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 Apr 18 2007, 12:57 AM
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 fo`shizzLe  Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 422,719  |
what if you guys have a best friend and you fell for them. would you rather stay in the friend zone or go beyond that? explain why you chose that?
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Apr 18 2007, 01:00 AM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
I hope you don't have a best friend. If you do, they must be in utter agony...
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Apr 18 2007, 01:23 AM
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 roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
^ haha. wow.
Hm. I'd drop some hints. I wouldn't be totally forward with it unless I thought they at least liked me back a bit. |
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Apr 20 2007, 03:20 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
well my boyfriend used to be one of my good guy friends and I fell for him. He felt the same way too, so now we're together.
I guess it all depends on the situation..and ifyou're willing to risk friendship. |
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Apr 20 2007, 05:13 PM
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It all depends on the relationship that's already there and just how much you feel for them so that you can decide if you want to take the risk of losing the friendship.
My ex was my best friend for a long time before we dated, and although we are over now and we don't talk anymore really, I'll always remember the relationship, but it does kind of suck that we're not friends anymore. |
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Apr 20 2007, 06:54 PM
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 hardxcore. Group: Member Posts: 1,223 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 479,494 |
it really depends.
i had a good riend that i started crushing on. but i didn't want to ruin a good friendship. but if it seemed like they liked you...i suppose you could try. |
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Apr 22 2007, 12:39 PM
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my boyfriend now was my best friend for two years. i guess it really depends on the situation and how he feels toward you.
it has to be from both sides to start the relationship. otherwise, that risk can just throw away the whole friendship. but then again, if he likes you back, i say go for it. |
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Apr 23 2007, 02:40 PM
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 The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
Most relationships end in pain and regret, lets be realistic here. So why bother throwing away a good friendship. Best friends can be for life but boyfriends and girlfriends are not.
I only go out with people if I don't want them in my life too long. Use and abuse. If I do want you for a long time then it's only in a friendship capacity. (Yes, i'm evil and I love it.) |
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