Dealing with Stepmom's and Step kids, help me |
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 May 1 2007, 09:48 PM
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 extra-ordinary  Group: Member Posts: 147 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 364,995  |
okay hear me out people please! My parents are divorced and my dad remarried this other woman (i'll call her Maria). So "Maria" and my dad have been married for 5 years. "maria" already had 2 children with another man, but they were in Mexico the past 5 yers of their marriage. WELL a month ago my dad fixed their papers and brought them over here. The little girl is a bitch and doesnt respect anyone, because of her my stepmom got so mad at me that "maria" wont even talk to me. So now when im home im just in my room. I feel like I am living in a cage!!!! and well my dad barely talks to me!
my question is "do you think i should tolerate this since I dont want to leave my dad or should I move to live with my REAL mom(really kool by the way)? help me please  -squirt. |
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| *Monochrome.* |
May 1 2007, 09:51 PM
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Give it a little more time and thought and then see if it still sucks.If it still sucks then just go with your mum,Legally your father or step mum have no say so.
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May 1 2007, 10:05 PM
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extra-ordinary Group: Member Posts: 147 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 364,995 |
yeah i guess you're right. but in cases like this time seems to pass by soooooo slowly that its killing me!!! this is such a b*&%!
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May 2 2007, 04:10 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
Definitely talk to your dad about this problem... He may just be really busy right now + not realize how you're being treated unfairly. Don't do anything rash soon, though... wait it out a while before you really decide to move out. Good luck. |
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May 2 2007, 08:05 PM
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extra-ordinary Group: Member Posts: 147 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 364,995 |
you are so right my dad has been too busy lately and stuff. i guess you guys are right about the whole waiting thing. okay well i am going to give it some time. but...
do you think i should try to fix things with my stepmom or just whatever, b/c i didnt even do anything to her _________@#$ 
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| *suddenly she* |
May 2 2007, 10:13 PM
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You're being unnecessarily dramatic. Don't immediately resort to such extreme solutions like moving out or going to go live with your mom... talk to a counselor or someone with experience first.
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| *Podomaht* |
May 2 2007, 11:26 PM
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Throw some D's on that bitch. It's the best way to get rid of your step mother.
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May 3 2007, 06:06 AM
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 The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
Stay there for a little while longer and try to patch things up with your stepmum. If things still are on a low then go live with your biological mother.
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May 3 2007, 10:25 PM
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extra-ordinary Group: Member Posts: 147 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 364,995 |
thanks.
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