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 May 6 2007, 07:04 PM
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May 6 2007, 08:05 PM
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 Nepenthe Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 347,414 |
Eh. I say break up with him. If it's REALLY meant to be, the seperation will KILL YOU and you'll HAVE to get back together. But if you're enjoying being single and flirting and enjoying attention from guys, you're ready to move on. The fights mean that things are getting stressed and pushed...not good, and those things rarely fix. But it's just my advice, of course.
I just recently broke off a long distance relationship. I feel sooo much better.....I just didn't FEEL it, you know? But now I have another guy I like...and this time, when THIS ONE looks at me, my stomach turns in little knots. C= You just KNOW, trust me. |
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May 6 2007, 08:35 PM
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i'd meet him in person if possible, if you're seriouse about him. i don't get why you're completely cutting out the physical aspects especially after you know you love each other for nearly two years. people weren't meant to type to each other on keyboards all day. wow i need to go outside
o nvm i saw in the other thread that he lives in the next state, i hate it when i ramble on about things that i don't know what i'm talking about, i'll shut up now |
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May 7 2007, 02:55 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(achimongus @ May 6 2007, 9:05 PM)  Eh. I say break up with him. If it's REALLY meant to be, the seperation will KILL YOU and you'll HAVE to get back together. But if you're enjoying being single and flirting and enjoying attention from guys, you're ready to move on. The fights mean that things are getting stressed and pushed...not good, and those things rarely fix. agreed |
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May 8 2007, 07:56 PM
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 <333 Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 496,434 |
hmm. if i were you id break up with him. you guys should just stay really good friends...or maybe sorta act like you are in a relationship when you really arent? that might make it a lil better.
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May 8 2007, 08:58 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
it's really all up to you. if you really want to just remain really good friends with him then tell him. if you don't feel that way towards him anymore then that's just that. just tell him that you feel that you two would work better as friends rather than a couple. does that make sense? ehh, it makes sense to me..:)
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May 9 2007, 09:08 PM
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 My silent cries. Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 522,694 |
Omg, i'm actually having the same prob & feeling the same way!
Honestly, i dont know why am i still holding on, but i guess i'm just used to him being there & everything. I know it's not correct, but, yeah. Hahs! My advice : Break up. What matter most is how you feel towards this relationship, how much more "hope" do you still have ? & not what you expect to change. But do bear in mind the fact that sometime guys wont want to be friends with their ex & everything. So do reconsider! :D |
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May 9 2007, 09:12 PM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
It's hard with long distance relationships. I'd just break up. I can't bare that.
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May 9 2007, 10:00 PM
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May 10 2007, 08:02 AM
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 The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
Thats too bad. If this relationship or him for that matter means anything genuine then stick with it. If not then be good friends with him then.
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