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 Jun 27 2007, 12:31 AM
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so there's this guy I'm in love with.. he broke up with me about 3 months ago and he pretty much shut me out of his life.. but the other night I saw him for the first time since we broke up.. and things were like.. normal again, like when we were going out.. and before I left he kissed me. Then the next day he goes back to shutting me out of his life and pretending like the other night never happened. I asked my friend who was also there the other night if he said anything about me after I left. My friend told me he said that he still loves me but he's doing me a favor by not being with me because I "deserve better". blah.. I don't want better.. I just want him. and I've told him that many times. I just wish I could do something to get him back again.
any ideas of what I could possibly do? I would seriously do anything for this boy. |
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Jun 27 2007, 12:55 AM
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 RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
Tell him he's everything you want, there is no better. His first reaction or response will let you know if it can go from there or not.
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| *Moderator* |
Jun 27 2007, 01:09 AM
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Sounds like you're in a tough position but you both seem to want the same thing. I say you try talking to him. That way you don't have to keep on using messengers and misunderstandings. Just speak to him one on one and tell him how you feel. Tell him exactly what you told us.
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Jun 27 2007, 12:24 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
Agreed with both of them^.
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Jun 27 2007, 01:32 PM
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Just be up front with him. Tell him what you want, and ask if he wants you too. If he says he wants you, then tell him ok y'all are back together then and go kiss him or something.
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Jun 27 2007, 03:00 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 558 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,872 |
I always tell him exactly how I feel. He just says that I wont be happy in a few years from now with him. I asked him the other night online why he says that.. he just replied "I'll talk to you later". He didn't even sign off or anything. He just didnt want to talk to me I guess.
Is there anything other than talking to him and telling him how I feel that could work? because this approach really isnt working. He'll always think that I can do better than him.. even if I dont want better. I'm making a collage for him.. with like old pictures of us and stuff. maybe that could work a little? also I'm making a mix cd.. with songs we used to listen to and other songs that could possibly get to him. the other night when I talked to him he said he still has this one picture of us on his wall. and he still has this ceramic container that I made for him a while ago.. with keys and hearts on it.. and inside a note that says "you have the key to my heart". He must still care if he still has all these things that would remind him of me. |
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| *digitalfragrance* |
Jun 27 2007, 08:07 PM
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He obviously still cares for you... but his behaviour suggests that he's not confident in himself or he's trying to resolve a matter in his own life that he is not happy about. I mean, heck, why else would he want you and push you away at the same time?!
My advice is this. Don't chase him... you have let him know how you feel. Tell him the ball is in his court. Little tokens as proof of your love for him are fine, but ultimately he's made this his decision. But, don't wait forever... allow your heart to heal and reach out to others. If he solves this self-esteem problem of his, you guys will be fine... if not, you shouldn't have to wait. |
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Jun 28 2007, 03:02 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 558 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,872 |
maybe I'm crazy.. but I want to wait :/ I want to wait forever even if I never get him back again. I don't want anyone else.. no matter how great they are.. or how good they treat me. He was always my ideal guy, so no one else will be able to replace him, there is no one like him at all. I don't want to settle for less.
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Jun 28 2007, 12:15 PM
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I do know how you feel. I waited for a my ex-boyfriend and it took him 6 months to come back to me. Slightly different circumstances, but the same kind of thing.
So maybe he will... at least for your sake I hope he does. |
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Jun 28 2007, 12:39 PM
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 rissa. Group: Member Posts: 621 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,690 |
Wow. This is the first time I've heard something like this. I agree with the rest. Talk to him.
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Jun 28 2007, 01:29 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 558 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,872 |
I hope he does too... I just wish there was more I could do.
if I'm willing to do anything.. there's just gotta be something that could help change his mind :/ I just cant figure out what. |
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