SCAAAaaaaRED, i think im.. Options

[OhSoCrazy]

i think im pregnant..ughhh , how do i tell my boyfriend?? SHould i tell my mom? I think i wanna die

[xplicitmizz23]

wow.. funny u posted this . cos i think i could be too .

i'm a week late on buying my birthcontrol patch ! right now all i'm trying to do is get it ASAP . because we had sex twice already this past week, unprotected and he .. ejaculated inside of me . sooo

[177emories]

ohhhh shit thats scary >_____<" don't get an abortion if u are and not ready fo rit caus ethat kils a child =( anyways of course you should tell you boy!!!! first thing and tell HIM and makes sure you are BEFORE you tell you mom really if u tell ur mom but ur not then she's gonna know u did it... unless she knows already... but yeah deal with it with him first, talk about it and get those pregnace testing things ^_______^"

[177emories]

wow.. funny u posted this . cos i think i could be too .

i'm a week late on buying my birthcontrol patch ! right now all i'm trying to do is get it ASAP . because we had sex twice already this past week, unprotected and he .. ejaculated inside of me . sooo

wahhhh i heard if you MISS a day of using the pill the chnaces of having a baby is HIGHER >_____<" i dunno i hear things =( i hope your not though...

[tinababy143]

get about 2 or three home pregnancy tests before you decide to tell your mom. tell your boyyfriend you think you are..then take the pregnancy test..see what it comes out to be..no matter what it is..take another one about a week and a half or two weeks later..thennn..if its the same result..you can either save the third one to take another two weeks later..or go to the doctors and see what they say..you would probably feel better doing all this with your boyyfriend..and if you are then tell your mom..but make you shure you know if you're going to keep it or abort it or put it up for adoption..make plenty of plans so when you tell your mom you can tell her your pregnant but you have plans and you hope to follow thru with those plans the best you can....


..hope i helped..

[xplicitmizz23]

wahhhh i heard if you MISS a day of using the pill the chnaces of having a baby is HIGHER >_____<" i dunno i hear things =( i hope your not though...

i heard that about the pill also . but i'm on the patch . i'm pretty sure its different . atleast i HOPE so .

[T00000]

wow.. funny u posted this . cos i think i could be too .

i'm a week late on buying my birthcontrol patch ! right now all i'm trying to do is get it ASAP . because we had sex twice already this past week, unprotected and he .. ejaculated inside of me . sooo

hey, you know... do you have to like get a prescription for that? or what? how do you get those? because yeah i need some sort of birth control haha and condoms just aren't working for us...

[xplicitmizz23]

hey, you know... do you have to like get a prescription for that? or what? how do you get those? because yeah i need some sort of birth control haha and condoms just aren't working for us...

yes. i had to visit a gyno for mine . i pay 15 a month . i think its the best and cheapest method .

[ryfitaDF]

abort.

[ComradeRed]

Abort, Retry, Ignore

[*krnxswat*]

What're you doing posting here?
You should be on a check up or something. Tell your boyfriend, ASAP. Afterall, it's his fault, too. You'd be better of telling your parents right now in the long run.

[ComradeRed]

Consult the Pythic Oracle of Delphi. But be forewarned: All mortals wishing to seek the knowledge of Apollo must obey this single commandment: Know thyself...

[conster]

O_O wow... um.. check wit ur doctors, im sure all of u are like...16 and above rite? well check with ur personal doctor not the family doctor who can tell ur parents lol and tell ur bf and then tell ur mom, why hide it? if u abort it u gotta find the money too.. and i think its better to tell ur parents

[l_baybeexgrl_l]

abort.

what if u were aborted..???? ... yeah thats what i thought punk.. u wouldnt be here!


eh.. good luck with whatever choice u pick..?

[*CEP*]

what if u were aborted..???? ... yeah thats what i thought punk.. u wouldnt be here!


eh.. good luck with whatever choice u pick..?

But he's here.
So it's different.

See how far "what if" questions get you?

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[mglbaby]

awww sorry to hear dat get da pregnancy testin thing at a drugstore and test it first. good luck to you

[T00000]

what if u were aborted..???? ... yeah thats what i thought punk.. u wouldnt be here!


eh.. good luck with whatever choice u pick..?

i wish people like you were aborted

[iheartsimba]

first you need to find out for sure iwth a test or osmehting..i don't think you should tell them till you are sure

[kyootE_krn_bebe]

make sure that you're positive you're pregnant...

[islandkiss]

omg. okay, YOU DEFINATELY HAVE TO TALK TO SOMEONE! did you try peeing on those strips to see if it's accurate? remember, CB will always be here for ya. good luck.

p.s your bf HAS to know.

[LilBrunette0313]

Tell your boyfriend asap because it's just ask much his fault as it is yours. Then take a few home pregnancy tests just to make sure you really are pregnant, then if you are tell your parents.

[OhSoCrazy]

Okey, I have an appointment for Tuesday, i still havent told my boyfriend, me and him havent been in the best of terms either i think my mother is gonna kill me..i mean im graduating like in the top 10 of my high school, im going to a great private college in the fall..and now this..omg

[BurstinStarzz]

you should call him after the appointment...and don't tell anyone until AFTER the appointment

[angel-roh]

does that thing says negative or positive? test that if ur negative or positive..if u're negative, then that means u are pregnant... if u skipped a period then u prolly are gona have a baby soon... did use condoms? or didnt use it during sex? cus if u didnt... im sorry...

[LatinaLady]

first tell your mom!!!!

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

there's only one way to know for sure .. go get tested .. and after you need to speak with your boyfriend at least and see how you're going to handle it ..

[simplysweet259]

well, you dont know whether you really are pregnant or not. just go get a test. you could then get an abortion at a clinic if you really dont want the baby. the cost should be around four hundred dollars i think.

[OhSoCrazy]

the reason why im so nervous to go to the doctor is because i took a home pregnancy test..the EPT..and it said yes i dont even wanna tell him..i mean i'm on the patch but we usually use a condom, like for a week we didnt and now this..i hope the test was just a mistake and the doctor could tell me better, today my mom and dad were talking to me on how they are so proud that im the first to go so far in life and that they so proud of me, i feel like im breaking apart

[MrTurtle]

i might be too. i know exactly how you feel, i`m breaking apart too. you have to tell your boyfriend first and you and him have to work it out. the two of you might want to get an abortion and not tell your parents, or tell them together.

[SarahxJoy]

get about 2 or three home pregnancy tests before you decide to tell your mom. tell your boyyfriend you think you are..then take the pregnancy test..see what it comes out to be..no matter what it is..take another one about a week and a half or two weeks later..thennn..if its the same result..you can either save the third one to take another two weeks later..or go to the doctors and see what they say..you would probably feel better doing all this with your boyyfriend..and if you are then tell your mom..but make you shure you know if you're going to keep it or abort it or put it up for adoption..make plenty of plans so when you tell your mom you can tell her your pregnant but you have plans and you hope to follow thru with those plans the best you can....


..hope i helped..

My thoughts exactly.

[caramelx3]

1. home pregnancy test
2. tell your mom
2. tell your bf

p.s. unprotected? not even a condom? Watch for STI's

[Huggins]

TELL YOUR MOM!!!!!!! wow! you cant keep this one a secret!! (if u really are pregnate) but if your not sure, then go to a health center and get tested if you have it.. they cant tell your parents! But if it is.... then you must tell your mom... telling your bf is another story.. but you might want him to know too!

[koreansaga510]

i wish people like you were aborted

hahaha, lol i hope ur really over 16 u should go see a doctor....Good Luck

[T00000]

alright tell us what happened at your apt today!

[topsyturvy]

basically everything that should be said is said.. hehe but pregnancy.. omigosh the whole business sounds so .. scary..

[OhSoCrazy]

okey so i went to the doctor and im pregnant...honestly im like at a loss of words you know, the doctor said that i have different options if i wish to "terminate" the pregnancy, like either a conventional abortion or some pill called RU something. I still havent told my mom, she's on vacation until tommorow, like i said me and my boyfriend are really not in the best of terms so im just so confused in wat 2 do. My sister started screaming at me when i told her, because she also had a baby when she was 18 (by the way im 18)--i feel so irresponsable, careless, stupid and i dont even know wat. I cant even imagine the face of my parent's when i tell them im pregnant. The reason why this affects me is because in my neighborhood its like all odds are against you and i really didnt want to become part of the Latina statistic that we all have of dropping out and getting pregnant before 21..so im just so dissapointed at myself and i dont kno wat else to say

[XaZnX07]

aww thats so sad i am so sorry

i would be freak out if my gf was going to have a baby well i wish for all the best for you good luck!!!!!!!!!!

:tOnY:

[mglbaby]

awww! omg!! im soo sorry to hear dat... i hope ur mom will help u out n ur bf has to know...

[Spirited Away]

okey so i went to the doctor and im pregnant...honestly im like at a loss of words you know, the doctor said that i have different options if i wish to "terminate" the pregnancy, like either a conventional abortion or some pill called RU something. I still havent told my mom, she's on vacation until tommorow, like i said me and my boyfriend are really not in the best of terms so im just so confused in wat 2 do. My sister started screaming at me when i told her, because she also had a baby when she was 18 (by the way im 18)--i feel so irresponsable, careless, stupid and i dont even know wat. I cant even imagine the face of my parent's when i tell them im pregnant. The reason why this affects me is because in my neighborhood its like all odds are against you and i really didnt want to become part of the Latina statistic that we all have of dropping out and getting pregnant before 21..so im just so dissapointed at myself and i dont kno wat else to say

Having a child doesn't meant that it's over for you. It's very possible to continue your education after having the child, you DO NOT have to be one of the 'statistics'. Many women have done it before, be optimisitic.

You should talk to you Mom before deciding what to do with the pregnancy (to continue/to abort).

Do not take all of the blame, it takes two to tango. If you think you're irresponsible, your boyfriend's an a-hole, sorry to be so blunt. Whatever happens LET HIM KNOW. It will give him a wake up call and maybe he'll learn from it, too.

[princess2113]

u need to tell ur mom, and then ur bf....i wuldnt abort the baby, but thats just me....if u dont abort the baby, but u dont wanna keep it, u and ur mom need to start talking with adoption places so that everything just works out....and if u do keep the baby, ur bf(or if hes a minor, his family) is prolly gonna have to give u child support so push that!!!! BUT TELL UR MOM....shes gonna find out eventually prolly

[OhSoCrazy]

Thnx for the advice everyone , my mom called and i told her i have something important to tell her so i guess im going to be talking to her 2morrow. I tried calling my boyfriend but he's really not answering my calls, its hard to feel so alone

[Yemmerz]

Oh my gosh. I hope you feel better. Don't feel alone, everyone at Cb is here for you. If you need to talk or advice, just PM me.

[l_baybeexgrl_l]

dont get an abortion.. bc thats just really wrong.. u never know what ur baby would be when it grows up.. like.. a famous person.. but anyways.. if you dont want the baby.. why not put it up for adoption.. or godparents whos willing to take care of it for you? abortion is just too scary.

[LoST SouL]

wow well i dun believe in abortions but its up to u do wat u think is best for u and the child

[OhSoCrazy]

i know that abortion itself is wrong, but the situation im in is hard, my mother had me when she was young, my sister had a baby when she was young and here i go repeating history..i was supposed to be the one doing something good in my family and now this :-(, i know you say that abortion is really wrong but you have no idea what goes through your mind when you gotta wear these shoes

[LoST SouL]

ive been in the same situation (thankfully i wasnt tho) so i sorta kinda kno how u feel.. but tlk 2 ur mother about the options and the situations b4 u decide nethin then tlk 2 u b/f u r the one having the baby wat u do to the child is your desicion.. n remba jus b/c ur havin a child it dun meen tat the world is ova for you many women out there have made a huge difference in this world while rasing childeren prove to the world that ur xtraoridnary.. best of luck

[Spirited Away]

i know that abortion itself is wrong, but the situation im in is hard, my mother had me when she was young, my sister had a baby when she was young and here i go repeating history..i was supposed to be the one doing something good in my family and now this :-(, i know you say that abortion is really wrong but you have no idea what goes through your mind when you gotta wear these shoes

Girl, you gotta do what you gotta do, it's your OWN body. It's good that you know that abortion wrong, you must know that you have other options aside from getting an abortion.

You CAN STILL DO GOOD for your family with the baby. Are you saying that all girl who had kids when they're young are no good to society? I've met some wonderful women at my workplace who had kids when they're young, and they are success stories. It can happen. You just need support from your family, and that's the hardest part... telling them and asking them to understand.

Hang in there and good luck with talking to your Mom. Just let us know if you're okay and cB will still be here if you need to vent about this.

[OhSoCrazy]

of course there are women who do even better when all odds are against them and they have children at a young age..its just that im not ready to accept the truth that theres something inside me, growing..

[l_baybeexgrl_l]

did u tell ur parents / bf yet?

[OhSoCrazy]

i told my parents and they are really angry at me, my mother is forcing me to get an abortion and my dad will not speak to me

[babixangela]

Take a pregnancy test and get The Day After Pill.

[princess2113]

i told my parents and they are really angry at me, my mother is forcing me to get an abortion and my dad will not speak to me

she cant FORCE u to have an abortion...u have to make ur own choice...ur the one thats gonna have to live with that choice for the rest of ur life

[Mini]

she cant force you to have an abortion. anyways, its your baby its your choice. i rather put it for adoption if that's my last choice.

[ji_cabinx]

ah hah...good luck...sorry, but i dunno what to say!

[l_baybeexgrl_l]

well... did they let ur sister keep her baby? ... if she did. they should give u the same option!! .. gosh parents.. tsk tsk..

[bbyxstac3y]

oh damn that ish scaryy
well ob course yoo should tlk too yoor mom first abuot it
cuz probabli yoor mom was in this situation once b4?
and when yoo could tell yoor boyfriend let hope it not going to go badd
unless yoor a teen...

[bbyxstac3y]

wahhhh i heard if you MISS a day of using the pill the chnaces of having a baby is HIGHER >_____<" i dunno i hear things =( i hope your not though... 

i heard that about the pill also . but i'm on the patch . i'm pretty sure its different . atleast i HOPE so .

well doesn't life juss sucks
well didn't they say somebody died usin the patch...
i saw it on the news i dink
i sure hope nth badd happens too yoo

[ComradeRed]

Abort! Abort! Abort!

[straightedge9]

uhhh thats bad... USE PROTECTION!!!!! thats all i can say, then you wont have to go through with this... but you HAVE to tell your BF, if he "loved" to enough to get you pregnant, he should love you enough to help you get through that... and tell your mom.. the sooner the better, cause im sure your mom would like to know before she see's your tummy getting bigger, and bigger.... good luck to ya

[T00000]

yes, she can't force you to get an abortion because you're 18... however, i recommend you do that, because you are too young. it depends on your own beliefs, but that's what i'd do. i'm so sorry

[pm3k]

i wish people like you were aborted

lol!!! good one

it was serious then all of a sudden a sweeet comment popped up..

no hard feelings tho.. i just thought it was funny...

and..

birth control patches... do they say the right stuff? their stats are like 99.99% protection?

i dont' understand how the percentage works... protects 1 outta 100000 ovary cells? -- dumbfounded --

[princess2113]

do what u think is right, not what ur mom says to u...listen to urself and u'll do the right thing

[sheepy]

Tell your boyfriend asap because it's just ask much his fault as it is yours. Then take a few home pregnancy tests just to make sure you really are pregnant, then if you are tell your parents.

yuppp i agreee.. u have to tel someone about it.

[xsweetdreams12x]

How old are you??

Anyways, tell your boyfriend first. I mean, he was there too. Both of you can plan on what you, or both of you, are going to tell her. It'll be easier if he's there to help you talk to her.

[xpiixeespriitx]

its stuff like this that just make my skin crawl, i mena im 15 and i havent had sex yet, and its stories like this that make me scared to, i kno it sounds dumb but...

[WendyLynn182]

I think that first you need to tell your mother and then tell your boyfriend and then go right to the doctor.

Good luck.

[*AngelicEyz00*]

some of you people don't even read all the posts and just put whatever down... she knows now that she's pregnant... she's already told her parents, etc...

Anyways. You need to talk it out with your bf and come to an agreement on what you're going to do. You seem to have a lot going for you, like attending college later on this year... I'm sure you don't wanna give that up and you weren't planning on getting pregnant, so maybe an abortion will be the best thing. But then again, it may be really really hard for you to decide on having the abortion. Whatever u chose, i hope the best of luck for you

[audory]

wow.. yooh should DEFINETELY tell ure parents (err mom).. even if yooh think she`s gonna flip, i mean.. ure her DAUGHTER- sure she`ll be upset nd all but in tha end she`ll realize that she can either be with yooh nd behind yooh 100% or leave yooh on ure own.. nd something tells meh she`ll stick w/ yooh.. its in her motherly instinct stuff..even if ure not sure if ure PG.. tell ure mom.. yooh`ll need someone to go thru it w/ yooh.. someone who`s already been thru it.. nd tha best candidate would be ure mom.. then tell ure boyfriend after ure sure abowt it... but yooh should tell ure mom first (juss my opinion) welll i wish yooh tha best in ure choices~

[audory]

wow oops srriii i was reading tha beginning nd i didnt realize yooh already told ure parents.. ure parents don`t hate yooh.. there only dissappointed nd they feel cheated nd let down.. but they`ll get over it.. nd eventually they`ll realize that they should be behind yooh 100% .. well good luck~

[defjam_gangsta]

Greetings!!

i think ya need to tell GOD first coz HE didn't grant either ya guys wishes on not gettin yaself pregnant. after which, pull tat guy of yours to ya parents place and tell ya PARENTS abt da sticky situation ya in. once ya parents had been settled, go to his parents as well. it takes 2 to tango okeyz. and since ya guys got yaself much involved, it's only right tat both parents dun abandon their responsibilities as parents on their kids. it's gonna be tough but it's better than running away from it!! all da best aight?!

CHEERS CB!!

[sunshiNe_sweeTi_]

make sure ur pregnant...then tell ur parents...