 2004, 02:13 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
well they do last if the pplz wanna realli make their relatioship work.
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Jun 21 2004, 11:05 AM
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 CB's Resident Juggalette Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,673 |
Bad, bad idea. Most people lie about everything.
Plus, I have friends that go in there and get fake ass pics and shit just to fool people and have a few laughs. I mean, I have a friend that's a girl that got this pic of this guy, who was so obviously a model, and she's been fooling this online chick for a year now that her name is Fabian and she's a male. I mean, I think it's pretty funny. But still, I wouldn't fall for shit like that. MMFCL |
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Jun 23 2004, 03:01 PM
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 boo. Group: Member Posts: 567 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,376 |
sometimes they work. but sometimes they don't. i think it's a bad idea to meet the person in real life because even though they seem like the most NICEST person in the whole world they could totally turn around and do something to you. i don't think giving any information besides ur first name is a good idea either.....
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Jun 23 2004, 03:04 PM
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 Laur Laur is phat. Group: Member Posts: 94 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,445 |
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Jun 23 2004, 03:16 PM
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 dance starrie dance! Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,294 |
hmm.. i think that internet relationships are okay only if u've met the person at least once ..so that you kno that they arent some weerf freak
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