guy friend likes u, do u act different? Options

[kantoaznboi]

basically the title says it all,

if u have a guy friend and u kno for a fact that he likes u or has feelings 4 u but u dont feel the same way bout him, do u act different around him?

[c0nfus3dmisfit]

nopes hes my friend no reason to act different around him. even if he does like me.

[angel-roh]

yeah i totally act different around him... i dont act like a human being lols im jk hehe newais i feel like i shud not be with him for awhile... like get away from him like ignore him...heh cus i feel uncomfortable i mean he was my best friend and now he likes me...it's so scary haha
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[justdream08]

i would act natural...it would kinda through me off base...but they aren't that much different then be4....anyways..I actually like all my guy friends...they don't know it!! hehe

[islandkiss]

not really. I just act the same. I have a bf already...

[psychoticangel]

Nope. I'd be the same.
My guy bestfriend for fours years said to me recently "You know, I wouldn't be shocked if I fell in love with you. better not pretty yourself too much. Coz I might just right now." << his exact words.
I just gave him a mean stare and said "try that and I'll make you hate me."
he just laughed and ever since then I've been acting quite the same way towards him. and vice versa. I don't think you need to act differently. That'd be acting like as if you haven't been friends since before.

[espressive]

Omg! That is so weird....I am in that position right now. It was really strange at first, actually, I still think it is, to know that he likes me. I guess I was more of shocked, cause I never thought of it that way. He's a nice, sweet, and absolutely adorable guy, and I think that me wanting a boyfriend clouded my actual feelings for him...which was that Alan was just a friend. Apparently, he's liked me for a long time, and has been wanting to ask me out. When he finally did, the night that he also told me he liked me, I said no...Not to be mean or anything, I just *sighs* let's just say it's a long story?

[lnkinparkgirl384]

yeah that happened to me...cept now we arent even friends anymore cuz he jus kept asking me out. and he would call like 15 times in a row cuz i didnt pick up. it was starting to become stalker status

[juliar]

That happened to me...it was odd. But I tried to ignore it.

[conster]

ill try to act the same lol i dont wanna act different but i think i do sometimes

[LaRevolucion]

I act different even if I try not too. It kinda sux cuz things start happening and the friendship isn't the same anymore. It happened to me anyways.....*sigh*

[crazeegirl411]

It depends. If he constantly reminds me in ANY way but PURPOSELY...I'm going to act mean (50/50 unintentionally) and cold towards him. If he keeps it but I know he likes me...I'm going to act the same so there's no need to break the ice later on. It'd be for the best, I guess.

[topsyturvy]

it depends if i like him or not.. i've been in this situation before but i liked the guy too.. hahaha we didn't really go out.. not that he had the nerve to ask.

[pbear]

Yes, I kind of watch myself, making sure that nothing I say or do is misunderstood by him.
And it's somewhat awkward to know that I don't return feelings he has for me.

[espressive]

He's not stalking me about it or anything...and he's a good friend of mine. All my friends say that I'm going to regret this, maybe I am already? I don't know, and the thing is...he's going to high school next year, and I'm still stuck in 8th. So that's another reason why I said no when he asked me out

[LiNHy POO]

eerr i dont think i would... ill juss act the same... maybe ill flirt a little.. but pretty much it

[177emories]

no thats happen many times i just act the same...

[akgirlkickass]

I'm in that exact position, and I do act a little different, but I try not to.

[LiL_ViEtStEr]

basically the title says it all,

if u have a guy friend and u kno for a fact that he likes u or has feelings 4 u but u dont feel the same way bout him, do u act different around him?

well i dunno.....i think i wouldn't act different around him...

[LatinaLady]

i do only if i liek them back.

[angieee]

yeaa.. i guess i can say that i'm kind of in that situation right now. but it's even more awkward because i have a boyfriend, and my boyfriend knows him. i try not to act different because they're usually close friends of mine. and they usually just get over it after awhile.

[AzNl2iCeB0i69]

i kno im a guy but yea..

i liked dis girl ive known since 1st grade.. i told her.. well accidentaly kuz i wuz talkin 2 her brother about it and she overheard.. and yea..

she would never ever say a word to me unless.. 1:school 2:rides after skool 3:a few tiny stuff... and yea she started acting diff around me.. well .. totaly diff.. even though i dont show i like her.. so yea.. we dun realy know each other anymore.. its like.. da friendship has been broken.. kuz of 3 little words like.. i like you...

[heyshutup562]

nah i dont act differently all i just do is just know about it

[tinababy143]

why brandon?? are you liking a guy who doesnt like you back?? haha jk jk..but yeah no..i act the same as i always did..but actually..me personally..i might flirt a bit..cos im weird like that..but heyy..i was nominated biggest flirt in my school soooooo..that explains it all...

[whomps]

Kind of.. because then it'd be awkward you know?

Because you don't look at him that way..

[ichiban]

I TRYY not to act different, and just mess around like always ..

[simplysweet259]

naw. i wouldn't act on it unless he makes a move or something. otherwise, this shouldnt really change much.

[pnkstar]

i tried to ignore it because it got really annoying...

[miss_isabelle]

i think i act the same.. but somehow i think i act differently as in make him love me more... is it because we love the attention and feel flattered?!

[laur3nw]

thats happened to me before..after my friend told me he liked me, i started noticing that he kept staring at me and i felt awkward after that.
but for me, i guess how i act, is all about how i feel about him..

[<3boysingirls...]

that happened to me before..there was all this drama. he wasnt talking to me and he was a really really close friend of mines. i would always go somewhere else to try to get away from him..cuz i felt really awkward around him. but we settled things out..but we arent as close as before

[mglbaby]

i try not to, its not worth loosin a frinship over

[SarahxJoy]

I was going to post something about this. But I guess you beat me to it. LoLs. Yeah, I'm kind of in this type of situation. My friend who I've known for about two years and a half, well, everyone is telling me that he likes me, and has for a long while now. It's like everyone knew before I did. I'm not even supposed to know. So whenever I'm around him, I have to act like my usual self, and I'm getting the hint that he's going to ask me out soon, but I don't feel the same way. So to your question, I act the same around him. But for my own question, how do I turn him down without hurting his feelings?

[Re-Mixxed]

To be honest..id probably act different..probably try not to act silly around him and act more mature..and last of all..id try to not to make it obvious that i kno he likes me..

[smileyamers]

it would be reaaaally awkward....cuz then i would think about it and stuff around him u know? and then i'd just try and pretend i had no idea...

[sheddingtears]

That happened to me. I still remained his friend and treated him as a friend.

[sheddingtears]

and then i'd just try and pretend i had no idea...

^ lol, exactly what i did. unless he makes a move or something, i'll go along with it and see if i could find some interest in him, and if i do, then sure, but if i don't then heh, obviously it's not meant to be.

[disbemejen]

yeah i totally act different around him... i dont act like a human being lols im jk hehe newais i feel like i shud not be with him for awhile... like get away from him like ignore him...heh cus i feel uncomfortable i mean he was my best friend and now he likes me...it's so scary haha
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yeah i would ignore them fer awhile too cuz itz soo strange to me

[*grrfield*]

kinda...cuz then it'll be really weird

[sheepy]

hmms dat hapened b4, nah i dunt really act different.. i dink.. no i dink i do. lols

[megumint]

yeah i'd act different.

i'd look at him weirdly and try to imagine what he thinks about when he looks at me...

*shiver* it's kinda creepy.

that happened to me, except i liked him... so i guess if i didn't i'd feel weird and go find some girl friends to hang out with.

[skaterjswife2]

i try not to act differently.. but yeah, i would..

[Caitlin]

I try acting like me but it dosent really work that way :X I usually try to act cool but it totally blows over. I end up acting really different for some reason

[x hYpErRoSeY x]

i might becvause of awkwardness- i might not even know im doin it, i just might act different- sometimes its good not to know someone likes you

[TheSuGaRAdDiCt]

well, i'd try not to act differently... there's a guy friend i have who i think has feelings for me, but i don't think he's said anything to anyone. it's just the way that acts that gives me that idea. like he'll poke me (never does that to anyone else), he's nicer to me, always very very willing to help me with math, would always tell me i'm good at something or encourage me that i'd do better than him one something we both knew that i really wasn't... and yeah... it was odd, but i tried ot act like i had no idea. i don't think any one else has noticed his actions.. so no one's gonna provoke him to do anything, so i'm not worrying about it..

[mizz_mithy]

i don't. if i did he might think i like him back or he might think i hate him.

[xsweetdreams12x]

Well, there was this guy that liked me. I didn't know him, but we became friends. I still felt weird around him.

[Evangelionn]

I tried not to act different. Sometimes it worked and other times it was like hard cuz you knew he liked you and stuff. He always used to flirt and then then he told me he like me so i was like ok. ya know it sort of made us both uneasy and tense around each other. you know what though, I gradually started to like him too. So we're really good friends, but i think a relationship would probably break down our friendship. It's hard.

[rOckThISshYt]

i don't know. i've never had that experiance. at least not that i know of.

[DarkCrescentMoon]

That's happened to me before. i just acted normally. In a lot of the cases though, they'd tell me AFTER they stopped liking me...but i would jsut act normally. It'd be a bit awkward though...Didn't the guy like you anyway for what you were normally? or maybe for looks..

[Mireh]

basically the title says it all,

if u have a guy friend and u kno for a fact that he likes u or has feelings 4 u but u dont feel the same way bout him, do u act different around him?

...is this question based on yourself?

[Darkpekkle]

i have had that experience a few times. i try REALLY, REALLY hard not to act different, but I do. I can't help it because: 1. i don't want the guy having some sort of hope that i'd like him back in that way (just want to be friends) and 2. It's just really awkward. You start picking up all these signals and you don't know how to make him stop without sounding like a complete b*tch. It's the worse when they become obnoxious about it, even when they know i just wanna be friends... for example, they would say out loud... yeaa i'm interested in someone *hint hint, etc.

anyways, it all depends on both people. i mean, i'm still willing to be friends with the guy as long as he behaves himself.

[AlweizN4evah]

Don't act diff... unless you like him back. My friend liked me and i acted all shy around him even though im not. now our friendship for around 3 years is all ruined.. =( so just try not too

[m1zz_xXx_kAy]

1 kn0w 1 d1d..

and he was my BEST fr1end..but 1 just d1dnt feel the same way y0u kn0w?? he was fun t0 TALK w1th..n0t GET w1th..

1t was really awkward..because he kept try1ng t0 h0ld my hand and k1ss me..and 1m l1ke..GET AWAY FR0M ME CREEP!!

th1ngs never really were the same bwcause 0f that. n0w we hate each 0ther

[kantoaznboi]

...is this question based on yourself?

yea i like my friend, and in the beginning when she new, she acted weird and avioded me. but as time went ont i started avoiding her cause i couldnt stand seeing her and not being wit her.

[Deppism]

i dont really act any different...

[x0143637x0]

no i dont act different i juss hang out with him and stuff and it dont feel weird or anything eventually i get close to him and i start liking him. not always. juss sometimes

[msz_duckie]

i would try not to act diffrent around him....but currently i told my guy friend i liked him, and im the one who acts diffrently around him...sigh

[babieshortie]

i do..
try not to..
but..
i do..

[h22fanatik]

yeah it's weird, but i kinda stop talking to them and ignore them for a little while until they get the hint.

[whywasisostupid]

i stil talk to him regulary

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

i treat all my friends equally .. even if i know they have stronger feelings for me .. i would never do anything to lead them on .. they eventually get the hint .. i keep it reals & it saves future drama ..

[lilconfusedbabii...]

i never act different!! strange it happens to me a lot but i dont act diff unless i like him back.. then i give some signs..

[strwbrryluv8]

naww... i never act different around the guys that likes me...
well at least i hope i dont...

[SSJ Kenshin]

Wow. That really makes us (guys) feel bad. Like showing our feelings is wrong or something.

[NOTE] This might not be the opinion of all males.

[*Weird addiction*]

yes ! w!ll cos !ll b irr!tated

[straightedge9]

well, it worked out great for me cause i went out with him after i found out he liked me... but how you should act? i would just be natural about it, dont act any different for a few days, and reaaaally think about how it would b if you went out with him. then just tell him... "look, i like you as my friend. i think it would ruin our friendship if we went out." and hopefully he'll understand.

[defjam_gangsta]

Greetings!!

from personal experience, there's bound to be some differences when frens realise their frens are more than just frens. just dun ignore/avoid ya frens. ya makin things worst. just stick around. and play along.

CHEERS CB!!

[strawberrii_drea...]

Im was in that position, but i was pretend i didnt know and acted the same. I try not to change anyways. lol. But a while ago, another friend did but i really just wanted to stay friends so i ended up not talking to him. Yea, that was kinda mean. At least he got the point?

[mouse_3k]

I might act a little different like if we were punching each other and stuff before he told me he liked me, then i would stop the punching..

infact one guy friend told me he liked me and before we use to arm wrestle and stuff...i stopped tht -_-

i had a bf sooo...the guy might think i was leaving my bf for him if i continue to arm wrestle and stuff so ya

[aud_chua]

iono.. i act the same around all my guy friends, even if they like me or not.. we'd still mess around with each other and stuff, like i pull on their ears or mess their hair up and stuff.. but.. no.. i try not to make things seem awkward between us.

[Gr33nT3agUrL]

I think not actin different around is better cuz it mite upset him n make ur frenship kinda fade away. Itz normal foe guy/gurl frens to hab feelin foe frens cuz the more u got the noe the person the more u hab the feelin foe them n itz also normal or the other person not to lyke them..

[Looow]

lol happened to me...lol..no no just be yourself...if u act differently he'll notice andeven be weirder to YOU...lol..so be normal...no matter how hard

[dreamerOi]

not me i mean theyr still your friend if you dont like them then well thats that you dont got to be all weirded out by it just forget about it

[sweetdreamsx3]

Kind of.. because then it'd be awkward you know?

Because you don't look at him that way..

Eve's right! I did that to one of my guy friends and I was like "Are you joking around?" Because he usually does that and he was like "No, I'm forreal" I'm like "Oh okay." And yeah things changed after that. Don't talk to him anymore.

I shoulda acted normally...

[cutielilsuga]

i would act normal....of course..

[Eternally_Yours]

id act like i usually do around him. i mean hes still my friend right? sure i would look at him differently, but i dont have to treat him differently.

[xXbabi_gangstaXx]

u do kinda act different around him...mayb it's cuz u kno he duzn't think of u as a friend...n that scares ya a bit...but he would be acting the most different cuz he likes ya...

[dani41790]

that happend to me before and yea i did act different. i kinda started avoiding the guy cuz him liking me kinda creeped me out

[MeanBastard]

Very since I am not homosexual.

[scandalous_chic]

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[*wind&fire*]

ok i have the same thing happening to me but like im not even good friends with him..and he is really annoying...what should i do ...i dont wanna seem like a female dog

[KbabyLS7]

HELL NO!!! Don't act different!! I personally find it really flattering if a guy likes me... so I like it! Just keep being yourself---you know he likes it!

[Mistrunner]

A little. Sometimes. Depends on the guy.

[Jennilicious23]

I probably act more aware of what I'm doing (like if i'm flirting).

[littlewhite]

i am still "never been loved", sadly, or somebody has a crush on me and i don't know.

[pandamonium]

i get a little tingle in the hole when somone likes me ahahhahahah lol jk.

[daonlylonely1]

NO..I WOULDN'T FEEL WEIRD ABOUT HIM..BECAUSE IF I DO..THEN HE MIGHT FEEL DIFFERENT ABOUT ME..AND I WANT TO STILL BE FRIENDS WITH HIM!

[timeflies51]

That just happened to me recently. No, don't act any differently at all. If you act differently or act awkward or scared then they will just regret ever telling you, and that's not a good feeling. Like the way it is for me and him is that now we almost have an inside joke between us. It may not be the same for you, but whatever.

It'll be fine, just act as though nothing ever happened. (Although it may be hard to, each situation is different.)

[ItzOnlySydney]

a little because it would feel awkward.

[pinayprincess]

of course!

[loljuliana]

i would probably act different. but i would try hard not to

[cleec]

Recently a guy friend of mine, my best friend to be exact, had a big crush on me, he actually claimed to be in love with me and he told this to two of my best friends and they of course told me. I didn't talk to him any differently, though I just noticed him hinting that he liked me more often as we talked, things I wouldn't notice if I didn't know he liked me.

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

yea...only if i was in a relationship with someone already. otherwise i would either push them away or flirt with them. but rite now i have someone so i would push them away.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

nah i act the same, i mean he's still my friend and i think it would really hurt him if i just avoided him out of nowhere. i don't know why even when I like someone i still act the same to them. but i give them more attention.