Father Daughter Relationships, Hows Yours? Options

[Ladii_D1809]

I was just wonderin cause I know that I have the best reletionship than any of my friends and all I do is call my dad every-so-often Mainly whenever I remember...

[XxKrNqTcUiTyxX]

ehhh not so goood.....i dont really talk to bad hes alwaiz busie...

[mznina]

my rentz' r divorced..so i dont get to see my dad much maybe 2 times a yr, he calls maybe once every 2 months, but when my rentz' were together my relationship with my dad was like a fairy tale. he treated my sister and i soo good, spoiled us with everything. Asian parents dont really call there kids "honey" or "sweetie"...but my dad did, and he would always kiss me on my cheeks b4 bed, and give my tight hugs, and took me to the beach. *sigh..im startin to miss him.

[kirbymuixo]

I think maybe this thread should be moved to "Relationships" instead.

I think I have a good relationship with my dad. Whenever I have a problem, I talk to him, and he listens. So that's actually a good thing.

[DittotoAnne18]

im really close with my dad because he retired when i was little so he was usually around the house and he was always there for me when my mom wasnt because she often works

[x AZN D0RKii x]

divorcied .. haven`t seen him in quite a while, i think 3 yrs now

[LiNHy POO]

my relationship with my dad is a fairy tale.. yehh he spoils me rotten and does wutever i say... but i love him more than that. i can tell him anything and everything and i know that he wont explode at me.. but calmy talk to me... i can ask him wutever's on my mind and his anwsers are always smart... he's the most intellgent man i know! if something ever happened with him.. my world would juss end there!

[phatty]

it's so so, it's not the best but it's not that bad either

[mai_z]

me n my dad have a pretty good relationship, i mean it's not perfect, espeically since azn parents historically are kind of hard 2 talk to, and are 'always doing what's best for you'... but ya, me n my dad are pretty cool wit each other, which is more than i can say about my relationship wit my mom

[islandkiss]

I voted for.. not grand. My dad is really impatient and stubborn most of the time. but, he's cool. He'll always opt to buy anything I want. Thus, he's my easier parent. lol.

What makes our father-daughter relationship hell.. is that He always says that I'm a bad daughter and I "CHANGED" it's like.. wtf?

[mznina]

my relationship with my dad is a fairy tale.. yehh he spoils me rotten and does wutever i say... but i love him more than that. i can tell him anything and everything and i know that he wont explode at me.. but calmy talk to me... i can ask him wutever's on my mind and his anwsers are always smart... he's the most intellgent man i know! if something ever happened with him.. my world would juss end there!

thats nice

[Jean]

Mine isn't so great. He's really irresponsible, spends money my mother doesn't have, goes fishing but he doesn't cook the fish so it's just in our frige makin' it smell bad, and he doesn't know how to talk in public. He's so damn loud. ¬¬

[177emories]

my rentz' r divorced..so i dont get to see my dad much maybe 2 times a yr, he calls maybe once every 2 months, but when my rentz' were together my relationship with my dad was like a fairy tale. he treated my sister and i soo good, spoiled us with everything. Asian parents dont really call there kids "honey" or "sweetie"...but my dad did, and he would always kiss me on my cheeks b4 bed, and give my tight hugs, and took me to the beach. *sigh..im startin to miss him.

OMG thats just like me and my father >________<" i miss him now =(

[mznina]

OMG thats just like me and my father >________<" i miss him now =(

yeh, i dont think ill ever have that anymore...

[DisneyPrincessKa...]

My dad and I are tight. I love him. I don't tell him my deepest secrets, I'm not like that with either of my parents, but we're really close. We have such crazy conversations. We do a lot of stuff togetherm because we're so alike it's crazy. He doesn't usually get home til 7:30, so I don't chill with him a whole lot, but we're still really close.

[iheartsimba]

whoa. my daddy has some huge mood swings.

he has cancer and went on kimo so now its like my god.

one second he's my best firend, the next he's about to walk out of the house.

i have to admit i am scared of him a lot.

he hit my brother and my sister b4... so now im like...just trying to stay out of his way a lot.

but i guess it depends what mood he's in right?

[inn0centmarianne]

I'm close to my dad. I talk to him more than my friends talk to their fathers. its easy for us to communicate i guess, he tells me alot of stuff that he doesnt tell the rest of my family, its weird how he does that. Its nice being daddy's lil girl

[easilyxamusedx]

it sucks.
i honestly don't like my dad.
we've never been close.
except when i was under the age of 5.

[kraziegrl]

well.. i say i want soemthing, he either buys it for me, or gives me money id say its pretty good. he's usually at work, and i dont see him much. i ask him how he got his stores and all that [im curious] and he tells me. but thas when were driving home from church, soemtimes

[MeLoNiSyUmMy]

My dad and I are like best friends. My mom died when I was in 3rd gade and now I'm a freshman. So I kinda really have no chioce. But I love him. He's an awsome dad.

[pnkstar]

i love my daddy! he rocks!

[tinababy143]

mines okay..not the greatest in the world..im definetely a mommy's girl and my sister is definetely a daddy's girl

[redpeony]

I hate to say it but my dad is such an ass. He always thinks he's right. I mean, he spoils me and everything but that doesn't make a good dad. He seems to think it does. He also treats me way better than he treats my brother which pisses me off a lot. Hmmm. That's it.

[mglbaby]

im closer to my dad than my mom. but sometimes i feel so sorry for my dad becoz im so mean to him. but i can never talk back to my mom or disagree w/ her..kindda scared of her.. but when it comes to my dad i always say wuts on my mind and often times yell or get mad at him. :-( he lets me do wutever i want but he's not very responsible and dat gets me irritated. my mom n dad r also divorced so ive lived w/ my dad since 10 years ago?

[dani41790]

not so gud cuz i barely c him. during the day he has to go college, during tha nite he has to work cuz he in da military. during tha week days i onli c him sleeping, on weekends hes still busy. in fact i havent seen him in 2 days cuz he comes back at like 12 n leaves at 5.

[soulovely]

unfortunately... my father passed away when i was 7. from what i remember, my father was great. i loved to spend time with him. only thing was that he drank and smoked ... A LOT! other than that he was the greatest father ever!!!! Mom's bf can never replace him, no one can.

[Winter]

My relationship with my dad is good I guess. He gives me money and buys stuff for me. And since we're both very interested in designing and computers, we talk about that a lot. And he doesn't care about me dating. That's the most awesome part.

[emptyminded]

Well my dad lives about 45 minutes away from me and whenever he needs something he asks me [like pay bills] He's a little less stricter than my mom and he recently bought me my digital camera that my mom wouldn't.

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

my daddydukkez and i are exactly alike .. i love him to death and we get along amazingly well .. we can talk about everything and he makes me feel comfortable about it all .. we're like twins so he can never really argue with what i do because at my age he did the same things puahaha :D

[pbear]

Better than my mother-daughter relationship.
Which doesn't say a lot.

[laur3nw]

ehh i talk to my dad but we're not that close. i love him and he's really nice n' everything but the things he does sometimes just makes me mad...

[amiie]

no good. it seems like theres a wall between us. i juz cant tell him everything like i do with mom.

[koreansaga510]

im okay with my pops, but i remember i ditched school in elementry becasue i studied a lot, lol. he caught me and he whooped the sh*t out of me, but thats the most abuse ive taken from my pops. other than that we're ko0o

[f00LisH_h3aRt63]

my father and i are good most of the time. but there are times when we like to push each others buttons on purpose to piss each other off. when that happens its like i dont even care anymore. and im soo awful cuz most of the time i dont give him the respect that i should or that he deserves. so my father daughter relationship is so-so.

jackie

[CoLd_FlAmE]

you noe wut i figured out right now? its always daddy's little girl adn mommy's little boy!

[.t3e.]

hmm mine is bad. its like i dont even have a real dad anymore. my stepdad treats me way better than my realy dad and i have talked to him in 10 months. he didnt even say Happy Birthday to me.

[shortie09]

kind of, sort of, but no quite.


he's off in afghanistan right now.


bleh.


//edit:

that would be my stepdad. yeah, my biological father, i've no care for.

[MisSyHangy]

mine wonderful.. kinda i guess.. tho i knoe he still disappointed in me
frm the choices i make... like still doing drugs and is always out.
but im always daddy'z girl..
.. have you ever put on any pop, freestyle, or any amercian jams on
and see your dad dance?.. whoa.. its the funniest moment..
for an 48 or 49 old guy.. he can do the moon walk.. well try!. keke
lol.. asian old man.. doing moon walk.. whoa.. hard to image.

[Cinnamoneyes]

it sucks.
i honestly don't like my dad.
we've never been close.
except when i was under the age of 5.

Mines basically like that. We used to be so close until this year. Now all he does is piss me off and i do the same for him. Makes me sad

[*FreeStickers*]

Me and my dad dont talk that much. We dont talk, but he spoils me.

[babexdragon]

my dad spoils me like no tomorrow and he tries to teach me good morals and stuff and encourage me to be good in school and not have a bf so i can focus on school..

yet all those are the things that make me dislike him the most. spoils me because he wants me on his side, teach me good morals but yet he doesnt do them half the time, and the thing that hurts the most is he's emailing many chicks even when he's a grandad and is still married to my mom.

so i love him b/c he's my dad and tries to be a good dad (to some point)

hate him b/c he's a hypocrite and hurts my mom

[FrUiTy TuTie]

my rentz' r divorced..so i dont get to see my dad much maybe 2 times a yr, he calls maybe once every 2 months, but when my rentz' were together my relationship with my dad was like a fairy tale. he treated my sister and i soo good, spoiled us with everything. Asian parents dont really call there kids "honey" or "sweetie"...but my dad did, and he would always kiss me on my cheeks b4 bed, and give my tight hugs, and took me to the beach. *sigh..im startin to miss him.

whoa.. 2 times a months thats crazi.. i see mine once a week.. but i dont get along with him.. all he does is compliment my looks not my skoolwork that i work so hard on. thats all he says to me..

[FrUiTy TuTie]

My dad and I are tight. I love him. I don't tell him my deepest secrets, I'm not like that with either of my parents, but we're really close. We have such crazy conversations. We do a lot of stuff togetherm because we're so alike it's crazy. He doesn't usually get home til 7:30, so I don't chill with him a whole lot, but we're still really close.

[COLOR=orange] i wish i could do that.. he always yells at me. so i dont feel like talking to him

[aZn_hApPy05]

my relationship with my dad is good. i dont tell him a lot of things like i do with my mom. my dad is dere for me if i need help with school, driving, or anything about politics.

[empyrean]

ha my dad n i have a pretty bad relationship its not a family-like relationship its more like polite and strained conversation of two strangers when we talk

[KitKaht]

So-so. My Dad has never really been there for me. He's doing better about it.

[sheepy]

I voted for.. not grand. My dad is really impatient and stubborn most of the time. but, he's cool. He'll always opt to buy anything I want. Thus, he's my easier parent. lol.

What makes our father-daughter relationship hell.. is that He always says that I'm a bad daughter and I "CHANGED" it's like.. wtf?

yeah me too!! sometimes it depends on his mood.

[xsweetdreams12x]

I guess we have an okay relationship. I spend more time with my Mom, but I get along better with my Dad.

It's hard to explain...

[aud_chua]

my father isn't really a father person.. yea, he talks to me but i don't really get what i need from him.. i don't get what i need from both my parents........
but so far, he's done a far better job than my excuse for a mother.

[Darkpekkle]

i barely ever see my dad... he's always away working =T i feel bad that he has to work every day of the week with really long hours...

[Retrogressive]

i haven't talk to my father in a couple years, he is an ass.

[xsw33t_t3mptasia...]

mine is not that great....i mean its ok but its not the best...so i guess imma say not grand

--][My Xang3r][--

[Mireh]

My dad is the bomb.

We're like, best friends, seriously. I can tell him anything...

We talk about polotics, history, geography, and celebrity tabloids.

I like him WAY more than my mom.

He's truely the coolest dad. Ever.

<--- True daddy's girl

[cutielilsuga]

mines is terrible ever since my mom left in the divorce
i think it might end up being like this

[inside_my_head]

my parents just divorced a few months ago, and he lives like 20 minutes away, but he comes over like every other day or so..but things have changed..we never had a really close relationship. i just remember when i was daddys little girl and his pride and joy..but it doesnt seem like that anymore

[whywasisostupid]

me and my dad are closer than i am with my mom. the other day my mom hit me cuz i spilt sugar and i said i was sorry b4 she hit me cuz she thought i said sumthin else my daddie wasnt there to protect me

[mizz_mithy]

mines is ok. i luv beein around my dad but lately we been gettin in more fights.

[silver-rain]

well, my relationship with my dad is ok. its not perfect- but its not bad either. sometimes he would spoil me, but other times, he would get on my nerve... ha today's my dad's birthday.

[J.K]

my daddy died 3 yrs ago..
but before that we were tight as anything...made my mom jealous

[mysticraven]

I wouldn't say that my dad and I don't get along its just he's never home and so we're not as close as we should be even though I kinda wish we were. oh well.

[*Weird addiction*]

for the moment it's so-so,buh normally it's horrible,hes trying to make up now!!

[*CEP*]

I DONT HAVE A DAD!!!!
AND IM NOT A GIRL EITHER!!!

*runs away*

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[*lolita kitty*]

me n my dad have a fairy tale relationship. him and i connect really good. every single day we walk around the park and talk about our life n stuff. when he gets home frum wurk i just run up and give him a great big hug. my rents r divorced, and when im visiting my mo, he e-mails me every day. alla my frends are jealous and alla mai family always ses im so friggin lucky to have a dad like him. :D i wuv mai daddy!

[asiangetokewl]

my dad is cool sometimes so yea... so its all good.

[sandra]

no comment. for sure he favors my bro so much and does practically nothing for me. but oh wells, hes nice to me tho

[HuGs_fOr_yOu]

I love my daddy! He'll gimmi n e thing in the world!! I don't let him coz I feel like a spoiled brat..but sometimes I give in . Even tho he works most of the time, I kno that he's alwaiis there for me...and its nice knowin there will be some1 loving you no matter what...k i think I'll stop now.

[f0reverxnxALWAYs...]

i hate my dad. . he moved to san francisco four years ago. then he moved to minnesota last year. before he moved to minnesota, him and my mom got divorced. i'm not supposed to know why...but i knoe. i hate my dad because i knoe why they got a divorce. my dad used to call me everyday for about a month...but now...he calls me once every two months. he doesn't even call on my birthdae . i knoe that he likes my sister more than me because he calls her once a week.

[crayzii_sh0rtie]

i'm daddy's little girl.. &always will be in his eyes.

[JessJR1022]

my dad is a jerk. really, I mean he is weird, sometimes he is good and then he is a total butthead...and he hurts me soo bad someitmes, not physically, just the things he says...like today

[IVERSONxbayb3]

it sucks.
i honestly don't like my dad.
we've never been close.
except when i was under the age of 5.

same here...xcept i really hate my father..we were cool nd everything wen i was little nd then when i lyk started havin a social life nd have friends over my house i started not to like him anymore almost all my friend are black nd i found out that hes like racist and shit and he never listens to me..he f**kin controls my life like about high school he made me go 2 a catholic one when i wanted to go 2 our local public one so we got into a big fight and he wont even listen 2 my side of the story and this summer i told him i wanna go 2 linden high and hes lyk no youre going to roselle catholic and doesnt even let me give my side of the story..im cool with my mom though..i cant wait until i turn 18 so i dont have to put up with his bullshit anymore...for everyone out there with a good relationship with their father..ur lucky..dont let anything mess up that your relationship with ur father..especially when he understands yu nd respects yu as a person

[huihead]

it's okay i guess. we get into arguments from time to time but besides that, i'm still sorta daddi's lil grl

[nlgrl]

i have both mai real parent but... i dont talk to mai dad -_- he just like... bosses me around... and he wont let me have a life so when ppe tell me to get a life... i blame it on mai dad

[chica777708]

I did so so, me and my dad fight a lot, and I cry a lot about it, but then w/o him the worlld would be dif. my mom and dad have split up before, but then they got back together and I am am happy that i have a dad, and he buys me stuff my mom wouldnt buy me :)

[cmgchica717]

I dont consider (David) as my father. A true father is a person who is there for their child. My dad has done none of this for me. Sure when my parents were together it was all fine and dandy then he started drinking heavily again and doing drugs and having affairs with a bunch of different woman and he was beating on my mom and crap like that. He calls me about once a month if that just to see if I am still alive or to ask me for money. How nice. So for me I do not have a relationship with him. He thinks that he does not need to support me or my sister. Well he doesnt need to support me because I have been supporting myself since I was 15 but he does however have to pay child support for my sister until she is 18 and that totally pisses him off. Another dead beat dad in this society.

[inquisitive_]

My relationship with my father is great. We talk about everything and he is very understanding.

[xnastyninjagrlx]

I love my dad sooooooo much! He is everything I would want in a dad. He's smart, funny, outgoing, open-minded..he's really great. I have a bad relationship with my mom so I really like that I am so close to my dad that we are like best friends.

[MeanBastard]

My dad is in Iraq fighting for stupid Bush.

[1--GIRL]

My parents are divorced so I see my Dad atleast once a Week Right now I'm at his house He's a reallyy nice guy, I think he thinks that the Divorce made me sad so he buys me anything I want which got me reallyy spoiled But anyways I love Him veryyyy much

[slurp]

i dont even know hows it going, its kinda so/so, we barely talk and probably not even 10 words a day

[DarkCrescentMoon]

mines with my dad is so terrible. he drinks every ngight so he gets drunk a lots. he smokes too. HE YELLS AT ME CONSTANTLY. he has no normal voice. he's so stubborn. he thinks what he likes everyone should like and everyone should agree with him. i'm always nervous doing something in front of him, cause if i dont do it right, he yells even more and sometimes hits me. he teases me constantly. he's too over protective. He doesnt care if I am happy or not. he really doenst. he jsut wants whats best for me... and he's racist...

jeebus..i've never explained my feelings for him...all kept inside for these years...

i sorta feel better now...

[Luster Soldier]

Not good at all. I see him once a year. Since he got divorced with my mom our relationship went downhill. Now I'm not sure if I even know him anymore...

Oh btw, I'm not a girl, just posted by mistake 'cause I didn't read the "daughter" part.

[is2diexd]

i never talk to now that i don't live with my family.. maybe like once a month.. on the phone for like 30 seconds

But even when i lived with him i didn't talk to him alot.. maybe when we were eating i HAD to talk to him to break the silence or something but i never really had an actually father+daughter talk -_-..

[midnitexrose]

eh...itz so-so but he has a big temper n always scold at me.

[S2_DiViA_S2]

my relationship with my dad is a fairy tale.. yehh he spoils me rotten and does wutever i say... but i love him more than that. i can tell him anything and everything and i know that he wont explode at me.. but calmy talk to me... i can ask him wutever's on my mind and his anwsers are always smart... he's the most intellgent man i know! if something ever happened with him.. my world would juss end there!

coudnt have said it any better..
haha. i luv my dad.. we have a great relationship..

[sweetdreamsx3]

He treats me tooo much as a baby. "Where's my kiss?" And then he makes this noise..Argh I just wanna.. grrrr :angry:

[thaichic192]

It's okay...I guess...he makes me feel uncomfortable around him...Just everything. There's a lot of drama. I used to be so close with him, but he just doesn't get me and umm yeah he likes scolding me. Luckily he stopped hitting me. We do bond...sometimes...like when we go to computer stores...We'll have small little conversations. But he likes putting me down because I get an A-.

[shawty_redd]

my dad and i get along good. i mean we have our arguments time to time but compared to other peoples relationships we are like fairy-tales

[emrzz09]

Well, considering he raped, beat, and harrassed me everyday for 5 years, and i havent talked to him for 2 1/2 years, it's terrible. Be glad you have a dad who loves and cares about you.

[*x____duckii*]

Well, considering he raped, beat, and harrassed me everyday for 5 years, and i havent talked to him for 2 1/2 years, it's terrible. Be glad you have a dad who loves and cares about you.

Woah, that's scary

[sporadic]

I see my dad all the time, but it's really sad.. I hug my mom spontaneously whenever I see her, but I only hug my dad sometimes...

I used to be all "I love you daddy!" when I was little, but now it's just like he's a close friend of the family @_@

[surfraisin]

me and my dad dont have the best relationship....i only see him once a month and then whenever i do hes busy...i know he luvs me but i get kinnda bumbed when ever we cant do anything....

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[FireCrossedAngel]

mines with my dad is so terrible. he drinks every ngight so he gets drunk a lots. he smokes too. HE YELLS AT ME CONSTANTLY. he has no normal voice. he's so stubborn. he thinks what he likes everyone should like and everyone should agree with him.  i'm always nervous doing something in front of him, cause if i dont do it right, he yells even more and sometimes hits me. he teases me constantly. he's too over protective. He doesnt care if I am happy or not. he really doenst. he jsut wants whats best for me... and he's racist...

jeebus..i've never explained my feelings for him...all kept inside for these years...

i sorta feel better now...

o man...this is EXACTLY how my dad is, and how I feel about him. God, he is a FUKKING JERK and that is all that's need to be said abouth him. We have practically no relationship at all, and his sorry a$$ is always screaming at me and harrassing me, dissing me, all this sh!t. Except for the fact that he doesnt drink or smoke but he is still a d!ckhead and he always will be. Gosh, him and his crazy fukkin temper. You should see the way he looks at me whenever i try to ask him a simple question. Its as if I'm some convicted murderor or somethin. Goodness. I mean yeah he is my dad and all but he is still an a$$ and I hate him for the way he makes me feel sometimes. I dont understand how my mom could marry such a fukkin BEAST. Thats right. He used to hit her, my sister, and even me (though not that much). You should see how he treated us, God. Like he wouldnt let my sister go anywhere when she was 18+, like concerts and stuff. It fukkin sucked. And it will definitely be the same for me. I mean for God's sake BOTH my parents dont want me gettin a boyfriend till i'm like 25 and they dont even want me gettin a dorm! they want me to fukkin live with them and go to a local university or college like my sis did cuz they think i'll have tons of sex and parities/drinking and all that stuff--thats y they dont want me getting one. But HELL NO. That wont fukkin happen to me. Never. I'mma leave this damned place and do watever the hell I want. God. I just feel like him sometimes, seriously. *sighs heavily*

And oh yea I voted terrible.

[babyxtc626]

im not a big fan of my dad..he's got a hot temper..no one likes him in my family..heck no one in the community really likes him..my mom is always talking about divorcing him..but hasnt happend yet...he has mood swings like a women. he gossips like no tmorrow..ugh..

[sheddingtears]

Pretty good. He yells at me sometimes, but we'll always love each other.

[XoAzn_ElaineXo]

terrible my dad suckz he has to be one of the worst dad ever

[XxBeExOHxX]

i duno where the hell my dad is, i think my mom sed he died, i duno, i could care less.

[whtevergoaway]

me and my dad dont get along great, well then again, i dont get along with my family eithter..they think im psycho and theyve acutally considered bringing me to an asylum ~___~''

[MzShortieAlli]

i think im close wid mai dad we always joke round stuff and he noes me more than mai mom

[narutosan]

I wish I could remember my father. He was killed in front of me when I was 7.
That is all i remember.

[cyber]

i think that the relationship with my dad cuz we like to talk to each other and i hang with him a-lot...sorta..when hes not working and if im not tired...but me n my mom is a different story.