dunno what to do. Options

[ariana8716]

well i like this boy..and he started talking to me in the first place and has commeneted before on one of my myspace pictures and said i looked good in a picture and everything and well we started talking at school and then a couple fridays ago we went to the movies and he'd keep like leaning toward me and then going straight and doing it on and off and grabbing my hand and touching me..stuff like that. and then it ended up with me laying on him and his arm around me.


well then we started talking a little more and then he called me thursday night and we talked and everything and then we had talked about this girl he liked..and see my deal is/was to try to be more fun than her and get him to like me..and he had talked to me about her asking if we were friends and was telling me stuff about her saying he didnt know what to do but most of it was kinda negative..like that sometimes he wished he wasnt going to the banquet with her anymore and he always had to say hey to her first and he didnt think he would ask her out .. just go to the banquet and be done and then we started talking about some other stuff then he randomly was like well i wanna know who you like and i was like well i dunno and he was like what do you mean you dont know i could be spilling my heart for you and youre saying you dont know and i was like i dont and laughed and he was liek well somebody told me you liked me and i was like oh really who told you that and he was like yeah i dont remember and i was like ok well maybe theyre right and he was like what? and i was like maybe theyre rightt and then idk it was just weird cus you could tell we were both nervous and akward and stuff so then we started talking about something else..

but then the next night he called me again :]
and we'd talk and stuff and id make him laugh and then we'd joke around and he'd hangup on me and then call right back and then we kept loosing service and he'd always call me back.. and we always talk in the hallways too and i've seen him check me out a lot.

well the deal is im trying to figure out if he's leading me on or if he doesn't really know who he wants or if he likes me or whatt...

ive just noticed him and amy(girl he kinda likes..and is going to the dance with ) have started talking more and i feel like she's winning right now,but before i was with him calling me.

so what can i do as well to keep him wanting me.

any ideas would be great.
please&thanks.
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[LennonLime]

sounds like he may be a bit confused....

you need to step it up.

Don't stalk him or anything...that'd be kind of...well....Stalkerish

but seriously, get this kid to pay attention to you more by acting like yourself, flirt a little.
Let him know you're there, but not in an over the top kind of way.

make him want to come after you instead of the other girl....
be mysterious....or something like that

[ariana8716]

any examplesss? =]

anybodyy?
help pleasee ''/

[*kryogenix*]

THROW SOME Ds ON THAT BITCH

[EmoEyelinerx]

LOL this sounds just like mine and my boyfrineds story.. Well as for him likeing another girl it doesent mean he isnt into you, it just means that he needs to get to know you more or hes to shy to tell you he likes you to. And since he calls you what everyday? it means he likes you because my bf was the same way before we went out and he would always ask me who i liked so i told him finally "u" and he said "really? i like you to". So i think the best thing for you to do is just be like "who do you like?" and he will probably say "idk" or someone then he will ask you who you like and you just need to plain out say "u" then u might find out he has feelings for you to but he was just to shy to tell you. As for this amy chic i think you should just try to ignore her and try to maybe flirt with him and talk to him more. ~Hope this helps

[ariana8716]

Thanks.
See the thing is I didn't really talk to him over the weekend,
and then Monday & today he hasn't been talking as much..and it seems like he's talking to Amy more.

Is this a bad sign?

[ariana8716]

anybody?
gohhh.
i thought this was a 'helping' forum.
not a read and ignore.

[cupcakex]

Calm down, a little. Have some patience, help will come.

The best thing for you to do, is ask him what he wants. Tell him not to lead you on. It's immature. If he says he's not sure, try to talk to him and hang out with him as much as you can.

[Mystic Eyes]

If you really like him then go for it. Flirt abit, not too much just to let him know your around and interested. Try talking to him more and maybe pretend to accidently bump into him during lunch break and strike up a conversation and what not.

It sounds like he's confused and doesn't know who he likes more. So your still in there with a chance.