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 Apr 5 2007, 10:22 PM
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 Because i said so  Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,144  |
I'm 14, never had a boyfriend before, and still waiting for that first kiss. There's a boy I've had a crush on since 6th grade, so it's been about 3 years. I know we've liked each other for those 3 years (the signs.....and his friends recently telling me that he liked me that long was sort of a big give away). I'm a shy person, but at certain times i talk to him, trying to act like he's just another boy, but he doesn't talk to me, he just stares. I don't know why, but I'm attracted to him and i can't seem to get him out of my head. I've had several crushes in those 3 years, but i always end up liking him the most.
Am i waiting too long for something that won't ever happen? |
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Apr 5 2007, 10:28 PM
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No way. Just give him some time. He sounds like a shy guy so it's gonna be hard for him to get up the courage to ask you out. Just keep talking with him like he's a friend and he'll warm up and start talking back.
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Apr 6 2007, 03:37 AM
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Just wait a little longer, and continue to talk and maybe flirt with him a bit. Get to know him more and everything shall fall into place.
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Apr 6 2007, 05:19 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
maybe he stares because he's shy?
i'd say go for it, whenever you're ready. you guys both like each other... so good luck! 
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Apr 6 2007, 02:22 PM
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 thanhnie Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 |
Wow.. That was exactly like me! I've crushed on a guy for 3 years, too before something started happening between us. Just give it some more time and act yourself around him. Eventually he'll see what a great and friendly girl you are and he'll make a move. =D
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Apr 6 2007, 04:36 PM
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Dont wait.
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Apr 6 2007, 05:08 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
How bout give him a little nudge? Even though you both like each other...nothings gonna happen if neither of you do anything about it. Before we got together...I knew he liked me and I liked him...I figured I wait for him to take the initiative...waited for about 3 months...and dropped huge hints...he said he liked me too...but nothing happened. So one day I just told him I'd like us to be more than friends and here we are, half a year later =)
You don't have to do anything big...you can just hang out with him alone, or start doing stuff together alone. =) |
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Apr 6 2007, 09:19 PM
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 sunshiine Group: Member Posts: 1,080 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,360 |
My experience, from waiting so long.. don't give up waiting if you have the time to wait. I would say start hanging out with him and once he's comfortable maybe he'll reveal to you that he likes you too =). Might as well do something about it. Trust me.. it'll be worth it.
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Apr 10 2007, 02:51 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(Cujiine @ Apr 5 2007, 11:28 PM)  No way. Just give him some time. He sounds like a shy guy so it's gonna be hard for him to get up the courage to ask you out. Just keep talking with him like he's a friend and he'll warm up and start talking back. Yeah, i agree |
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Apr 10 2007, 02:59 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 282,125 |
yeah...i would go for it if you know he likes you. Maybe he just isn't sure about your feelings.
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