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 Jun 10 2004, 03:43 AM
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 lovesick+  Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,104  |
i dunno if you guys all remember me..but my ex..recently found a new g.f..and it feels akward..the things he writes about her..in a way i miss it..then i get mad..then sad..then happy for him..all mixed emotions..i don't want to admit that he's my first love..do you think he felt the same wen i found someone new?...i wonder...
my new bf..we're both in korea rite now..however i didn't see him yet..i will but i'm afraid..that since we've been apart for about a month, that he doesn't wanna be with me anymore. he's 2o and he'll be off to college in illinois and then in a year he'll be going back to korea for the army... iono..everyone knows a girl gotta get planty of attention rite?? hehe...yet i don't get that from him..or i don't feel like i get it from him. i found out my ex found a new gf just today..why am i..feeling the way i feel??? i hate this feeling...  i need some...attention..like all girls..... |
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Jun 10 2004, 04:10 AM
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 aint the world lovely? Group: Member Posts: 228 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,602 |
hey try not to feel too down!!!!!
 i felt the same way about my ex. i was crazy about him and after we broke up and i found out he had a new gf, i was just crushed. i had a new bf too and i really wanted him to be happy, but it was still hard to deal with. it might be one of those things where you really care about the person and although things between you two are over, you still feel strongly about what you had in the past. and because of that, its hard to see him with anyone else saying things you can pretty much imagine him saying to you. im not even sure if anything im saying makes sense, but thats my take on it.
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Jun 10 2004, 05:49 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
I felt the exact same way too! i know how you feel... It's like you miss everything that he did for you before, that he's doing for his new GF. It sucks. And the emotions you get is always overwhelming.
When my ex got a new GF, I was mad at first. Then sad coz he was moving on. Then happy for him and sad again. Mine ex was my first love too. But you know, if there's no hope anymore... Then it's time to move on hun. There are a lot of other guys out there. |
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Jun 10 2004, 07:15 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
dont put ur feelings down T_T;; but awww... hmm... but u still luv him right? hmm the mixed up emotion..heh that happened to me too.. im like where am i going? lols but yeah it kills me wen i get those..it's like...so do i like him or am i jus jealous..it's hard to get to know wat ur talking bot and u jus cant understand urself, right?... well i guess u miss him and that u want him back in ur life. ur prolly happy that hes happy and ur prolly sad cus he talks bot his ex?? heh but u know..if u go out with some guy...he will prolly think the same feelings as u did..like he will get jealous and be sad too, but then again happy.
. . i hope this helps 
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Jun 10 2004, 09:03 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
aww. it's ok. just try to get over him. I know it's hard but you have to try!.. go party with your girlfriends. you'll meet someone.
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