Clueless guys who just denies everything ?, Ever had that ? Options

[c4rL4]

Well, there was this guy . . he was my first love;
and yet, i know i'm young but he made me feel that no one ever made me feel.
He was there for me when things got rough, through fights with friends, problems with family, he was there for me.
I guess i made a mistake of breaking it off; and he said he gave hints before that he would take me back, i guess i was just blind to see it.
Now i guess it's too late ?
He said that "this is what you wanted right ?"
& That's why we're here now. I still care about him. We didn't talk for about 6 months, we just passed by eachother like we don't know eachother. & Now, we just started talking again.
I'm not the closest girl to him but i got on myspace, & i'm the first girl on his top friends. He starts talking to me, he changes his song . . and the words to it are
"I memorized all the words for you
But if you only knew
How much that's just not like me
I wait up late every night
Just to hear your voice
But you don't know that's nothing like me

You know I wonder how you already figured out
All these things that I try to hide
All this time i've been hoping you don't find out
All these things that I hide on the inside

I can't be held responsible
This is all so new to me
Just when I think I'm invincible
You come and happen to me"

I always believed that maybe one day again ?
I dont wanna get my hopes up but i think everything came back to him ?
When i said, "Oh i like your song"
He just told me that he didn't even listen to it at all.
When i asked him 1 months ago if he still liked me,
he said "no, well. . .i don't know. . as a friend, i guess."
It seemed like he wasn't sure of it.

I'm just really confused & he keeps denying it ?
Help ? Please ?
It's really complicating.
I just wished that i could explain everything but it's going to be too long.

[shaixe]

It's hard to give advice not knowing the entire story, but from the sound of it he still likes you. I would say that it was wrong the way things ended between you guys (i.e. - not speaking for six months), but everyone makes mistakes. I think you should go for it. If he makes you happy, why not give in? Just tell him how you feel. Explain your thoughts and that you really miss him. Tell him you've realized it was a mistake to break it off and that you're sorry (if you did the breaking off?).

Everyone falls in love. Sometimes our first love isn't the person we end up with, but they're a learning experience none-the-less. And if there's a shot, go for it. After all, what's the worst that can happen?

[c4rL4]

Well, i've tried talking to him before but he just says, i'm over it.
But then that was like a month ago; but what if he just realized it now ?
I'm not so sure. Because now that we're in good terms, and he says he didn't regain his feelings back, then it'll go back to the same way it was before.

I'm pretty close with his friends; but i can't trust them anymore.
I know for sure that they tell him whatever i say. So, i can't ask them.
I guess i should just wait it out and see if there's more progress ? Right ?

It's just hard waiting around.
I still have hope ? Ergh.
My friend says that it seems like he still does like you; care about you.
But sometimes, he doesn't show any emotion. Only HE knows what he's feeling.
His friends doesn't even know because he's not that open.
He was once open with me, and i guess i ruined that.

I don't know ?

The reason why we broke up because we would get into fights,
but at the end of the day, we'd make up.
& Yet, there was someone who was trying to break us apart.
Someone "tried" to persue me.

I just wished that he would realize & just give it another try.
It's hard for me to always just be wondering what would've happened yenno?

I don't know.

[shortcake]

start talking to him again. maybe bring up guys and see how he reacts.

[*Uronacid*]

It sounds like might still have feelings for you, but you breaking up with him really pissed him off, and now that you want him back he's getting you back for the way you made him feel. You may still have a chance with him, but I think you need to learn a lesson from all of this. Maybe next time you should think before you act. Sounds like you didn't realize how good he treated you until you left the relationship. He probably doesn't trust you anymore.

You can either regain his trust through friendship, or suck it up, learn your lesson, and take a loss.

[c4rL4]

As much as i don't wanna put a meaning to everything.
He was walking home with his friends & everything;
and he just kept on looking back to where i was sitting.
And he was talking to me before he left.

I don't know.
There's a progress ? I think.

I just have to keep talking to him right ?
& Be friends for now and see what happens next ?

It used to be the 4 of us.
Like, me & him, my bestfriend & her boyfriend.
But we all broke up.
Then they just went back out today;
It took awhile for my bestfriend's ex to think because he was scared.
They got hurt & it takes while. . right ?

What if maybe he'll give me another shot because his friend took that chance AGAIN.
Erghhh. :/

There are so many "what if's"

[deletethisplease]

good luck, if you love him and he loves you it will work :)