how long did it take you to say "i love you" |
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 Apr 4 2007, 01:17 PM
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curiousss.
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Apr 4 2007, 01:18 PM
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Hm, I've still never said it to anyone. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 20 months and we haven't said it to each other yet. We're both perfectly fine with it, though. Just trying to make sure.
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Apr 4 2007, 01:23 PM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Apr 4 2007, 10:18 AM)  Hm, I've still never said it to anyone. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 20 months and we haven't said it to each other yet. We're both perfectly fine with it, though. Just trying to make sure. aw that's really cute :)) |
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Apr 4 2007, 01:24 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
I've told him I loved him as a friend before we got together...
The first we said we loved each other in the serious way was...2 or 3 months after we had gotten together. |
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Apr 4 2007, 03:08 PM
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 roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
ahh.. after a few months of dating...well before we started actually going out, we dated a bit first.
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Apr 4 2007, 03:09 PM
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about 2 or 3 months
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Apr 4 2007, 03:24 PM
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Well for me it was a month but I've known him my entire life so it;s kinda different. but now I wish I hadn't...
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| *mishyerr* |
Apr 4 2007, 04:28 PM
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A few months.
I was very reluctant to, at first. |
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Apr 4 2007, 11:33 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
We haven't said it to each other yet, and we've been dating for about 8 months. But we're both crazy about each other, so we're happy :)
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Apr 4 2007, 11:38 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
he told me he loved me first and this was after a month or 2? i hesitated to say it back, in fact, i didn't say it back at all until i was for sure, and he even told me that he wouldn't force me to say it and that it was just how he felt..hehe :)
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Apr 5 2007, 06:17 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
7 months.
it bugs me when a pretty new boyfriend will say he loves me after only such a short time of dating. i only say it when i mean it, so yeah. |
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Apr 5 2007, 09:19 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 28 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 514,246 |
QUOTE(lilxl0ser @ Apr 4 2007, 8:38 PM) he told me he loved me first and this was after a month or 2? i hesitated to say it back, in fact, i didn't say it back at all until i was for sure, and he even told me that he wouldn't force me to say it and that it was just how he felt..hehe :) aw well thats good :) |
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 5 2007, 11:37 AM
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I don't actually remember, I think it was a good 12 months before I could say it.
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May 5 2007, 08:51 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 521,815 |
we both said it once to each other.. and it was really emotional.. hehe
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May 5 2007, 11:38 PM
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 maybe a great thing will happen. Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 513,161 |
not long for me, i was a kid back then when i said it.
since everyone was saying it, i thought i'd say it to my boy and he said it back. i was really young back then. my boy and i were together for 2 1/2 years and then broke off. and this year, we finally realized that we really do love each other :) so yeah. childish love at first. (the word love, as it is, gets thrown around quite easily) and now it's actually... real love. xxx |
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May 6 2007, 07:43 AM
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 The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
Well it was strange cuz at the time me and my then gf were not in a relationship but we were crazy about each other. Then one night she texts me saying she thinks she's in love with me. The thing was at the time I was unsure but days later I knew I loved her, so After a conversation or two and actually hooking up, it took both of us abour 1-2 weeks to say it, since we already were head or heels in love with eachother.
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May 6 2007, 10:04 AM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
Unilke you guys i dont wait a month or two or whatever. I say i love you about a week into the realationship becasue well i get attached real easy i guess you could say. Well the guy always says love you too so yeah...
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May 6 2007, 10:48 AM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
never
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May 6 2007, 11:06 AM
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After 5 Months.
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May 6 2007, 12:56 PM
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four months now.
i said it once, i dont think he really heard it. i dont know. but i do love him, i just dunno when is the right time to really say that. |
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May 6 2007, 11:10 PM
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i never say i love you until i truly TRULY mean it; i don't want to give the guy the wrong idea, especially if he's already telling me he loves me & i don't feel the same way yet.
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May 6 2007, 11:30 PM
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i dont recall how long it took...3-5 monthsz...?
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May 7 2007, 12:05 AM
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 x_pinaystyle_x Group: Member Posts: 472 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 366,326 |
it took us a month and a week
he told me on my birthday 
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May 7 2007, 12:06 AM
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 So um yeah Group: Official Designer Posts: 745 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 459,873 |
He told me on day one! Maybe before that... silly boys
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May 7 2007, 09:35 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 51 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 480,543 |
He said it to me first actually. It was funny, because he said it on the phone, and this is about 2 weeks of dating, and I was like, "What was that?" and he was like, "Nothing, I was just reading the television."
Lol. It was cute. But I didn't say it back that night. It took me a few weeks. We're still together after 2 years & 4 months. |
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May 8 2007, 12:44 PM
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 <333 Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 496,434 |
iv been going out with my bf for almost a month now. we still havent said it eventhough we both really like eachother...
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May 8 2007, 02:23 PM
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 we go a-drowning Group: Member Posts: 964 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 519,725 |
uh. i cant quite remember. i think it was shortly after we had gotten serious. but it was really nice when we did. we were on a park bench around 10 at night ( we were at a fundraiser) and i just got this reallly intense but calming feeling. and i knew at that moment that i loved him. so i said it and he replyed back.
whats really cute is that way before all that before we started going out he and i were working on a school project at my house. i live on a REALLY big property and there is a pond in the backyard (by pond, its more like a mini lake) we were walking around for a break, when he sat me down and said "claire, i like you. im not madly in love with you, but i like you." it was so cute, and he was so nervous. i tease him about that now... |
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May 12 2007, 11:51 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
neither of us had said it yet. we've just hit 5 months. in our previous relationships we've said it but didn't mean it. like my ex had said it to me 3 months in and i said it as a reflex response but i didn't mean it and it went downhill. same with him. we're both young, 18 (maybe it's not young to you but it is!) and we're still finding ourselves. we both haven't experienced love yet so we don't want to say anything we're not sure of yet. but we are going to university together next year so we'll see =)
i do love him as a friend and same with him. and sometimes i feel like yea i do love him but i'm not sure yet. i don't want to say something and regret it the moment i say it. |
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May 14 2007, 01:28 AM
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 omfg, rtfql. Group: Member Posts: 649 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,564 |
We said it after about four months.
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May 14 2007, 02:38 PM
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Well, we were dating for a couple months &then we made it official... I first told him three months after being official... so I guess five months?
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May 15 2007, 04:09 PM
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Urgh.
My ex said it to me.. About 5 minutes after he asked me out. I said it back. Which i regret deeply. |
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May 15 2007, 11:38 PM
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He said it first after a few days, which I know, soon, but there was a history beforehand in a way so yeah...and yes, I said it back. But generally I'd think that's too soon but it was under different circumstances. And we've been together for almost 8 months now.
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May 16 2007, 08:23 AM
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Probably about a month or so.
but i had liked her for a long time before hand, and we were together all the time. :) |
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May 16 2007, 08:32 AM
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Psh the day before I asked her out. I had been spending 4-5 hours a day w/ her for the past 2 months though. Still, I shudda waited a lil longer lol, as I din get the response til a couple months later
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May 17 2007, 10:56 PM
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 j'adore =) Group: Member Posts: 723 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 107,848 |
my boyfriend and i started saying it after just about 2 months and we've now been together for 5 and counting
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May 18 2007, 12:52 AM
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Uhm half a year? Maybe not even that long?
It really differs from person to person and how much the relationship had progressed and how well you two know each other and how well you know yourself and what love is. Or what you think love is 
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May 18 2007, 12:55 AM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Apr 4 2007, 11:18 AM) Hm, I've still never said it to anyone. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 20 months and we haven't said it to each other yet. We're both perfectly fine with it, though. Just trying to make sure. SEON HO SEON HO SEON HO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My boyfriend and I said I love you just before our 3 months. It would have been later, but under the circumstances, it just came out. I wasn't sure when I was going to tell him  And might I add that I find it annoying when people say they love each other when they've only been together for like a month. |
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May 18 2007, 03:32 PM
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it was 4 months or so into our relationship. he said it first, i thought it was a joke ... then i said it back. i'd been feeling it for a little while. & we're still happy together at a year & two months.
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