jealousy, ??? Options

[cori-catastrophe]

there is this guy the same age as me. i don't like him as anything exept a friend. but i flirt with him. it's fun.
i'm pretty sure he likes my cousin. i'll be honest, i'm jealous. it doesn't have anything to do with him particularly, but her. she is pretty. well, i think slutty would be a better word to describe her. she my cousin and i hate to say it, but it's true. every guy likes her. that's not literal, but it seems like it. a bunch of guys do because of her exposure.
i have no feelings for this guy, but she is always flirting with the guy i really do like...alot. and he flirts back. it gets on my nerves. and i can't tell her to back off, because she'll get mad at me. what should i do?

[*My Cinderella.*]

So I'm guessing she's one of the girls that can get any guy she wants because she's gorgeous. She's probably flirting with him cause she knows she can. Does she know that you like him? I know she might get mad if you speak up about it, but perhaps its the best thing to do. Maybe she's isn't aware of her flirty personality--tell her how you feel about it, she'll never know if you never tell her.

[NgocQuyen]

pff i would forget about her. just because she's pretty doesn't mean her personality is better than yours right? so just show him that you're better than her no matter how you two compare in looks.

[*suddenly she*]

it gets on my nerves. and i can't tell her to back off, because she'll get mad at me. what should i do?

If this comes off the wrong way... nevermind, I don't really care.

Why do you care if she gets mad at you?

[cori-catastrophe]

If this comes off the wrong way... nevermind, I don't really care.

Why do you care if she gets mad at you?

if you don't really care, then why are you posting?
i care because she is my family and i basically live with her and i don't want to start drama. she's not gorgeous. she's wears clothes that are many sizes to small. she globs on wayyyy too much makeup. she's just....slutty.

[Jinny]

you should tell her. she'll probably understand. after all, she's part of your family.
if she gets mad, then it doesn't matter. she didn't ask him out or anything, right?
well, then just put everything aside and do what you want to do.

it's your life, nobody should tell you what you can't do

[alysaphobia]

well... i don't want to assume anything but... does your cousin have feelings for this guy too?
because if she does... i guess you can't really be mad at her.
but if she doesn't...
i'd tell her i was into this guy for real and i'd like it if she could just... stop flirting like crazy with him.

and then i'd go out and get his attention.
because looks aren't everything, you know? personality counts too.

[cori-catastrophe]

well... i don't want to assume anything but... does your cousin have feelings for this guy too?
because if she does... i guess you can't really be mad at her.
but if she doesn't...
i'd tell her i was into this guy for real and i'd like it if she could just... stop flirting like crazy with him.

and then i'd go out and get his attention.
because looks aren't everything, you know? personality counts too.

no, she doesn't. she has a boyfriend. she acts like that with all guys and it gets on my nerves. badly.
she knows i like him. i've liked him for two years now. and as for getting his attention, i've already tried that. i told him i liked him a coupld weeks ago. he didn't really say he didn't have them back, just that he knew it. but we are really good friends so...yeah. :]]

[cheerupxemokid]

honestly.
if i was in your shoes.
i'd just tell her straight up.
that you like him.
and she needs to back off.

if she gets mad.
she'll have to get over it.
that's life.

:)