Making Out/Kissing, Help... |
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 Jun 13 2004, 11:52 PM
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 In God We Trust  Group: Member Posts: 213 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,262  |
Ok, so here I am a guy.
I have got in a relationship with a girl I care very strongly for. Yet, I have never kissed a girl before. The most I have ever done with a girl is hug one. So are their any tips on kissing/making out? I really need help with this....I know my first time wont be right but I just dont want it to be horrible. matt |
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Jun 13 2004, 11:57 PM
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 Wow it's been a long time!! Group: Member Posts: 1,672 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,954 |
just do it... and remember the lips are much more important than the tongue
and try to keep saliva to a minimum |
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Jun 14 2004, 12:02 AM
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 Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
just do what comes naturally
 yu'll learn with practice 
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Jun 14 2004, 12:06 AM
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 =P Group: Member Posts: 207 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,290 |
whatever you do, don't bite her! =P
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Jun 14 2004, 12:08 AM
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Wow it's been a long time!! Group: Member Posts: 1,672 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,954 |
QUOTE(simplysweet259 @ Jun 14 2004, 12:06 AM) whatever you do, don't bite her! =P no, light biting is actually pretty damn hot if it's like on the lower lip |
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Jun 14 2004, 12:25 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,725 |
Don't think about doing it before you actually do or you'll get all nervous and mess up, oh and whatever you do if y'all french kiss don't slobber (big turn off)
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Jun 14 2004, 01:09 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 143 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,918 |
QUOTE(TBoltzbabe @ Jun 14 2004, 12:08 AM) no, light biting is actually pretty damn hot if it's like on the lower lip haha yeah.....light biting is SEXY for a more experienced kisser...just start out lightly...just do what comes natural!! and try to do use tounge on the first kiss...save that for later |
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Jun 14 2004, 01:11 AM
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 "ITS JAZZ BABY" Group: Member Posts: 448 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,251 |
QUOTE(lpmatt618 @ Jun 13 2004, 11:52 PM) Ok, so here I am a guy. I have got in a relationship with a girl I care very strongly for. Yet, I have never kissed a girl before. The most I have ever done with a girl is hug one. So are their any tips on kissing/making out? I really need help with this....I know my first time wont be right but I just dont want it to be horrible. matt dog dont worried just go with the flow........ |
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Jun 14 2004, 01:54 AM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
QUOTE(pimpin231 @ Jun 14 2004, 2:11 AM) dog dont worried just go with the flow........ yeah thats what i was gonna say... go with the FLOW... |
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Jun 14 2004, 03:30 AM
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 will dance 4 hugz Group: Member Posts: 324 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,950 |
awww i remember *someone* telling me that he has never had a kiss before. he told me he wanted me to be his first... and asked me how. lol it was funny and yet sweet at the same time. he's one of those shy guys... don't worry guys we went out... i don't kiss just anyone ya know...
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Jun 14 2004, 05:50 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
well, your first kiss is the most important b/c it's one of the most vivid memories that you'll ever have. Besides the fact that I had gotten my first kiss in.. febuary.. with my ex. I remember everything.
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Jun 14 2004, 08:22 PM
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 do not walk the streets alone Group: Member Posts: 25 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,834 |
just do what comes naturally. don't attack her at first, just stat kissing &then gradually open your mouth. use tongue if you feel comfortable enough. don't suffocate her with it though. keep slobber to a minimum, &dont have your lips all wet when you start. don't go on forever, either, because you will both need to breath. you can breath while you are kissing, through your nose only. DO NOT breath out through your mouth when you are making out, it is soooooooo weird for the girl. lol.
&&&good luck! |
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Jun 14 2004, 08:27 PM
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 SeŃor Member Group: Member Posts: 311 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,709 |
go watch a chick flick... hahaha
 but yeah... just wait for the right moment to do it... then just go for it ;) and start off slow... dont just go slober mania all of a sudden. haha... good luck! |
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Jun 14 2004, 09:25 PM
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 Pimp Status Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,200 |
hey bud,
I was once in your shoes and like I was really nervous about kissing and making out... I dont really have advice to make it any better, but all I can say is to not go for everything all at once... Go slow, then go fast, do different things. Make your kiss like a rollercoaster, High lows, and mediums. Also one big tip that might help you... Kiss the girl as if it were your last kiss... Kiss her like you love her, and kiss her with meaning and emotion... Good Luck buddy |
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Jun 14 2004, 09:32 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
it's a natural thing .. take your time -- dont rush, close your eyes, be soft and sensual =]
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Jun 14 2004, 09:41 PM
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 x mar muffins *yuuuum Group: Member Posts: 874 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,620 |
remember, dont breathe with your mouth,breathe with your NOSE, and BRUSH YOUR teeth, the both of you should, dont want to be kissing something that smells like a dump truck now do u? well, just put some chapstick on, so the lips arent dry, feels nice when lips are a little moist
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Jun 14 2004, 11:35 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Hahahha .. making out feels a bit .. freaky to me ..
But then I'm only 12.
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Jun 15 2004, 12:07 AM
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 <3~Tara~<3 Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491 |
close ur eyes, juss start of kissin lil pecks on her lips then if u feel comfortable tongue n juzz go w/ da flow keke it isnt dat hard.
make sure ur breath isnt bad lolz good luck
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Jun 15 2004, 01:49 AM
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1) don't breathe in her face
2) yeah, lips ARE more important to tongue 3) make sure your lips are nice and relaxed 4) if you need to clean the spit off your face...(this might sound gross but it's slick, trust me) just take a break and start kissing her cheek, her neck, her shoulder. shhhhhhh!!!! but you get the spit off without letting her know that YOU'RE WIPING IT ON HER!!! 
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Jun 15 2004, 02:30 AM
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 Master Debater Group: Member Posts: 1,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,719 |
Don't get a boner.
...yet. **contributing shitty comments to the CB community for a couple weeks strong now.
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Jun 15 2004, 10:21 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,511 |
oh just sit back and relax
 , LoL, i've kissed a guy and im like 12 years old. at school we play truth or dare. The teachers don't really care what the hell we do, so we play, and they kiss each other and do other stuff  , and my best friend, bit a guy when kissing, she didn't feel bad bc she had nvr don't it before, if it screws up just whisper 'sry'!! hope this helpz!! |
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Jun 15 2004, 10:21 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,511 |
oh just sit back and relax
, LoL, i've kissed a guy and im like 12 years old. at school we play truth or dare. The teachers don't really care what the hell we do, so we play, and they kiss each other and do other stuff , and my best friend, bit a guy when kissing, she didn't feel bad bc she had nvr don't it before, if it screws up just whisper 'sry'!! hope this helpz!! |
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Jun 18 2004, 12:12 AM
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goose bucket. Group: Member Posts: 756 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,411 |
QUOTE(WildGriffin @ Jun 15 2004, 3:30 AM) Don't get a boner. ...yet. haha yeah... not unless you're really hot and heavy because otherwise she's gonna be like um... whoa up hoss. |
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Jun 18 2004, 09:06 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
don't slobber, and just go with the flow....don't kiss the girl till the time is right, and the mood is rite...first kiss is a bad thing to waste
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Jun 18 2004, 11:33 PM
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 The Used Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,501 |
theres no wrong way to kiss. well there is but as long as youre not sticking your tongue down her throat and youre not slobbering like a dog then you should do fine.
p.s: i love your name. all matts are hot
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Jun 20 2004, 02:31 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 148 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,543 |
umm eat like chewing gum like freshmint before that : and yea,cuz girls will like it when they're kissing u
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Jun 20 2004, 06:16 PM
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 dance starrie dance! Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,294 |
uhm.. just let it happen. close ur eyes.. make the move
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Jun 21 2004, 02:39 PM
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 Jeffrey's property Group: Member Posts: 32 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,207 |
yea like everyone is sayin..and just do it your way..just put ur tongue into action..lol i ono..but it'll end up feelin good
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Jun 25 2004, 05:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 61 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 217 |
Kissing is easy. Just tilt your head a little and give a peck of her lips. Making out is not really as hard as it seems. Just tilt your head, open your mouth, stick out your tongue and move it all around.
Make sure she's okay with that first though. 
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Jun 25 2004, 07:06 PM
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 Rawr Rawr i am a Reptawr Group: Member Posts: 263 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,045 |
QUOTE(XxKrNqTcUiTyxX @ Jun 14 2004, 12:02 AM) just do what comes naturally yu'll learn with practice yeah. it comes natural for most ppl! but you can practice on you pillow jk...my first kiss was interesting because we both did not know what we were doing...it was rather funny. but...anywho...just do not worry about the tounge on your first kiss!!
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Jun 25 2004, 07:09 PM
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 technicolor girl Group: Member Posts: 1,075 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,104 |
practice makes perfect. every couple has their own way of kissing
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Jun 25 2004, 07:15 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
okay here are the tips man.
when your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and press gently against her lips. tilt your head slightly to one side, so your noses won't get in the way. next when your in her mouth, dont use too much tongue. dont drool. use your lips. if it is a short kiss, move away. don't move away all of a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss! just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands, and looking in her eyes. MAKE SURE YOU DONT HAVE BAD BREATH! guys dont usually practice kissing, but if its very important..use your hands.
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Jun 26 2004, 02:12 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 851 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,718 |
take it slowly, start with a kiss on the cheek and gradually move on to a peck on the lips. remember to close ur eyes cuz its rude to kiss someone with their eyes open. hahaha after the peck, u can start kissing her for a lil longer than move on to a french. hmmm i hope this helps
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Jun 26 2004, 02:13 AM
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grrowl Group: Member Posts: 393 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,727 |
QUOTE(TBoltzbabe @ Jun 14 2004, 12:08 AM) no, light biting is actually pretty damn hot if it's like on the lower lip KINKY 
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Jun 30 2004, 09:20 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,309 |
if she feels just ass strongly for you then i think the kiss wont matter...but remember when it does happen dont think about it just let it happen and hopefully it will all turn out good
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Jun 30 2004, 09:26 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
dont let ur lips overlap hers... otherwise you'll leave more-than-wanted spit on her. hehe.
but no worries, just do what you feel. it'll come naturally, and dont worry so much about messing up. you'll get better overtime.
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Jul 4 2004, 12:39 AM
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 Feeel X Group: Member Posts: 2,814 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,498 |
hmm, interesting...i had my kiss on the 12th day. or was it 11th...yea, well you'll get it soon, kissed on cheek before?
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Jul 4 2004, 11:07 AM
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QUOTE(lpmatt618 @ Jun 13 2004, 11:52 PM) Ok, so here I am a guy. I have got in a relationship with a girl I care very strongly for. Yet, I have never kissed a girl before. The most I have ever done with a girl is hug one. So are their any tips on kissing/making out? I really need help with this....I know my first time wont be right but I just dont want it to be horrible. matt ??..dude there are no tips to kissin..its like ur fingerprint..ur "physical" way of sayin "I Love You Baby" |
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Jul 4 2004, 11:38 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,532 |
UmMm.....2 werdzz...Tic-Tac
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Jul 5 2004, 01:26 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
dont go over board with tongue action.....
hehe i remember my first kiss....
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Jul 5 2004, 01:34 PM
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 Peter aka Peetah =) Group: Member Posts: 198 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,046 |
becareful of the use of the tongue...
it's disgusting if u have so much saliva drooping around... ignore all those animes kissing and then having to see a bridge of saliva still attached b/t the 2 lips.. i'd suggest u watch the Spiderman 2 movie when MJ kisses the space guy... the space guy on the couch and MJ kissing from above... but dont' wait for a scene in real life to happen lol.. kiss like them, except.. u both are standing or somethin... if she's like... waiting for you and she's lying on the couch, it MAY be a signal for u to do something ... choose ur decisions wisely young one AND HELL YEAH use your hands .. obviously, you just don't want ur hands dangling around.. wrap your arms around her body.. or... do something that will get her erotically charged aka horny? -------- btw.. MINI!!! you're giving other people advices... and yet YOU STILL HAVEN'T KISSED? You liar
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