how can i break up with him?, he doesn't want to ._. Options

[Jinny]

so theres this guy.. brandon. yeah we've been together for a few weeks. it was.. nice. well nowadays he's been "really busy" lately. well i found out from a friend that he cheated on me A LOTTT of times, and got away with itt. when i told him about it, he denied everything. i believed him [like a stupid idiot]. well i actually saw him cheating on me with my own eyes. later, i told him i saw him with another girl, and i wanted to break up with him. he started getting all sad, saying that he couldnt live without me, and he loved me, and he said "im a stupid a-hole. [i know!] forgive me Jinny... PLEASE! i won't EVER do it again!" well, i don't forgive ppl that easily, so i just said "BRANDON, I WANT TO BREAK UP WITH YOU!" he said he would never leave me and no matter how many times i say that i want to break up with him he will stay with me forever. no matter what happens.


how can i break up with him? whatever i do or say, he won't break up. i told him that i would spread a rumor about him but he said he wouldn't care. UGHHHH

[dreamerOi]

Well... if you want to break up just say it and even when he says "too bad" or something just say "Well, too bad." right back at him. Because it is over. And if you say it is over then it's over. Him saying too bad doesn't make it "too bad" because it's over regardless. So just say Sorry it's over and walk away. Cause it just is. And nothing he says can change the fact that it's over unless you take him back. Which is unlikely by his doings.

[priyas]

Just say "get over it" and ignore his calls/emails/ims.

[Kontroll]

so theres this guy.. brandon. yeah we've been together for a few weeks. it was.. nice. well nowadays he's been "really busy" lately. well i found out from a friend that he cheated on me A LOTTT of times, and got away with itt. when i told him about it, he denied everything. i believed him [like a stupid idiot]. well i actually saw him cheating on me with my own eyes. later, i told him i saw him with another girl, and i wanted to break up with him. he started getting all sad, saying that he couldnt live without me, and he loved me, and he said "im a stupid a-hole. [i know!] forgive me Jinny... PLEASE! i won't EVER do it again!" well, i don't forgive ppl that easily, so i just said "BRANDON, I WANT TO BREAK UP WITH YOU!" he said he would never leave me and no matter how many times i say that i want to break up with him he will stay with me forever. no matter what happens.
how can i break up with him? whatever i do or say, he won't break up. i told him that i would spread a rumor about him but he said he wouldn't care. UGHHHH

Well, if you told him you're breaking up with him, then that's that. Just because he wont leave you alone doesn't mean you're still together.

Ha, can't live without you. What are you like 16?

The kid needs to learn a lesson. Words wont persuade him. You have to devise a way to even the score or make it so that he knows you're threw with him. Go have sex or make out with some other guy and make sure you tell your friends so that word will get back to him. And when he comes up to you just be like, 'You're fired!'

[alysaphobia]

i think he's just trying to save his own pride.

if he doesn't seem to get it, talk to him again, and tell him that you're breaking up with him, not that you just want to break up with him. then ignore all his calls, emails, IMs and any form of begging he may choose to pursue to try to "get you back". when the relationship ends is NOT his decision anymore; you've already made your choice to end it, regardless of what he says.

[Smoogrish]

Go have sex or make out with some other guy and make sure you tell your friends so that word will get back to him. And when he comes up to you just be like, 'You're fired!'

HAHA. (sorry)

Even if he doesn't want to admit it, you've pretty much already broken up with him, he knows it, and that's pretty much all there is. If he keeps on bothering you, just tell him to get the hell away from you, and then ignore him.

[krnxswat]

Nah, don't listen to the people that are telling you to talk to him.

DON'T talk to him. You got your message across.

After he sees you're serious, he'll back away and move onto someone else.

Don't give him anymore attention than you have to by talking to him.

Simple as that, kiddo.

[*Uronacid*]

^Yeah, exactly... TELL HIM OFF, and don't talk to him again... a nice "f**k you f**k you... go away" should do it

[pkbabe]

You already did...but anyways if he follows you around, just kick him where it hurts & tell him that you will do that everytime he follows you. If that doesn't work just inflict more pain or vandalize his stuff. That will get his attention *evil laugh*

[fall3n_s0ul]

Say it's over, heck tell the whole world it's over. And that's about it.

[mouse_3k]

take out his heart and pee on it. Cheaters deserve no one. The hell with him.

[krnxswat]

Wow. Great advice.

Someone sounds bitter.