Jealousy..., when is it over the top? |
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 Apr 7 2007, 02:30 PM
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 Beauty in the Breakdown  Group: Member Posts: 256 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,917  |
Ok, I'm pretty sure there have been different posts about this but I need to know when you should actually draw the line on jealousy? There is a fine line between cute and over the edge. I usually think its adorable when my boyfriends get jealous but the one I'm with right now gets jealous SOO EASILY.
I was texting him and I accidentally sent him a text message that was supposed to go to my friend pamela. It said "aww". That was all. He got mad at me and asked me who I was flirting with...seriously...he didnt stop getting angry for like a day and a half. All over a text message that said "aww". Is this too crazy? |
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Apr 7 2007, 03:19 PM
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abooga. Group: Member Posts: 928 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 212,116 |
I think that may be going a little bit too far on the jealousy. I mean, yeah, it's kinda cute when guys get a little itty-bitty bit jealous. But, getting angry over a text message that says 'aww'? That's too much. Insecurity, maybe?
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Apr 7 2007, 03:53 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
lol wow. how untrustworthy he is. that's pretty lame. he should be able to trust you and the worste part about that is that it was to a girl friend. ha. it is okay to be jealous sometimes. it's always nice to know that someone cares about you and doesn't want to lose you, but there's always a limit. like my friend's girlfriend was EXTREMELY jealous of me. i don't even know why. i mean we used to talk like that and everything, but that was like AGES ago. plus, he was 22 and she was 21. they're both grown and she's jealous of me of all people. she was so jealous that she called me one day and threatened to get her "homeboys" to drive by and shoot me. interesting right? :)
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Apr 7 2007, 04:18 PM
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Beauty in the Breakdown Group: Member Posts: 256 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,917 |
^^ oh my gosh! wow.
Yeah I think its over the top too...I wanted to see if I was the only one who saw that. He took it waaay out of context especially since it was to a girl! lol...that was pretty funny. And, yeah...maybe it is insecurity..but its ridiculous. |
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Apr 7 2007, 04:27 PM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
that is kinda crazy.
you should show him the text. or copy the information from the text and send it to him. |
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Apr 7 2007, 05:06 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
That's way over-reacting.
 I mean, you can't even draw a normal inference from "aww". Does he have a reason not to trust you?
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Apr 7 2007, 07:57 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Jealousy is over the top when it feels suffocating.
As for that...I don't see why he has to get angry. It's just "awww"...god I say that to so many people and it usually just means I think whatever they just said/showed me is cute. It is not flirting. I think you should have a talk with him about it. |
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Apr 7 2007, 11:10 PM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
i think that's getting too jealous.
he can't trust you at all if he gets mad over 'awww'! |
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Apr 7 2007, 11:21 PM
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Beauty in the Breakdown Group: Member Posts: 256 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,917 |
Yeah, I agree with all of you...and no he has no reason not to trust me. I think he has been hurt in the past because the last girl he was dating completely broke his heart and he kept giving her chances and she kept cheating...so I guess he is just scared I will do the same thing but i deserve a fresh start!
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Apr 8 2007, 09:21 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
lmao... wow.... is he the kind of boy that assumes TOO much?? thats not good....
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