hanging out? Options

[pink.x.r0se]

do you think its weird if a guy who has a girlfriend hangs out with a girl and its just the two of them? even if they're only friends?

would you be mad if your boyfriend did this?

it happened to my friend and she got really upset, but idk what i think..
what do you think?

[KayleighKins]

My best friend is a boy. We've been best friends for four years now and I go as far as sleeping over at his house.

Just because your with someone, doesn't mean your snogging them, you know? When I hang with Matt all we do is play video games and laugh at each other. Sometimes we cry and share feelings! Haha.

I loved my boyfriend, and his best friend was a girl. We never cheated on one another, it's about trust.

[alysaphobia]

I think it's fine, really. I hang around with my guy friends so I'll let my boyfriend hang around with his girl friends.
Unless you've known this girl to be a slut/whore/most-likely-to-steal-your-boyfriend type.

[littleswallow]

Well, I admit that this would bother me a bit at first. But then I'll start to feel more comfortable about it.

[Della]

Well if the girlfriend knows that it's another girl she can trust then yeah its fine for her boyfriend to hang out with another girl

[Dominiloka]

i would totally go for it! doesnt bother me.

[*steve330*]

I understand where you're coming from. I used to be a jealous'ish type. I think the best thing you could do in that situation would be to meet the other friend. Michelle had tons of friends before I met her, but once I met her friends and got to know them I became completely cool with them.

Tell her just to ask if she can meet the other girl, get to know her etc.

[luvsumorethanuth...]

nope.
not at all.

my guy friend took me to a concert once;
and it was just me and him.
he had a girl friend;
but nothing happened.

i mean come on!

people think that if a guy and a girl hang out with each other;
then automatically; they like each other.

that is just SO wrong.

[EmoEyelinerx]

Well at first it might bother me for a little while (I get easily jelous) but other then that nope not at all, unless he knows I cant stand her and she hits on him, or hangs out with him becasue she knows I get easily jelous or something.

[ThatMcFLYGirl]

I think it's fine, really. I hang around with my guy friends so I'll let my boyfriend hang around with his girl friends.
Unless you've known this girl to be a slut/whore/most-likely-to-steal-your-boyfriend type.

It really depends on how much you trust the boy && if you know the girl personally.

[*Insurmountable*]

I wouldn't get offended at all. I guess I just really trust my boyfriends that they won't do anything while their in a relationship with someone else. I mean did this guy and girl do something before that would make your friend jealous? I can see that but not if their just friends?

[trulyandnever]

Would bother me at first if I didnt know the girl... eg. if she didnt attend the same school or something alike. I guess it'd go away as I got to know her though (assuming shes around so often and he lets me know her) If he didnt.. that would be a bit dodgy :)

If I knew the chick, it'd be fine (once again, assuming I trust her )