Long Distances Reletionships, Do they Work?? |
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 Jun 14 2004, 06:47 PM
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 black prep numba 1  Group: Member Posts: 519 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,144  |
I don't really know, cause I aint never had to go through that...
What do you think do they work? |
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Jun 14 2004, 06:53 PM
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 Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
long distant relationships dont work....i went thro one and it was hell
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Jun 14 2004, 06:56 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
it depends.
But I can't stand them. it's kind of hard for me to date someone and never actually really see them or spend time with them. |
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Jun 14 2004, 07:13 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
if you make it work.. its gonna work!!
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Jun 14 2004, 08:19 PM
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 the girl next door Group: Member Posts: 145 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,579 |
QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Jun 14 2004, 7:13 PM) if you make it work.. its gonna work!! exactly |
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Jun 14 2004, 09:30 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
they work fine .. it depends on the couple .. if you're willing to put the time and effort into it it's a wonderful relationship .. there has to be trust there .. and communication plays a huge role when constant presence is lacking .. if you still talk on the phone and cherish the few times you do get to see each other in a distance relationship it's worthwhile .. =] .. i'm in a distance relationship and it has been working just fine for over 3 years now ..
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Jun 14 2004, 09:39 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
depends two ppl...
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Jun 14 2004, 09:41 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,750 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,581 |
Long distance relationships are like torture. I've tried one and I hated it so they suck.
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Jun 14 2004, 10:24 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i dont htink they work but i know if u try u'll get somewhere
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Jun 15 2004, 08:13 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
They can work if both of you put in some effort and trust each other.
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Jun 15 2004, 10:00 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
umm well my cousin had one she lived in colorado and he lived in missouri they visited each other well i guess if you young and dont have money you cant see that person well if you truely love the person why wouldnt it work rite? nothing can beat love except love itself
i might have to have a long distant relationship if she moves cause her family is always moving and yeah i guess i will have to make it work :tOny: |
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Jun 15 2004, 12:05 PM
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 I'm with Stupid. Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,973 |
Nah, it won't work. After a while they get all different.
And then you have to waste your time crying and junk. Not that it has ever happened to me.. i'm perfect. lolz
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Jun 17 2004, 02:42 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,953 |
well im in a long distant relationship and i have been for more than 2 months now...yeh its hard but if u really love that person ull try and it will go how u want it to....ive been fds wiv him for quite a while before....as long as u trust each other it shud work....its torture but u no...love IS torture
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Jun 17 2004, 08:31 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,032 |
i'm currently in a long distance relationship as well w/ my b/f who is in the air force... so of course he goes away a lot & he's currently gone right now... i say that they DO work if u try & make it work. if u really love & trust each other, then yeah...
it's REALLY hard to deal w/ the whole situation, but love  always finds a way. :)
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Jun 19 2004, 12:10 AM
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 The Used Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,501 |
ive had lots of those. different kinds too. THEY NEVER WORK!!! final answer. no commas, just a period. becuz then when you get to really really like the person so much and you cant touch them, or show them how much you love them, it hurts more. but you think oh its okay we can talk on the phone and online. its not the same =( so just dont do it... it hurts...
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Jun 19 2004, 01:57 AM
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 ::destroy ure tv:: Group: Member Posts: 149 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,005 |
not if ure young. nope. been there.
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Jun 19 2004, 02:07 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
yea i know of some cases where it worked.
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Jun 19 2004, 04:04 AM
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 I HEART NICHOLAS TSE Group: Official Member Posts: 2,726 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,116 |
Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. If u are willing to make it work.
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Jun 19 2004, 11:17 AM
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if both are willing to give their all to it it can work out. but its hard. but still...both should be willing to do what they have to do to make it work
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Jun 19 2004, 11:27 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 7,048 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,696 |
nope not really.... especially if they're really long
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Jun 19 2004, 03:31 PM
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 dance starrie dance! Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,294 |
uhm i think they work.. but it depeends whos its between, really
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Jun 20 2004, 02:25 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 148 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,543 |
long distance relationships arent good,u dont know if the ur bf/gf is cheating or not
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Jun 20 2004, 03:46 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,655 |
if you both are devoted into love and spending time, it should be no problem!
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Jun 20 2004, 04:04 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,380 |
i agree with the people that said it depends on the couple... because its different for everyone.. and if you love that person then nothing should get in the way... yeah its hard at times, but you work through that.. i should kno ive been in a long distance relationship for 2 years now... we love each other more then anything, and hes saving up money now to come and live down here [(he lives in vermont and i live in jersey)] but it will only work if you want it to
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Jun 20 2004, 04:20 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,834 |
i'm in a long distance relationship.. like.. 50 miles.. but we both drive. she just started driving.. it's kinda hard, but its not bad. trust and faith are key parts..
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Jun 21 2004, 02:19 AM
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 LunchboxXx Group: Member Posts: 1,789 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,810 |
they work jsut as good as close distance relationships.
so no. |
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Jun 21 2004, 02:41 AM
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 will dance 4 hugz Group: Member Posts: 324 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,950 |
no matter the distance... its all up to both of your dreams, your love for each other, your passion... i was in a long distance relationship, we missed each other soo much each time we parted after spending time with each other. i guess dreams fell apart, love was still there, but the passion was fading...
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Jun 21 2004, 03:38 AM
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 x mar muffins *yuuuum Group: Member Posts: 874 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,620 |
oh no
 geez, this topic has come up to me again. today I found out that my closest friend has been cheated on with some other girl, and they HAD a long distant relationship... online type thing  ugh... drama!
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Jun 21 2004, 10:10 AM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Faith in the Glorious Proletarian Republic
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