Ahhh I have no where to turn! Options

[JonathanK]

Ok well a couple of weeks ago i posted that thid girl I *was* dating was all screwed up cause her long distance bf started to conatct her again and she started to not know what to do. Fianlly last week we talked about it and she basically let both of us go. She needs to work on her studies for school and everything. Ok so i was year torn by this moment when she dumped me, but hey she said she would always be there for me as a friend and would always talk to me and we could always hang out. Then on Sat i learned that my grandfather is dieing . I went to see him at the hospital and he had a mchine to breathe for him and in was not responding. I was just sitting there with my family watching my oma hold his hand while crying. it made my heart shatter in to even smaller peices from the break up. Now after she broke up with me we still talked and everything, but on monday now she just ignores me. We are in the same art class all she does is listen to her music on her phone and talk to other ppl but me now . I honestly feel horrible. She said she would be there for me when i need her and now when i need her the most she isn't. Before we started dating I was always there for her and put my feelings aside to help her out, she would call at midnight and stuff cause she had a fight with her rents or just cause she had a bad day and i would help her. Now that my grandad is dieing she was the only real person i could talk to and let my feelings out about it, i feel so betrayed right now. I am juggling so much right now in my life. I have no where else to turn. of course i have other friends to talk to about this and it does help but it isn't the same as it would be if it was her. Any ideas on what i should do, or should i just give her time. Much appreciated for the responses. God bless

[HelloSunshine]

Maybe she just feels uncomfortable around you?

You can try texting her? Or IMing her, asking her about it.
If you can't do that..maybe..a note? O.O It's a little weird, but it could work?

You should give her time. She may just feel akward around you.

[Mystic Eyes]

Maybe she just feels uncomfortable around you?

Then why say something like i'll be there for you when in actual fact she's uncomfortable, it's not right.

I think you should give it time and forget about what she said. It's not nice that she said one thing but doesn't actually carry it through. Sorry to hear about your grandfather.

[JonathanK]

It is official my grandfather passed away last night.
I told her and she gave me a hug and that was about it, it felt like such a pitty hug i'm glad i got it though. After that she didn't really even say anything. Ahh i'm just so frustrated a girl i used to like which im starting to like now gave me more comfort than my ex. She gave me a hug, a peck on the cheek and she drew me a card saying to feel beter and stuff. We just sat in the librarie and talked all class, she made me feel a bit better. But with my ex I don't know it's like everytime somthing goes bad she turns the other way and keeps walking as if nothing happened. It just seems selfish that she is only concerned about her feelings other than mine which i am in great sorrow right now. Thanks for the replies, much appreciated

[EmoEyelinerx]

She probably just doesent know how to help. Try talking to her on the phone/im/text or a note. If shes so concerned about her thoughts and feelings maybe shes not the right person to go to for help and deffenaly not some you should want in your life. Sorry to hear about your grandfather :(