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 Jun 13 2004, 01:09 PM
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 Jamey  Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,066  |
alright. i met this girl at a party and shes interested in me. the thing is, shes really quiet/shy. ill do most of the talking, ill have to start all the conversations. any suggestions on how to get her to open up?
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Jun 13 2004, 01:12 PM
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 Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
just keep on tlkaing to her. eventually when she feels more comfortable around you, she'll talk more
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Jun 13 2004, 01:21 PM
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Make her laugh.
She'll prolly lighten up after that. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Jun 13 2004, 01:35 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,102 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,162 |
Keep talking to her.
Talk about things you know she's interested in. Give her some time. I was like that too, but eventually, I felt comfortable around the guy and now we have really long talks together. 
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Jun 13 2004, 02:12 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
some ppl are just like that, no a talkative person..
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Jun 13 2004, 02:55 PM
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 and then he died... Group: Member Posts: 338 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,047 |
talk 2 her more. and make her comfortable.. like make her belive you are a nice guy and you are ez to talk 2.
y not try to like make fun of her... and everything will be ezier. just try once. some girls hate to be make fun of.. lmao. dont go 2 far. jus 2 berak the ice. =] X |
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Jun 13 2004, 03:01 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
i think u just need to keep talkin to her until she gets used to talking to u
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Jun 13 2004, 03:35 PM
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 =P Group: Member Posts: 207 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,290 |
hmm....some people are just naturally quiet. it's hard to force people to become talkative. i'm sure if you get to know her better, she'll open up a bit. =D
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Jun 13 2004, 04:43 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
well ask her wat shes interested in...and wat she likes to talk about so u guys can talk easily and she can be open-minded. well there is not many ppls who cant get over that... it's like permantely(sp??)... but try and ask her wat she likes to talk about or ask her friends.
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Jun 13 2004, 04:44 PM
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 MArdin0 Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,055 |
take her some place with not alot of people and start to tlak, and [things] then she might start talking more?
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Jun 13 2004, 06:17 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
I think you guys should get to know each other better and start hanging out more often. She SHOULD start talking ...
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Jun 13 2004, 06:55 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
u would have to show her that ur comfortable talkin to her and wen she sees it, she'll feel comfortable too make some jokes make her laugh, offer her food =D heh dotn ask too much questions or she'll feel weird lol and keep talking abuot urself to show her that ur not shy about telling urself so she shouldnt e
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Jun 13 2004, 09:26 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
yehh you gotta make her feel comfy... i thin she feels kinda nervous... and doesnt want to feel embarssed or anything.. soo be goofy and crew up yourslef!!
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Jun 13 2004, 10:20 PM
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 dance starrie dance! Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,294 |
hmm make her feel "comfortable" around you.. as if she can hang around and be herself.
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Jun 13 2004, 10:50 PM
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 <3~Tara~<3 Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491 |
keep on talkin to her she'll open up juzz give her some time...
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Jun 13 2004, 10:54 PM
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keep talking n ask her to talk every once n awhile
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Jun 14 2004, 12:29 AM
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If you keep talking to her and you show her that you're really interested in her then she wont be as nervous and will open up, once she does everything will be easier
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Jun 14 2004, 12:53 AM
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Talk about something that relates to her and she would want to tell you more.
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Jun 14 2004, 12:55 AM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
QUOTE(chinkieeyedpnoi @ Jun 13 2004, 1:21 PM) Make her laugh. She'll prolly lighten up after that. - Chinkieeyedpnoi Yeah I agree. Making someone laugh can really help out in opening them up. Give her some time, learn her interests and see if you have anything in common, and have a good time. Make her smile.
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Jun 14 2004, 10:20 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
the more you let her know she can trust you when you start conversations to get to know her .. the more she'll open up .. all you need is time ..
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Jun 14 2004, 05:47 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
hmm, that's just like me. yeah, i was like that around my boyfriend. it got so bad that after a while, we broke up. but, just keep talking to her and make her feel comfortable. ask her some questions or something.
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Jun 15 2004, 10:26 AM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
give it some time, eventually she'll feel more comfortable, n open up 2 u...
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Jun 15 2004, 03:12 PM
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Jamey Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,066 |
thanks a lot people. im going out with her now!
 shes really comfortable now and she talks a lot more.
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Jun 15 2004, 04:04 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Yeah, I'm sort of like that..
All you need to do is just talk to her/him, and usually it'll work itself out. By the way, congrats, jahama!
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Jun 15 2004, 04:32 PM
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hEY, i'm like that too, being shy. I usaully like to listen to others then be the one who talks, but once she gets to realli know u she will open up. Wat ur doing right now is good be the one to talk to always better then having an awkward silence. Tell her jokes, ask her question always helps. Good Luck!
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Jun 15 2004, 04:42 PM
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What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
QUOTE(jahama1240 @ Jun 15 2004, 3:12 PM) thanks a lot people. im going out with her now! shes really comfortable now and she talks a lot more.Congratulations to you guys and good luck!!  *Sniffle* They grow up so fast.. 
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Jun 16 2004, 11:27 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 383 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,539 |
QUOTE(immersion31 @ Jun 13 2004, 7:54 PM) keep talking n ask her to talk every once n awhile um. no. that's really rude. if i were her, i'd assume that he was making fun of me. unless if you're asking her to talk by having her give you feedback, that's different. but if you meant saying something like "talk." that would be kind of.. |
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Jun 17 2004, 12:36 AM
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 I <3 Kirby Group: Member Posts: 652 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,421 |
I'm sure that as time progresses, she'll be able to open up more to you if she feels more comfortable around you. Lots of people are just shy by nature, but just take things slow, and eventually, if you talk to her more and more, she'll start knowing you better to an extent that she'll be able to be more outgoing toward you.
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Jul 9 2004, 08:24 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
make her feel comfortable nd make her laugh.
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