is it so wrong to like someone other then your boyfriend?, me, my boyfriend, and the other guy, help! |
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 Jun 8 2007, 12:17 PM
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ok so i go out with this guy named james but i dont really like him like that and im scared if i tell him that i will break his heart (which i cant dont) and i like this other guy at my school, brandon, and he likes me (that i know of) and he knows i have a boyfriend but he knows i like him more then my boyfriend I want to break up with my boyfriend to go out with brandon but im scared that if u do break up with my boyfriend brandon wont like me no more and i broke my boyfriends heart for no reason, what should i do?
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| *steve330* |
Jun 8 2007, 12:24 PM
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First, proper grammar/sentence structure is your friend.
Secondly, if you really don't like your boyfriend, and you want to be with this other guy, there's no use staying with your current. The more you prolong it the harder it will be for him when you finally leave him. |
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Jun 8 2007, 12:25 PM
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 Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
Well, um..if you don't like him, don't let him keep on thinking that you do. Just break up with him. It wouldn't be for "no reason" either. Just tell him "I don't feel the same way about you that I used to" or something.
 Why do you think Brandon won't like you anymore? Well, first, make sure that he likes you for sure. You said "that i know of." |
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| *steve330* |
Jun 8 2007, 12:27 PM
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^agree.
Also even if Brandon doesn't like you, and you don't like James, what's the point of being with him? |
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Jun 8 2007, 12:34 PM
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Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
^ yep.
I think you'd hurt your boyfriend much more if you DIDN'T break up with him and he found out you liked someone else all this time. |
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| *steve330* |
Jun 8 2007, 12:41 PM
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QUOTE im single have been for a while now but i hope i will be in a ralationship soon =]]] You said that June 3rd. May 30th you said you were single as well. Is this one of those hypothetical scenarios? |
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Jun 8 2007, 02:24 PM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
wait a month between boyfriends.
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Jun 8 2007, 02:50 PM
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i'm so bored. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,261 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 473,614 |
Break up with your current boyfriend then. What's the use of staying with him? If he finds out that you liked someone else this whole time, that'll break his heart even more. Either way, breaking up with James isn't for 'no reason'.
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| *steve330* |
Jun 8 2007, 02:55 PM
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That or you can decide to be mean, completely f**k with his head, and scream at him as if he did something horrible and say you don't want to give him the time of day anymore, never telling him that he did nothing wrong in the first place. It'll leave him confused.
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Jun 8 2007, 03:03 PM
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i'm so bored. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,261 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 473,614 |
^Or you could do that.
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Jun 8 2007, 04:36 PM
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QUOTE(steve330 @ Jun 8 2007, 01:41 PM)  You said that June 3rd. May 30th you said you were single as well. Is this one of those hypothetical scenarios? we started going out on the 3rd, at night.... |
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Jun 8 2007, 08:15 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
You haven't been dating long enough to break is heart. Why even say yes if you don't like him? Peace outtttta that shit and date someone you actually like.
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| *steve330* |
Jun 8 2007, 09:04 PM
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^QFT
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Jun 8 2007, 09:14 PM
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My god ... you're with a person with a couple of days and you like someone better. what are you? a whore? a digger?
that's sad. really. |
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Jun 8 2007, 09:43 PM
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i'm so bored. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,261 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 473,614 |
^No need to call someone names.
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Jun 9 2007, 11:13 PM
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 omfg, rtfql. Group: Member Posts: 649 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,564 |
QUOTE(steve330 @ Jun 8 2007, 01:24 PM) First, proper grammar/sentence structure is your friend. Qft. [By the way, Steve330, when you said "QFT", you weren't quoting anyone. =p] Anyways, you should break up with this kid James, before things get any more serious. As an answer to the thread's topic/question, no, it's not so wrong to like someone other than your boyfriend, or girlfriend. As long as it's not all that serious. But, what you're talking about seems.. all that serious. Break up with James. |
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Jun 10 2007, 03:52 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(steve330 @ Jun 8 2007, 01:24 PM) First, proper grammar/sentence structure is your friend. Secondly, if you really don't like your boyfriend, and you want to be with this other guy, there's no use staying with your current. The more you prolong it the harder it will be for him when you finally leave him. Agreed. Even with the grammar part lol. |
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Jun 10 2007, 07:20 PM
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Don't stay with your current boyfriend if you don't like him.
Start off with that, then worry about Brandon. |
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Jun 13 2007, 09:13 PM
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dont stay with your boyfriend if you dont like him?
but dont dump him for another guy.. i guess you should try sticking to one guy |
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| *MyMichelle* |
Jun 13 2007, 09:33 PM
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No - if you've only been dating for a little bit and you plan on telling him honestly.
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Jun 16 2007, 05:33 AM
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Its okay to keep a guy on the side whose name always has to start with an "E"
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Jun 16 2007, 10:28 AM
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I think you will satisfy with them:
REMOVED. |
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Jun 17 2007, 08:51 AM
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the way you describe brandon makes him sound more like a friend than someone you have the hots for. being attracted to someone requires the whole package: looks, personality, and your ability to vibe together. anything that falls short of that is not worth it imo.
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| *Moderator* |
Jun 17 2007, 09:17 AM
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You really have to think about what you want. If you don't like your boyfriend anymore, what's the point in being with him just cause you don't want to hurt him. You will hurt him regardless, whether its him hearing that you don't like him from your mouth, or from someone else. And about the whole what if Brandon doesn
t like you anymore, that's a risk you're gonna have to take if you choose to break up with James. Don't let friends with benefits get in the way. Control your hormones. Do you really like Brandon? |
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