sleeping... lol, dumb question Options

[swishersweet]

having sex and stayin one night with that person is considered sleeping. but wat if u like just sleep with them and dont have sex and u already have a bf/gf? is that cheating? i dont think so.. haha... idk this is a dumb question..

[Jeng]

CHEATER. Yea you're in bed and sleeping with someone else.
shouldn't this be in relationship.s


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This post has been edited by Arjuna Capulong: Apr 7 2007, 05:09 PM

[Cujiine]

I don't know... I don't think so since it's not like you're doing anything...

[SimplicityGirl]

Erm...hmm...

I don't know really. If I knew that my boyfriend was sleeping with a girl albeit innocently I'd still feel uncomfortable about it. I know he would too if he found out that I slept with a guy innocently. It's not cheating cheating...but I wouldn't meddle around with that.

[Shelley_Mackenzi...]

Yes!!! Wouldn't you consider it cheating if your boyfriend slept in a bed with another girl?

[achimongus]

YES! Sleeping with another person is intimate, no matter how you try to angle it. The other person could have slept on the floor or a couch, especially if you have another person you're in a relationship with.

[alysaphobia]

i guess it depends on what you and your boyfriend define as cheating.
some people consider kissing another person cheating, some people don't care about that but consider having sex with another person as cheating, etc. it's kind of a matter of what you and your boyfriend decided was cheating.
so... if you know your boyfriend would be cool with it... no, it wasn't cheating. but if you're hiding it from him and you think he would have been upset to know what you did... that's probably a good indication that you cheated.

[*suddenly she*]

Anything you wouldn't tell your boyfriend/girlfriend = no good.

I would never have that problem though, because I'd rather sleep on the floor than sleep in the same bed as someone else. I actually decided to sleep on a chair (and switched from that to a table, floor, and luggage rolling thing) instead of sharing a bed with someone for an orchestra trip last year.

I did sleep in the same bed as my brother once and he got bruises. I thrash in my sleep sometimes...

[Detective]

^ Well thats brutal. But no it's not cheating but why tho.

[spongeboblover]

yes its considered cheating
because you dont know what he could of done when you feel asleep
and your parts probably touched atleast once during the night

[*mona lisa*]

It is a really bad thing to do but if your bf/gf is very trusting of you and doesn't consider that as 'sleeping' then power to you. Sharing a bed with someone who isn't your SO (or a best friend or relative or something) is something you really want to avoid...

[pinayprincess]

WHO THE HELL WOULD DO THAT TO THEIR BOYFRIEND [OR GIRLFRIEND]??!!! ... how about you answer your own question and tell us how'd you feel if he did that to you? [not to sound all defensive] but i for one will get mad, probably break up.

[LOWinSKANK]

i`d think it was cheating simply
because if my bf slept with someone
else, i wouldn`t like that. ;x

[y0urelectrikk]

yes, cheating.

[EmoEyelinerx]

Well if your just friends sleeping and not doing anything how can that be cheating?

[AngelinaTaylor]

It depends why you did it. Once I had a party and about 10 people slept over, and 4 of us ended up sleeping in one bed. I find nothing wrong with that o.O Plus, we were too drunk to reconsider.

I wouldn't call that cheating. But if you went over to a guy friend's house and slept over there by yourself.. umm.. why don't you tell your girlfriend/boyfriend and see how she/he feels?

[xBUTTMUNCHx]

this situation actually happend to my guy friend and his girl....ehhh i think cheating is cheating...but if your bf thinks it's not then its not.

[fuck_the_mods]

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This post has been edited by Arjuna Capulong: Apr 9 2007, 04:47 PM

[swishersweet]

I stayed the night at one of my "close" girlfriends house. Her parents weren't home and she said she wanted to talk to me about some private shit. We didn't really do anything but talk and watch movies than sleep, and no I'm not gay. umm my gf doesn't know though. I don't really think it matters if I told her.

[LOWinSKANK]

yeah, either way.. you`re keeping something from your girlfriend you must know it`s wrong.

[swishersweet]

Idk.. I don't find it wrong cuz she doesn't know her.. I think if I tell her she'll just get mad at me.. Dangit I guess I should tell her.

[shortnsweet88]

Well, lets put it this way...when in doubt...dont do it. Also ask yourself if you would be jealous or upset or consider it cheating if the tables were turned...ya know?

[*mishyerr*]

i guess it depends on what you and your boyfriend define as cheating.
some people consider kissing another person cheating, some people don't care about that but consider having sex with another person as cheating, etc. it's kind of a matter of what you and your boyfriend decided was cheating.
so... if you know your boyfriend would be cool with it... no, it wasn't cheating. but if you're hiding it from him and you think he would have been upset to know what you did... that's probably a good indication that you cheated.

Best answer! :)

There are guy friends of mine that my boyfriend trust a lot. Although I don't think I'd ever sleep in the same bed with them, I think there are a FEW (very few) guys that my boyfriend would feel comfortable with me being in that position.

[MrStrife]

Uhhmmm... If there's spooning, maybe?

[Mystic Eyes]

YES! Sleeping with another person is intimate, no matter how you try to angle it. The other person could have slept on the floor or a couch, especially if you have another person you're in a relationship with.

Gotta agree with this. Yeah it is cheating but more subtle and less full on. But it depends on your perspective.