help?, can you give me advice on intimacy... |
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 Apr 27 2007, 02:49 PM
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 we go a-drowning  Group: Member Posts: 964 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 519,725  |
i have a bf, and i am very much in love with him. we were best friends for a year or so before we started going out, and we still have that INCREDIBLY close bond from the friendship ( i can talk to him about anything - even gurly stuff)...
my problem is that though, i love him more than a friend but sometimes i still see him as my closest friend and i have a hard time being more intimate with him ( i dont believe in sex before marriage, so i dont mean that way) i want to be more than anything, but i dont know how to... does anyone have any advice or tips on how to be intimate without pushing me over the edge???... thank you 
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| *Podomaht* |
Apr 27 2007, 03:18 PM
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Throw some D's on that bitch.
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Apr 27 2007, 03:34 PM
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we go a-drowning Group: Member Posts: 964 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 519,725 |
uhhh. not really the advice i have in mind. im not throwing away what we have because of it. i just want decent advice... sheesh.
oh and you use that line too much.[color=#993399] |
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| *Podomaht* |
Apr 27 2007, 08:33 PM
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Give him SURPRISE BUTT SECKS!
be nice- monochrome. no. - podomaht |
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Apr 28 2007, 10:33 PM
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 Lose yourself and fly away, hide away for the day Group: Member Posts: 242 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 446,527 |
Hold his hand, whisper a sincere compliment in his hear.. I dunno...
Kiss him on the cheek... I don't know anything for sure except for the fact the posters before me are being a little smart alicky.. |
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May 2 2007, 06:10 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
Try to hug him when you see him, kiss him on the cheek or lips, hold hands and well FLIRT. ^ And yea i agree they are being smart alicks
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May 2 2007, 07:01 PM
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 The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
Hold Hands
Kisses Whispering genuine, nice comments about him Hugging him from behind, like sneaking up to him if you get the chance or just a normal hug. If he's ticklish, then that's an option. Flirting with him. Leave little messages on his mobile phone or something. |
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May 2 2007, 08:37 PM
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well, how long have you been dating? it will take a while of dating to really build that closeness and intimacy. if you don't feel comfortable with doing something, or if it seems awkward, you don't have to do anything; just build him up with your words, give him a sincere good morning the first time you see him in a day- little things like that.
if you mean the physical, hold his hand in public, give him an extra hug when your guy-friends are around or when he's having a bad day. you dont really NEED a high level of intimacy if you're just starting that romantic connection; over the years, that grows. if it feels like you're fine where you are, you don't have to push it. |
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May 2 2007, 10:22 PM
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cuddle?
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May 2 2007, 11:25 PM
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SURPRISE BLOW JOBS!
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