Could you handle having a gay best friend? |
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 May 26 2007, 02:31 PM
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So, I've been wondering. . .how many of you guys could handle having a gay best friend? Feel free to post as to why or why not that situation would work for you.
I would be totally comfortable with it myself. I already have many gay friends and they're all cool people. They understand the difference between us being friends and us being something more. If they were to develop feelings for me, they know they'd be able to say something and I'd be ok with it and we could work it out. - - - - - - - |
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May 26 2007, 02:49 PM
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I'm a girl, and one of my close was bisexual. I was completely fine with it. I think that having someone so close to me be bi opened my mind to homosexuality.
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May 26 2007, 03:09 PM
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 The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
There's nothing wrong with it at all. So yes I could handle it.
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May 26 2007, 03:11 PM
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Yeah, aint nothing wrong with that. Found out one of my best friends used to be bisexual with a tendency to go for the guy side, though he's since changed his orientation towards women.
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May 26 2007, 04:00 PM
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so, he turned straight? what? lol. |
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May 26 2007, 04:49 PM
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 CB's Forum Troll Group: Member Posts: 926 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,142 |
if he were gay he wouldn't be my friend
lurk moar plz |
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May 26 2007, 05:05 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
I think that I could handle it unless he/she started hitting on me @_@
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May 26 2007, 05:31 PM
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 vengeance. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,058 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,024 |
I'm a girl, I have a gay friend. He has alot of friends, I don't think they mind it.
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May 26 2007, 06:01 PM
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I guess i could handle it until he starts getting all physical and stuff.
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May 27 2007, 08:54 AM
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 hai, Im Philjay Group: Member Posts: 922 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 520,964 |
Yeah i'd be fine aslong as he did things i was not comfortable with. Pretty much anythng homo.
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May 27 2007, 11:23 AM
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There aren't really any actions that can be deemed homosexual. We have our stereotypical image of how a gay person should act, but that's not always the case.
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May 27 2007, 07:55 PM
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probably as long as i knew they wern't interested in me
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May 28 2007, 08:48 AM
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Well, yes. I mean, assuming that he or she was also a pleasant person, of course.
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May 28 2007, 10:44 AM
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hai, Im Philjay Group: Member Posts: 922 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 520,964 |
I think I have more straight guys who do stereotypical gay tendencies more then the 2 actual gay guys I'm friends with. It makes me wonder about my straight friends who do that. I wouldn't really mind if I had my 2 gay friends interested in me. Aslong as they knew I was straight and they don't do anything I'm uncomfortable with.
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May 28 2007, 11:03 AM
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QUOTE(brownsugar @ May 26 2007, 11:05 PM)  Well my best friend is a guy..if he turned gay right now, I wouldn't stop being friends with him. Unless he changed who he was. Not just his sexual preference.. Yeah I agree..but one thing bothers me is that some people I have came across always makesure that other's know they are gay/lesbian/bi.. and it is a huge let down cause they're not distiguishing their personality but instead their sexuality towards random people... I dunno if that makes sense? 
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May 28 2007, 03:09 PM
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 Don't touch me you drink! Group: Member Posts: 310 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 518,707 |
my best friend is Gay....and I love him to death, and the thing is... I didn't really know until he told me, even though I was suspicious that he was....but I have no problem with it.
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May 28 2007, 08:44 PM
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muhfucka yo mama's a bitch Group: Banned Posts: 1,461 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 506,674 |
Gay guys are pretty good wingmen.
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Jun 2 2007, 09:01 PM
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The sexuality of my friends doesn't really affect how close i become to them. However, I do understand how it would be awkward if my best friend was gay and liked me, or if my best friend was a girl and she had began to develop different types of emotions for me.
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Jun 10 2007, 08:44 PM
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 Fellatio. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,122 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,775 |
Well I wouldn't have a problem with it. Most of my friends already have a suspicion cuz of my effeminate tendencies, but i dont think they'd really care if I was until I just randomly made advances on them. But frankly, I wouldn't care: I have several friends who are open lesbians/bis.
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Jun 10 2007, 10:24 PM
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Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
when did gay people are generally more active than straight in this forum.
where are the straight guys just ... like me? Lol. |
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Jun 10 2007, 10:32 PM
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QUOTE(Fist @ Jun 10 2007, 11:24 PM) when did gay people are generally more active than straight in this forum. where are the straight guys just ... like me? Lol. LMAO, cause they are hiding in the other threads. |
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Jun 10 2007, 10:43 PM
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yeahhh!! having gay best friends are freakin awesome!!
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Jun 11 2007, 08:27 PM
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probably.. but if they started hitting on me,
i'd probably start walking away from them.. that would be really weird, and make me feel really incomfortable.. sorry 
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Jun 12 2007, 01:48 AM
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 omfg, rtfql. Group: Member Posts: 649 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,564 |
I have a lot of friends that are gay. I actually had one of my friends come out of the closet, recently. It was fun. :]
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Jun 13 2007, 01:17 AM
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Does it really matter, as long as they were the same person?
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Jun 14 2007, 11:08 PM
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if my friend turned gay i'd take him out back beat the shit outta him. jk i guess it'd depend if he was attracted to me or not, could be really awkward.
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Jun 15 2007, 01:57 AM
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ahaha you guys are strange
homos are weird go read a bible or something |
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Jun 17 2007, 11:37 AM
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im a girl. if i had a gay guy best friend i would love it =] im not quite sure about a gay girl best friend. i know i could deal with it but it would be awkward.
how many people would say no cuz of religon? i know my friend would. when i ask her, she says something about her religon and just sshrugs it off. she says its WRONG. and then i stare at her in awe and wonder how it could be wrong. i understand you want to follow your religon, but dont let it be a barrier between what your (in a way) forced to believe and what you believe that does nbot involve religon. infact, i think religon is just an excuse for some people to say what they really mean. |
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Jun 17 2007, 01:10 PM
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 Realm of Fire Group: Member Posts: 229 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,934 |
I wouldn't care if he was gay or not, We'd still be best friends...
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Jun 17 2007, 01:19 PM
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I don't care whether they are gay or not. But just recently I had a friend that I met last school year in gym class. We were friends and stuff, then torwards the end of the year he came out to me and one other person. He started hitting on me and rubbing my leg so I was like yeah stop it.
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Jun 19 2007, 04:50 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 174 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 517,502 |
I think it's depressing that this even has to be a debate. If you have a problem with it, shoot yourself and save me the ammo.
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Jun 19 2007, 11:27 AM
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^How awfully mean!
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Jun 19 2007, 07:41 PM
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 </3 Group: Member Posts: 1,113 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,746 |
As long as they didnt try anything with me I'd be fine with it.
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Jun 19 2007, 07:42 PM
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QUOTE(dudeimawesome @ Jun 15 2007, 02:57 AM) ahaha you guys are strange homos are weird go read a bible or something Oh please tell me your kidding D: Your too cute to be a complete bastard. |
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Jun 20 2007, 03:33 PM
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gay guys are cool.
and they arn't like girls. they might think your cute, but if they know your straight they won't try to get with you. girls are different, at least to me. they try to break me and my girlfriend up, and they try to be so skanky, it pisses me off cause they try way to hard. yeah gay guys know what looks good and they are great to shop with. they also know when girls are atractive or not. just becuase they are gay doesn't mean that they can't see a cute/attractive girl, now they don't call them hott cause, well to the guy that i am talking about, he just can't say that becuase he doesn't see girls as hott. |
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Jun 22 2007, 12:39 PM
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muhfucka yo mama's a bitch Group: Banned Posts: 1,461 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 506,674 |
As long as I dont wake up the next morning with soring ass.
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Jun 22 2007, 11:58 PM
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QUOTE(dudeimawesome @ Jun 15 2007, 02:57 PM) ahaha you guys are strange homos are weird go read a bible or something what the phuc |
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Jun 23 2007, 02:26 PM
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xkcd always Group: Member Posts: 457 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 521,059 |
QUOTE(AlextheShineyPenny @ Jun 20 2007, 01:33 PM) gay guys are cool. and they arn't like girls. they might think your cute, but if they know your straight they won't try to get with you. girls are different, at least to me. they try to break me and my girlfriend up, and they try to be so skanky, it pisses me off cause they try way to hard. yeah gay guys know what looks good and they are great to shop with. they also know when girls are atractive or not. just becuase they are gay doesn't mean that they can't see a cute/attractive girl, now they don't call them hott cause, well to the guy that i am talking about, he just can't say that becuase he doesn't see girls as hott. Wow it's like a poem. |
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Jun 25 2007, 03:26 PM
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Ya, totally.
i'm not that shallow of a friend to turn my back on someone because of their sexual orrientation. I mean c'mon they are still my friend. |
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Jun 27 2007, 02:09 AM
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Well, I have a best friend who I've known for 9 years. A year or 2 ago, I found out that he was Bi. But he seems to be more into guys. I'm okay with that and he's my best friend for so long.
I think it's just dumb to break a friendship just because someone is gay or whatever. I wouldn't do it, espicially I knew him for a very long time & it's shallow. However, I do wonder that I have straight friends and they act like homo's at times then my bi best friend. lol. I love my best friend (not in a homo way) and he's really cool to kick it with for the past 9 years & continuing. |
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Jul 2 2007, 06:58 PM
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 yah betch! Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,078 |
Yes, totally. I support homosexuality. There's nothing wrong with it :]
In fact, I would love having a gay friend. Someone different, ya know? Even if he starting hitting on me. (...I'm bi.)  
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Jul 2 2007, 07:02 PM
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yah betch! Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,078 |
QUOTE(Relentless @ Jun 27 2007, 03:09 AM) Well, I have a best friend who I've known for 9 years. A year or 2 ago, I found out that he was Bi. But he seems to be more into guys. I'm okay with that and he's my best friend for so long. I think it's just dumb to break a friendship just because someone is gay or whatever. I wouldn't do it, espicially I knew him for a very long time & it's shallow. However, I do wonder that I have straight friends and they act like homo's at times then my bi best friend. lol. I love my best friend (not in a homo way) and he's really cool to kick it with for the past 9 years & continuing. Amen! |
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Jul 5 2007, 11:13 PM
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i found it kewl if i had a friend who is gay or a bi.
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Jul 5 2007, 11:35 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
Yeah, one of my best friend's is gay, he likes me too, but it's all good.
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Jul 8 2007, 12:22 PM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
theyre just like regular friends. well, girls. the guys are "funner" to be around!
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Jul 8 2007, 01:11 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
those of you that are saying that you'd be fine with it UNLESS they tried something with you is a paradox.
if that bothers you than you'd wouldn't be COMPLETELY fine with it... & yes, of ocurse, i would love to have a gay best friend...besides myself. it's just that all the ones at my school are so nasty!
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Jul 8 2007, 01:18 PM
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QUOTE(Frankie @ Jul 8 2007, 02:11 PM) if that bothers you than you'd wouldn't be COMPLETELY fine with it... & yes, of ocurse, i would love to have a gay best friend...besides myself. it's just that all the ones at my school are so nasty! Lol, they keep trying to get in your pants? CREEPS! |
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Jul 8 2007, 01:20 PM
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This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
all you'd have to say it "no".
then if they keep doing, than that's just rude. |
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Jul 8 2007, 01:21 PM
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^ Or pathetic.
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Jul 8 2007, 06:18 PM
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^ Haha. OMGOSh. I would soo love videotaping one of my homosexual friends trying to hit on one of my straight guy friends. haha
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Jul 8 2007, 07:02 PM
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This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
it'd be like when you're eating something, and someone asks for a bite and i'm like No.
bite? Bite? BITE?! omfg...EFFING NO!  uh, that was my analogy for the day. 
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Jul 8 2007, 08:19 PM
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Bone?
Bone? PLEASE BONE?! |
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Jul 8 2007, 10:14 PM
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Bone?er?
Bone?er? PLEASE BONE ME?! 
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Jul 11 2007, 02:20 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
Shit, I'm gay and I have more friends than I could possibly imagine.
Though, honestly, I feel uncomfortable hanging out with straight guys because sometimes they're just idiots and I want to punch them in their effing faces. Let me address some myths: 1) I WILL NOT HIT ON YOU. Okay, first of all, you're probably too ugly. Secondly, you probably have a brain of a fly. Finally, I hit on guys who like other guys thank you very much. 2) Not all gay guys are flamboyant fruit cakes. Some act as normal as straight guys if not "straighter" to prove that they're not pussies. 3) I don't get why straight guys think that they have to work so hard to talk to us. Seriously, you can talk about girls to me. Although I would never bang a girl, I can still say if they're ugly as shit or not, etc. etc. 4) Homophobes, go suck a goat. That's all I can think of right now. Kthxbi. PS: And what the f**k? What's with gay guys hitting on straight guys these days? QUOTE all you'd have to say it "no". then if they keep doing, than that's just rude. If they keep doing it, then they're effing desperate and need to get a life. |
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Jul 14 2007, 06:08 PM
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Had one. Disaster.
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Jul 14 2007, 07:19 PM
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QUOTE(ThomasC @ Jul 11 2007, 02:13 PM) yobaka3, SinfullySweet. I have no idea what your posts have to do with having a gay best friend LOL. Okayyy Thomas. I have handled having gay friends. Its nothing new. Some of my best friends are. And Mini is right, alot of people should throw away their stereotypical ideas that all gays are fruitcaked trannys. Its not true at all. Most of the gays I know act, look, talk, and react the same as straight boys. |
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Jul 14 2007, 07:27 PM
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This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
i just get annoyed when girls want to be my best friend based soley on the fact that i'm gay.
like we're all just one-demensional.
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Jul 14 2007, 08:24 PM
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i think it shouldnt matter
let people live the way they want to live and not having to have other people run your life for you |
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Jul 15 2007, 11:08 AM
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 AttacKATTack! Group: Member Posts: 697 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 536,660 |
I agree with Mini (I'm not gay, but everything else).
I hate how people act as if gay people are a species and not actual people. Just because they're gay doesn't mean that they like you. It makes no sense at all to me when people think that. So yes, I could handle a gay best friend. Afterall, they'd be my best friend, so what would it matter if they were gay? |
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Jul 15 2007, 12:28 PM
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I'm pretty sure that the majority of those who are saying 'yes' can't handle it finally. My friends are like that too ... 'oh, I could so handle it, it's just their orientation' but when they come accross homosexuals, they're like 'eww, nasty people'.
Being that I'm bisexual, it isn't a problem, plus my brother is gay. |
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Jul 19 2007, 05:53 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
QUOTE(S-Majere @ Jul 14 2007, 07:08 PM) Had one. Disaster. I can be your new gay best friend. QUOTE i just get annoyed when girls want to be my best friend based soley on the fact that i'm gay. like we're all just one-demensional. stubborn.gif Haha, that's weird. I never had that happen to me.
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Jul 20 2007, 12:02 AM
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This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
QUOTE(Mini @ Jul 19 2007, 05:53 PM) Haha, that's weird. I never had that happen to me. it's cuz they all think that i'm gonna tell them when they're hair looks good or bad. Or that i'm going to go shopping with them... and i'm like, i only care about my own hair. And i only like shopping for myself...by myself. 
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Jul 20 2007, 01:06 AM
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QUOTE(Mini @ Jul 19 2007, 06:53 PM) I can be your new gay best friend. ^:O be mine xP. Anyway,I'm bi.My close friends know it.They love me.So yeah I can handle having one.Just don't hit on me. . . especially in front of my mom or dad. . . they will shoot you and bury you in front of train tracks and watch you get run over O.O |
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Jul 21 2007, 06:05 AM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
QUOTE(Frankie @ Jul 20 2007, 01:02 AM) it's cuz they all think that i'm gonna tell them when they're hair looks good or bad. Or that i'm going to go shopping with them... and i'm like, i only care about my own hair. And i only like shopping for myself...by myself. Haha. You're selfish! But no, the reason no one does that to me is because I'm really mean towards a lot of people (not cruelly but jokingly). So most of them are too intimidated unless they genuinely like me. QUOTE ust don't hit on me. . . especially in front of my mom or dad. . . they will shoot you and bury you in front of train tracks and watch you get run over O.O Obviously people would know better seeing how most parents are ultra traditional and conservative. |
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Jul 22 2007, 02:18 AM
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 Get at me Group: Member Posts: 515 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,964 |
if he wasn't didn't look at me in that gay way than yeah.
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Jul 22 2007, 03:09 AM
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 The more things change,The more they stay the same. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,319 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 442,600 |
I would be totally Ok with it!
I mean,You were their friend before,So I mean as long as they are the same person I wouldnt have a problem with that! |
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Jul 30 2007, 05:05 PM
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 Ohhh yes. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,148 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 552,569 |
It shouldn't be a problem. They are the same person, and you wouldn't be much of a friend if you stopped liking them for that reason.
I wouldn't have a problem with it. |
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Aug 5 2007, 03:23 AM
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muhfucka yo mama's a bitch Group: Banned Posts: 1,461 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 506,674 |
QUOTE(SinfullySweet @ Jul 8 2007, 08:14 PM) PLEASE BONE ME?! Tsk tsk, this isn't the first time you asked. |
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Aug 5 2007, 06:04 AM
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I'd be fine with it. Just because someone is gay, it doesn't mean that they're going to hit on me. And if they do, just tell them you don't swing that way. But people seem to think that just because someone is gay and you're a guy, that said gay person is immediately going to lust after you like a fly on some very seductive manure. (Futurama FTW) So I'd have no problem with it. It wouldn't be fair to reject them, it's not their 'fault' that they're gay. |
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Sep 11 2007, 07:22 PM
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muhfucka yo mama's a bitch Group: Banned Posts: 1,461 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 506,674 |
Yes
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Sep 11 2007, 07:44 PM
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QUOTE(Ma Ass is WOW @ May 28 2007, 09:44 PM) Gay guys are pretty good wingmen. yeah they are
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Sep 12 2007, 07:13 PM
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I probably can. I wouldn't mind. I know one or two gay people and they're pretty cool to be around with.
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Sep 12 2007, 07:25 PM
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 for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
I think i could handle it.
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Sep 13 2007, 05:14 AM
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i actually have a gay best friend
so it dosent bother me i mean they r still human after all i jus get sick of people who protest against them i dont see whats wrong wif it ? they have rights jus like the rest of us 
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Sep 19 2007, 02:37 PM
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 hello. Group: Official Designer Posts: 211 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 513,566 |
im not a guy but yes. I hate when people say "lyke omg they will like me! ewwww" um no okay? lol thats just dumb
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Sep 22 2007, 12:23 PM
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 that's what she said Group: Member Posts: 848 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,512 |
My best friend is bi ^-^
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Sep 23 2007, 09:09 PM
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yeah. i have a lot of gay relatives, so i find it's not a big deal. i mean, unless the person tried anything on me. i wouldn't mind if a guy had a crush on me, thats flattering but still pretty weird, but if he tried anything, i'd be pretty freaked out.
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Sep 24 2007, 12:42 AM
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Assumedly, if you were best friends with a person in the first place, you must have had things in common. Just because someone comes out it doesn't mean that goes away. Why should that change? What is there to handle?
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Sep 25 2007, 01:19 PM
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 eat your heart out ! Group: Official Designer Posts: 193 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,306 |
yes i could because i am gay and a lot of people are best friends with me so i dont think its a hard thing to do.
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Oct 30 2007, 10:51 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,735 |
I have a friend JOEY and he is totally gay i am cool with it and i tease him and stuff he is a good friend
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Nov 15 2007, 02:39 PM
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I have one friend who is gay but most of my friends that are girls, are usually lesbians or bi. I don't know what it is but I seem to attract alot of bi girls.
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Nov 15 2007, 07:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,801 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 568,102 |
One of my best female friends is Bi. I don't have a problem with it.
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Nov 15 2007, 09:45 PM
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I bet my gay friend wants me to 'handle' him.
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Nov 23 2007, 04:01 AM
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No.
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Mar 2 2008, 06:11 PM
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 Hablamos Espańol. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,283 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 549,364 |
Its a lifestyle.
It wouldnt alter our friendship or anything like that. Yea, it would be a shocker but its just not one of those things i'd freakout at all about. id probably go to the extent of poking fun at it. i loove it.
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Mar 19 2008, 10:43 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 |
Nope... cuz I'm ignorant and hateful like that. Though I'll admit I do have a couple female friends that are lesbians which are married with a 12 year old boy.
They're cool people, but they take everything so personal when it comes to opinions on gays. Hell even if one of us say, "that is so GAY!" one of them... at least one of them has to say something and ruin our fun =\ Damn gays... you're no fun! |
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Mar 19 2008, 04:42 PM
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I'm a girl, so it might be different from le guys, but I would love having a gay friend. They could like tell me what goes on in the locker room C:
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Mar 19 2008, 05:31 PM
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 Kiddie Crack. :) Group: Member Posts: 150 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 597,025 |
QUOTE(TheFegNut @ Mar 19 2008, 04:42 PM) I'm a girl, so it might be different from le guys, but I would love having a gay friend. They could like tell me what goes on in the locker room C: lmaoo nice. |
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Mar 19 2008, 05:35 PM
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QUOTE(TheFegNut @ Mar 19 2008, 05:42 PM) I'm a girl, so it might be different from le guys, but I would love having a gay friend. They could like tell me what goes on in the locker room C: Nothin happens in the locker room. It's where people change in and out of clothes. And back when I was in highschool, non of the guys took showers in the locker room, we were all strongly homophobic and we'll still be :P |
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Mar 19 2008, 05:36 PM
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How disappointing ): |
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Mar 19 2008, 09:12 PM
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QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Mar 19 2008, 05:35 PM) Nothin happens in the locker room. It's where people change in and out of clothes. And back when I was in highschool, non of the guys took showers in the locker room, we were all strongly homophobic and we'll still be :P you dont look homophobic tama.. why that..? |
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Mar 20 2008, 12:22 AM
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 kthxbai Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,832 Joined: Feb 2008 Member No: 621,203 |
no
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Apr 18 2008, 11:35 PM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
I have decided that after all of this, I couldn't handle having a queen for a best friend. I mean if somebody is gay, then it is cool you know....to each his own. HOWEVA (Screaming A Voice), I couldn't handle having one of the queens around. Leave that shit at home playboy.
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Apr 19 2008, 03:05 PM
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Of course i could handle having a gay friend. I can't see how it would alter our friendship in the slightest.
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Apr 30 2008, 09:15 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
one of my former best friends is gay. we drifted apart after college since we go to colleges on the different coasts. he's an amazing guy though.
and a lot of my friends are lesbians. they're wonderful and sexuality does not define friendship |
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May 5 2008, 07:14 PM
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i have nothing againts gay people, but if i had a male friend that was gay i'd honestly try to keep my distance because you never know what they're going to pull..
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May 6 2008, 09:09 AM
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im a girl and i always wanted a gay best friend
 knowing that you can do anything and they wouldnt take advantage of you. i myself have had realy bad experiances with boys using me so a gay friend would be cool cos girls can sometimes be realy bitchy! tohopefully my best (boy mate) turnes into a gay lol
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May 8 2008, 11:34 PM
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yes, I could. And if you can't read my username, than you wouldn't know that I AM GAY!!! And proud of it! Ya! So if I had a gay friend, than they would most likely be my boyfriend:) guess what else? This is my first time coming out and telling the world I'm gay! B4 I get too off subject, I will say again, YES I could have a gay friend! :):):)
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May 9 2008, 02:47 AM
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Whats with all the "nothing against gays, but they might fancy me!" type posts? I'm sure you guys have plenty of girls who manage to stay friends with you without being deeply madly attracted to you.
Being gay doesn't mean that they will fancy man on the planet, so stop flattering yourself lads
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May 9 2008, 06:03 AM
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 yo yo yiggidy yo. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,606 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,591 |
i would love a gay best friend. haha. whenever i talk to this one gay friend, he always makes me laugh because of the way he criticize people. and its awesome because we can talk about the same stuff too, like make-up and clothes. i find them awesome and super nice.. when you get to know them and they're not stuck-up.
especially when my guy friends act gay with each other, no homo though. lol. i'm pretty used to having crazy friends. a gay best friend would definitely make my friends something special, haha. but whether they're gay or not, it shouldn't affect a friendship. i've actually known this certain friend of mine when he was in denial about being gay, like in middle school. now he's fabulous. 
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