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 Jun 9 2004, 03:36 PM
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i don't mean to sound totally weird when i ask this - but okay. i have this guy friend who is really ... hott ?! lol yeah. and well anyways. he just graduated and i'm 2 years younger than him but we are both hugggge* flirts. and the last time he was over we were in the hot tub and it's not like we made out or anything but i was like giving him a massage. anywho. when we talk online and stuff we're both always saying goofy things like ohh i wanna see you naked and shizzle but half the time we're kidding around - yet sometimes we're serious. and well, i was just wondering - what should i do ? i mean, i know he just doesn't want a piece of ass and it's not like i'm attached but i have a feeling i'd start to really get attached if in fact we did do something . comprende ?!?!?
 basically i just wanna see how you guys think i should deal with this situation !! thanks a bunchesss!
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Jun 9 2004, 03:50 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
well i hate dealing with the friends with benifits thing... feelings get involved.. and BLAH!! not gonna fun as it used to be!! but well... i dont understand ... sooo you wanna do sumthing with him?
soo do you think he really wants more than juss sum booty? eerr... can you explain more specific?
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Jun 9 2004, 03:57 PM
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 *aSh* =] Group: Member Posts: 2,075 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,101 |
i personally dont enjoy "friends with benefits" b/c its pretty much just using someone when you get lonely...
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Jun 9 2004, 04:03 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
i never understood the friends with benifits kind of relationship......you're just using each other.... is that wut u really want?
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Jun 9 2004, 04:42 PM
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 SoMehOw iT sEeMs CoLdeR nOw.. Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,718 |
ahh.. friends with benefits.. aka makeout buddies. well heres my story.. well this guy i kno.. tyler.. he's like omg hot.. like the perfect guy for me right.. n we decided to do the 'friends with benefits' thing a while back.. so we did.. n it was gReAt.. but i got really attached.. and he didnt.. n it wasnt so great after that.
you just have to make sure both of you have the same idea of whats going on.. otherwise it's gonna get really weird. n it'll suck for you.. cuz girls usually get attached easier than guys.. so here we are secretely in love n all he wants is.. someone to mess around with. so in my experience.. i say yeah its easier to have a makeout buddy than a boifriend.. cuz no one gets hurt if you do it right.. plus u get to do whatever you want. its a win-win situation.. but it usually doesnt work out right. so try to talk it over with him.. n see what he wants.. sry so long.. lol hope this helped? |
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Jun 9 2004, 08:23 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Jun 9 2004, 3:50 PM) well i hate dealing with the friends with benifits thing... feelings get involved.. and BLAH!! not gonna fun as it used to be!! but well... i dont understand ... sooo you wanna do sumthing with him? soo do you think he really wants more than juss sum booty? eerr... can you explain more specific?yep. I think it's kind of wrong.. |
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Jun 9 2004, 08:59 PM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
moved to relationships. you'll get more responses.
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Jun 9 2004, 09:18 PM
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I don't like getting involved in this kinda relationships. Coz your feelings will grow but he'll still just see you as the girl he has fun with...
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Jun 9 2004, 10:22 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,487 |
friends wit benifits suk... recently posted a topic bout it here on creatblog
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Jun 9 2004, 10:23 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,487 |
friends wit benifits suk... recently posted a topic bout it here on creatblog
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Jun 9 2004, 10:48 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
if you like him and think that you already have feelings for him then i think you should go for it .. it may turn into something nice and if he isn't just out for ass you know he would actually care .. so see what happens ..
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Jun 9 2004, 11:06 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
friends with nenefits (i or any of my freinds haven't had anything like that) but to my opinion, i think thats the STUPIDEST thing... its either get into a relationship or don't expect sex when you don't have feelins for each other... if your talking about how it might get farther into you two doing it then i say don't sex is an intimate thing shared between two ppl that love each other, not just freinds that wnat something... and if you guys make out with each other or whatever... someONE may have feeling and the other may not have feelings back... one person will feel used or what not and then you might not even be friends anymroe... i'd say girl be smnart and odn't get into it... if you like this kinda attention, that when you get into a relationship...
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