What do you do when I guy is......., * sigh * |
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 Mar 20 2007, 03:27 PM
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 Kourtney Luvs You!  Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,420  |
Ok, I have a friend named jordan and he always says he loves me and he wants to marry me, but i don't like him. He is so annoying and self centered it's crazy! What do I do to make him stop? ...Without hurting his feelings. :(
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Mar 20 2007, 05:56 PM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
you could always opt to stab him in the heart.
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| *WHIMSICAL 0NE* |
Mar 20 2007, 06:00 PM
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Relationships?
You could be subtle about it. Don't give in to what he says? It might just depend on how close you are and how he is as a person. I have some guy friends that if I was blunt with them they'd get it and it wouldn't bother them all that much and then I have friends who are sensitive. You could always try the blunt approach. haha. |
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Mar 20 2007, 06:04 PM
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 Lauren :D Group: Member Posts: 2,105 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 176,997 |
Tell him to stfu because he's annoying and obnoxious.
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| *salcha4u* |
Mar 20 2007, 09:53 PM
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Slapping a guy shuts them up.
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Mar 20 2007, 10:30 PM
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i can hear your heart cryin Group: Banned Posts: 108 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 510,510 |
ive done dat before but they alwayz play along rofl
Hey ma ' he must be ugly u no 
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Mar 20 2007, 10:42 PM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
Moved to Relationships.
Well, he can be joking, I guess. But if he's not, just.. talk it over with him. |
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Mar 20 2007, 11:29 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
There isn't really any way you can do it without hurting his feelings in some way, if he's serious of course. Just tell him as nice as possible that you don't like him that way, and make sure there's no mixed messages.
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Mar 21 2007, 12:39 AM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
lol, sometimes you have to be harsh to be nice? that's what i always say. my friend was just recently the same way. i mean, i tried to be nice about it and just tell him that i really wasn't feeling him that way you know? he didn't really get the picture, so i had to drag my boyfriend into the situation and what not, and i just like cussed him out and told him i didn't like him at all. lol i mean, you don't have to do that. just tell him that you really really don't like him and you'd appreciate it if he would stop nagging you and just be your friend. :]
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Mar 21 2007, 07:20 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
tell him to F off..screw his feelings he obviously dont care bout yours
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| *Uronacid* |
Mar 21 2007, 08:08 AM
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QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Mar 21 2007, 7:20 AM)  tell him to F off..screw his feelings he obviously dont care bout yours As blunt as this is... I would have to agree... |
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Mar 21 2007, 08:55 AM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
Honestly the best way of telling him IS hurting his feelings, as bad as it feels to do so, sometimes it's the only way...
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Mar 21 2007, 03:03 PM
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Kourtney Luvs You! Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,420 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Mar 21 2007, 7:20 AM) tell him to F off..screw his feelings he obviously dont care bout yours I wish I could but he is in half of my classes and It would be weird after that. |
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Mar 21 2007, 05:18 PM
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You just need to tell him how you feel. If it makes you uncomfortable, you should confront him about it--whether he's kidding or not.
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| *Uronacid* |
Mar 21 2007, 05:25 PM
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QUOTE(Slushies_Blow_My_Mind! @ Mar 21 2007, 3:03 PM) I wish I could but he is in half of my classes and It would be weird after that. Look, at first it's usually weird after a break up. When both your feelings subside then you can usually mend your friendship. |
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| *Kathleen* |
Mar 21 2007, 09:16 PM
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Dropping a piano on him usually does the job.
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Mar 22 2007, 03:42 AM
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 Love at first sight Group: Member Posts: 72 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 365,246 |
QUOTE(cup noodles @ Mar 20 2007, 3:56 PM) you could always opt to stab him in the heart. No no, I think she's on to something here. Try that, then report back to us. |
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Mar 22 2007, 04:36 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
if he isn't getting the hints, you should really be direct and tell him your feelings; whether it's going to hurt his feelings or not. i mean, sure, you'd prefer to be nice and subtle about it but it's been a while, right?
be direct and quick. |
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Mar 22 2007, 09:25 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,181 |
just tell him the truth, i think hell be thankful you did instead of being dishonest about your feelings and eventually hurting him
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