parents are stupid :(, they made me break up with my guy |
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 Mar 26 2007, 11:09 PM
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so my parents made me break up with my boyfriend because they think he has a "dark side." now he is being so depressed and thinking about hurting himself. he said i was the last good thing in his life and he has no reason to live anymore. i have no idea what to do because i'm really not supposed to even be talking to him. :( i'm soooo sad! i told him that i wanted to move on and he started freaking out on me. his best friend keeps telling me that everything will be ok, but i don't think it will. he already hurt himself once before, it might happen again. :( i won't be able to live with myself if he does something stupid. someone help me figure out what to say to him
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Mar 26 2007, 11:39 PM
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 Death is a promise given to us at birth Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,757 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,459 |
he's too emotional. He has to learn to work things out. It's not the end of the world. He'll find the next good thing.
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Mar 26 2007, 11:39 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
I think you should talk to him about it, he knows the situation so he should understand? Unless he's like super... clingy... and... desperate to get you back. But if that's the case, then he doesn't really love you. If he loves you then he should be more understanding.
If it gets really bad, you should take him to see a counselor. Maybe you should also tell your parents about the situation, they might give you permission to help him. Gooodluckk. <.< And I guess, keep us updated? |
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Mar 27 2007, 02:43 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
this sounds like a situation a counselor should take care of, not you. your parents may be worried that he may "influence you" or hurt you too.
i say you try your best to follow your parents' advice... they're only watching out for you |
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Mar 27 2007, 03:19 AM
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 omfg, rtfql. Group: Member Posts: 649 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,564 |
If he were going to do anything serious, he would've done it by now.
He's just trying to guilt you into going out with him again. Back off a little, and he'll get over it. |
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Mar 27 2007, 06:55 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE(loonie4lyf @ Mar 26 2007, 11:09 PM)  so my parents made me break up with my boyfriend because they think he has a "dark side." now he is being so depressed and thinking about hurting himself. he said i was the last good thing in his life and he has no reason to live anymore. i have no idea what to do because i'm really not supposed to even be talking to him. :( i'm soooo sad! i told him that i wanted to move on and he started freaking out on me. his best friend keeps telling me that everything will be ok, but i don't think it will. he already hurt himself once before, it might happen again. :( i won't be able to live with myself if he does something stupid. someone help me figure out what to say to him I mean im sure hes a good guy and all but lookin at ur post, its probably best to leave him, bless ur family cuz if u guys went out for lets say...a year how much more depressed would he be? Hes probably end up killN himself. and besides, u wouldnt want a emotional cry baby boi NE wayz....TRUST ME all they do is cry and makes u feel like ur datin a pussy..ugh its alright though, u need a man man! 
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Mar 27 2007, 03:38 PM
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I wouldent worry about.Move on and he will too.
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Mar 27 2007, 05:53 PM
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QUOTE(moorepocket* @ Mar 26 2007, 11:39 PM) he's too emotional. He has to learn to work things out. It's not the end of the world. He'll find the next good thing. could be wrong, most likely wrong. He is probably just troubled and needs someone. You were that someone, not that he lost you he is depressed again. |
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Mar 29 2007, 10:45 PM
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well i'm not allowed to talk to him again so he is really sad. i'm talking to him a little though and he is starting to get better. that night he did hurt himself though, really bad. and unfortunately he isn't the bad influence...i am. :( but yeah. things are getting better now. thank you all :)
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