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 Jun 13 2004, 02:22 AM
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 ThePinkPanda  Group: Member Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,168  |
I don't know what to do. It turns out one of my really good friends likes me and wants to go out with me.. but I'm already kinda in a semi-relationship with a guy I met online. Ry(the online guy) is really sweet and I love him. But I'm not sure how I feel about the other guy. I'm so confused
 The friend would be easier to date, since he is going to my school nextyear. Ry lives in a dif state. But I've gotten to know him and..
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Jun 13 2004, 08:42 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
long distance relationships hurt like hell. I don't think you should take the risk of going out with Ry, you met him online? It's kind of hard to get to know each other online. I prefer that you pick your friend.
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Jun 13 2004, 09:15 AM
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 *~extraordinary~* Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,895 |
QUOTE Hmm, well if you believe in online relationships, go for Ry. But if you dont like online relationships n stuff then go for the friend that will go to the same skool with ya nxt yr. But really, you should just let ur heart decide i agree with that but mostly, i think it would be better if you can see the person who you are dating...it's just better because you never know how Ry might be in person. i'm not saying he's necessarily bad or anything but i just think it's better if you choose someone you know very well... 
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Jun 13 2004, 11:27 AM
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 Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
long distant relationships are SOOOOOOO hard!!!! and itz online....who knows is this ry guy (heyyyy thats kinda rhymes) isnt sum horny 40 yr old guy posing as a teenager??? if you want mai advice, i say go with the really good friend.....i've been thro a long distant relationship with mai ex....and it was a living nightmare, i hated it
 well i hope for da best
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Jun 13 2004, 02:21 PM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
neither.
tell your friend that you don't want to lose him, which might happen if you go out. tell ry the online guy that it's online, and that's all. that you couldn't handle a long distance. |
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Jun 13 2004, 03:09 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
well if u think the online relationship is realli gonna work out then go with ry n tell the other guy that ur taken, n if u realli dont believe the online relationship isnt gna work then go with the other guy
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Jun 13 2004, 04:51 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
well u know online relationship sometimes can be a dope...sometimes they lie about their ages and their looks. so if i was u, i would say u shud go for ur friend who will go to ur skool next year. i mean think about it. u can have the most valuable time together. and think about Ry.... all u gona do is sit in ur seat and talk to him online and u cant do anything fun together. so i would say go out with ur friend. it's more worth it.
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Jun 13 2004, 07:00 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i always think online relationship isnt good... is ur friend that lives in the same state as u like a best friend? if he is then its a good thing cuz he knows u well and will kno how to treat u well..
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