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 Apr 12 2007, 11:41 AM
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what if you and your boyfriend does not talk to each other anymore? is it a sign of break up already? even though you guys didn't say that "we broke up"?
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Apr 12 2007, 11:43 AM
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i would assume that it's near the verge of breaking up unless there's a good reason for the lack of communication.
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Apr 12 2007, 11:52 AM
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thats the childish (not sayin you or he is) way of breakin up. one party does not want to face the other and avoids contact completely. worse comes to case, just corner him and ask for an answer, but thats just me -=/
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Apr 12 2007, 06:44 PM
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 AMORE <3 Group: Member Posts: 61 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 513,580 |
talk to them about it and see if it is over, or if ur just taking a break.
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Apr 12 2007, 09:00 PM
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Yeah my boyfriend did that. He avoided me for two months and it was because he took this other girl to a military ball/ banquet and knew I'd found out about it and he didn't want me to yell at him and I got mad when he talked to me because he'd changed his buddy info from "I love you Meg," To "Hey ladies call me!"
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Apr 12 2007, 09:01 PM
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If you're not talking at all, it sounds like you both have moved on from each other. You might still have feelings for him, but if your life is fine without him, you don't really need him.
If you're talking is decreasing (but still there), then it's normal. Relationships always have to have their happy, high peaks, and most of them slope down after a few months. My boyfriend and I don't talk as much as when we first me, but I still love him a ton and care about him. It doesn't mean that we're over, it just means that we're used to each other, no matter how bad that sounds. ^_^ I still need him in my life, too; I couldn't just not talk to him for a week. |
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Apr 12 2007, 09:18 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Not talking as in total silence or not talking as in not talking as much?
Because if it's total silence, I would take that as on the verge of breaking up, in which case you should have a talk with him. Not talking as much happens in relationships...my boyfriend and I don't talk that much now ... but we're happier than ever |
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Apr 12 2007, 09:35 PM
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I'm pretty sure it can show that your relationship is falling apart. Although, I think its best if you beef up and get the courage to make the break up or work it out officially.
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Apr 13 2007, 04:51 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
Something sounds wrong if you guys aren't talking at all. Definitely go have a talk with your boyfriend to clear things up on your relationship's status. |
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Apr 13 2007, 05:14 AM
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It seems like your uncomfortable with this. If there's always an awkward silence between you two then it may well mean it's over or maybe not. But if there's a comfortable silence between you then it's the total opposite.
The simple and most effective thing to do is just talk to him about it. You'll never really know otherwise. |
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