"turn-offs", inspired by 'turn ons' topic Options

[angelrevelation]

What are some of your turn-offs in guys?

for me:

- lots of gel in their hair. it looks either greasy or sleaze-ball-ish
- gold chains
- extremely baggy clothes
- when they're so lazy... As if being a slacker is cool.
- a mean sense of humor
- guys who flirt with everyoneee
- clingy
- guys who try to act cool all the time
- guys who try to "control" their emotions
- really macho guys
- finds girls who wear layers of makeup and who have extremely fake everything hott

[ilauqh]

turn-OFFS:

+thinks he can get every girl
+smell bad
+failing school
+very cocky in sports (or in general)
+guidos
+really hairy
+intense acne
+cold-hearted & mean

[*mishyerr*]

- Smells bad
- Doesn't know how to make-out; sick!
- Womanly.

[voguelove]

guys who only focus on sex.
bad grammer. (i hate it when people are like, "dat." no.)
bad breathe.
someone who doesnt have goals in life.
boys who just dont give a f**k.
when they dont wash their hair.

[mytangerine]

someone that doesn't take care of themselves whatsoever.

[Gigi]

- B.O.
- Bad grammar
- Fluffy hair (you know, those guys who wake up in the morning and don't flatten their hair down or anything, and it sorta sticks out. It's bad)
- Smokers, druggies and alcoholics

And I think the worst thing of all is...
- Bad breath. I don't know why, but that is a make-it-or-break-it sort of thing. I cannot STAND a guy with bad breath, even if he's hot.

[KissMe2408]

-Bad Hygiene
-Smokers, Alcoholics, Cursers
-Immaturity
-Rage
-Out of Shape
-Can't think or speak to save his life. Dumb as a rock, and talks like it too.
-Unmotivated guys who will sit in front of their computer all day, playing video games or doing drugs or something
- Doesn't see himself with a future
- Bad dressers
- If they are addicted to porn or something.
- mean - spirited
- obnoxious and loud
- cocky attitude


there are so many things, . . .

[lalalaLANUH]

Clingy.
Pervy.
Corny jokes.
No depth.
Bad grammer.
"Macho" guys.
Mean guys.
Obnoxious guys.

[soo x nyc x]

i absolutley HATE HATE HATE it when a guy smokes. it like makes their breathe smell and teeth yellow. ugh!

and when they do drugs. and especially guys that are just dumb, think they can get every girl. and dresses like a idiot.

[PINAYSTER]

their stinky smell
bad teeth
ashyness
pimples

[multifaceted]

Not intelligent.
The aura around him isn't what I'm looking for.
Overall appearance
Smells

[SarahxJoy]

Turn Offs:
- Shorter than me
- Lazy, no goals, determination, no drive, lack of passion
- Body odor/bad cologne & the like
- Lack of dental health (bad teeth, bad breath, etc.)
- Over-protective, easily jealous
- Negative towards my family & friends
- A complete dunce
- Obsessive
- Extremely dependent on others
- Sharing personal things in our relationship with others, who really have no business in what we do (I can understand if he'd want to say whatever to his bestest of friends, but that's as far as it goes)
- Dishonest, disloyal, two-timing

Mm, I have more, but eh, this'll do. (I think that's all for now anyway)

[Smoogrish]

Cursing a lot. And thinking that doing mean things will impress people. And especially people who think they have to be "cool".

[Lethal-Beauty]

* Bad breath
* Smelly hair
* Messed up teeth
* No sex appeal whatsoever
* And personally a guy who just doesn't know how to please me

[tokyo-rose]

- Smoking/drinking/drugs
- Arrogant all the time
- Tries too hard to seem "cool"
- Tries to get with every girl he thinks is hot
- Doesn't make it clear that he likes me and only me
- Pants are halfway down to his knees and I can see his boxers
- Not at least decently smart
- Won't take the time to know me and/or just wants to get physical
- Likes rap that has no meaning
- Doesn't try in school
- Weaker than I am O.o
- Causes trouble often
- Too perverted

[datass]

-Under 6'2
-Weird voice
-Bad teeth
-Not funny whatsoever
-Can't carry on a conversation
-Bad skin (it just makes me not want to get close)
-Dirty
-Gross looking hands/feet
-Use/Overruse of the N word
-My name isn't "Hey ma" it's Suzzette.
-Mismatching clothes
-Unkempt hair. If you hair is gonna be long put it in some kind of style homie. Afro/dreads/braids whatever just DO something with it
-Bad breath. Just don't even talk to me
-Comes off as desperate/creepy
-Ashy
-Musty
-Thinks they can sing/rap but can't
-Has some kind of personal problem and constantly wants me to make them feel better about themselves
-Not the jealous type. I HATE WHEN GUYS DON'T GET JEALOUS
-TOO laid back.
-CIGARETTE SMOKERS
-Flirty
- Dumb/Slow. C'mon now..being dumb isn't cute
-Dirty Shoes
-Constantly has boogers in nose
-Crusty lips
-Smelly
-Wears the same shit. I've seen guys wear the same shit over and over but switch their shirts.
-No plan in life
-Asks me for money
-Comes with a lot of baggage
-Their family comes with a lot of baggage
Yep.

I pretty much agree with everything Suz said.

[michellerrific]

- Doesn't take care of hygiene
- Extremely stupid
- Makes you pay for all dates
- Horrible sense of style
- Attempts to act 'gangster' when it just looks idiotic
- Like a 10 pack..so much that it's disgusting
- Smokes, drinks, etc
- Mean guys
- Don't understand girls to at least a minimal extent
- Cannot make me smile or laugh

[drummergirlmarim...]

anyone with unethical habits: smoking, drugs, hardcore gaming.
bad breath
no interest in anything
dumb as a paperclip
calls you hot or beautiful in greetings (it makes me feel disgusted, especially when the guy is known to be pervy)
insists on going to your house to "chill" (ew, i hate that word.. i dont really like slang... although i use it ;))
insensitive... like REALLY insensitive.
... i actually like foofy hair on some people, not like "i woke up left it like that" i mean like "i tried to fix it but it wont go DOWN!!!" you know, its easy to tell the difference

[Kontroll]

anyone with unethical habits: smoking, drugs, hardcore gaming.
bad breath
no interest in anything
dumb as a paperclip
calls you hot or beautiful in greetings (it makes me feel disgusted, especially when the guy is known to be pervy)
insists on going to your house to "chill" (ew, i hate that word.. i dont really like slang... although i use it ;))
insensitive... like REALLY insensitive.
... i actually like foofy hair on some people, not like "i woke up left it like that" i mean like "i tried to fix it but it wont go DOWN!!!" you know, its easy to tell the difference

Damn, good luck finding some one like that. But I like the gaming part. Hahah.

[*Monochrome.*]

Crusty lips are a no.

[xBUTTMUNCHx]

-> Bad Hygien
-> No Sense of Humor
-> Conceitedness
-> Arrogance
-> Show Off
-> Tough Wannbe
-> Too Good For Anyone
-> Too Flirty
-> Always Swearing
-> Can't Dress
-> Shaggy Hair
-> Ignorance
-> STUBBORN
-> Bad Choice of Cologne
-> Disrespectful
-> Always Mimicking

-> and everything else everyone says(:

[mznikki]

+ smells bad body wise and breath
+ does drugs
+ feels he has to have some alcohol to have fun
+ self centered and think's he's the sh*t.
+ only cares about sex
+ insensitive
+ always defensive
+ close minded
+ really baggy clothes
+ talks lyke dis "wuts gewd ma" use real words fool.
+ lacks motivation and lazy
+ plain old stupidity
+ immaturity
+ irresponsible
+ a big flirt
+ extremely cheap
+ has no manners
+ think's he's always right
+ irrational
+ can't hold a conversation whatsover just "wats good?" "iight same." "uh..yea." use more than 2 syllable words.
+ extremely competitive

[pinacoolada]

- smoking
- drugs
- being cheap
- doesn't care about school
- a huge ego
- dishonesty
- bad hygiene
- immaturity
- bad hair (idk why, but i'm big on a guy's hair)
- if he wears the same clothes everyday
- baggy jeans

[dalenaadsiqnz]

- smoking
- drugs
- being cheap
- doesn't care about school
- a huge ego
- dishonesty
- bad hygiene
- immaturity
- bad hair (idk why, but i'm big on a guy's hair)
- if he wears the same clothes everyday
- baggy jeans

exactly [:

[*sofakinglazy*]

Crusty Lips. Rofl

[Aerjae]

smoking. >=[ ew.

and b.o.

[Evony]

- Doesn't take care of hygiene
- Extremely stupid
- Makes you pay for all dates
- Horrible sense of style
- Attempts to act 'gangster' when it just looks idiotic
- Like a 10 pack..so much that it's disgusting
- Smokes, drinks, etc
- Mean guys
- Don't understand girls to at least a minimal extent
- Cannot make me smile or laugh

I'm all of above but


Have you been on a date yet?

[xitachix]

wow it looks like just about every girl likes the type of guy I am...

I wonder if any of you are over 18 and live in NJ Sussex County area

only downfall of mine that was listed is jealousy

am I'm bored at 2 am hoping I don't have college tomorrow lol, I.D. how I ended up here

www.myspace.com/unknownshinobi <3

Edited>

My ex-GF turned into a snobby bitch, even though I treated her like gold, this happens to me way to often, why is it you ladies walk on guys who treat you good? or most at least or maybe I'm just unlucky lol

[alysaphobia]

- i really dislike it when guys are all, "OMGFOJFKSLTHAT GIRL IS SOOOO HOT" just because some girl is dressing really slutty.
- it turns me off when guys wear way too much cologne.
- also, i think it's super gross when guys have overly humongous muscles... not that i personally know anybody like that, but for example:

[Aerjae]

Fake people! who are... fake. ugh.

[datass]

http://www.wayodd.com/funny-pictures2/funn...-naahhh-0q5.jpg

ROFL

Tsk, tsk. Image tags. ;-) And... LMAO!

This post has been edited by Duchess of Dork: Feb 26 2007, 11:01 AM

[mylittleMiracle]

fake people,liar

[*Duchess of Dork*]

Pretentiousness, conceit, shallowness, ignorance (although that can be worked on ;-)) and lack of respect for others.

Oh, and blonds.

Crusty Lips. Rofl

[Just_Vivian]

I can't stand it when guys

-are sadisticic and always complaining

-have a girly voice

-are boring and never wanna do anything

-are mean to animals

-call people fat and ugly and stuff like that

-are insecure

-call themselves ugly and fat lol

-are boring to talk to on the phone

-kiss and tell EVERYTHING

[Blaqheartedstar]

tons of people seem to list my turn offs...
- too manly... but not toooo girly... i don't want a flaming homo (no offense to homosexuals)
- too hairy < either they cleans that shit up... or find some one who gets turned on by that...
- toooooo clingy.. clingy is ok...but i don't need to lock my self in a room to stay away from the person
- doesn't care about school
- smokes (i have parents that do it... i don't need another to add to my list) or does drugs or drinks excessively
- bad hygiene, diry mouth
- self centered and think's he's the sh*t.
- only cares about sex
- insensitive
- close minded
- really baggy clothes
- lacks motivation and lazy
- irresponsible
- a big flirt
- has no manners
- think's they're always right
- irrational
- immaturity, has no respect for my family or my friends
- curses alot

not expecting a perfect partner... just i don't want a street thug like u find here in NY...
or some emotional dude/chick who want to kill them self... or thinks they have nothing to live for... and dumps all their problems on me

[vampiresugarjunk...]

smells bad.
doesn't think for himself.
doesn't have opinions or goals in life.
bad teeth
obese
grungy
hairy

yeah, there's hundred more

[*stephinika*]

- too hairy
- bad hygiene
- really yellow teeth
- cockiness
- being too immature
- can't take a joke
- has no goals in life

[*suddenly she*]

theatre kids. idk why, i just have issues with them in my head.

[ReggieM]

omgosh u guys are sooo shallow!

[*StanleyThePanda*]

I don't think I've ever posted in this thread... Hmmm...

Turn offs:
-Greasy slicked back hair
-Cancer sticks
-Too clingy. A bit clingy is okay, but you can't cross that line of "overly-annoyingly-clingy".
-Close-minded
-Conceited
-Can't make up his mind about things
-Curses non-stop
-Boring
-Insecure
-Annoy the crap out of me
-Messy/smelly
-Overly muscle-y
-Can't take a joke
-No goals in life
-Slow about everything; Doesn't understand anything
-Fakes
-Liars
-Jerks
-Players

etc.

[RAWRstephishere]

BIG EGO.
smells.
super muscular.

[Dreamers]

I don't think I've ever posted in this thread... Hmmm...

Turn offs:
-Greasy slicked back hair
-Cancer sticks
-Too clingy. A bit clingy is okay, but you can't cross that line of "overly-annoyingly-clingy".
-Close-minded
-Conceited
-Can't make up his mind about things
-Curses non-stop
-Boring
-Insecure
-Annoy the crap out of me
-Messy/smelly
-Overly muscle-y
-Can't take a joke
-No goals in life
-Slow about everything; Doesn't understand anything
-Fakes
-Liars
-Jerks
-Players

etc.

Words outta my mouth. ^_^

[*suddenly she*]

omgosh u guys are sooo shallow!

Examples? I think everything here has been reasonable.

[murderwaltz]

. immaturity
. ignorance
. bad breathe
. abusive
. ego maniac
. bad hair cuts [ugh shallow i guess]
. a beast [seriously hair arms & legs]

.. i guess there's more but those are like the top ones.

[littleswallow]

Guys who...

... smoke
... do drugs
... flirt even if they are already in a relationship (or are unfaithful in general)
... don't know how to prioritize
... point out people's faults and laughs at them (not only guys, but girls, too)

I don't mean to offend anyone with this post, just my opinion

[kourtneyroxs]

My Turn offs are:

Bad Teeth
Any color but white teeth
Smells
Really Flirty with other girls
Short
5'6'' and under ( you must be at least 5'10'' to ride this ride )
No sense of Humor
Worries about school and stuff

-not to much, but enough

[silent_thoughts]

immaturity

[loveylovely]

^ I agree with that! Smelly people and smokers.

[BrokenDream]

Turn-OFFS:

If they smoke or drink.
They have no personal hygiene.
They flirt with every girl they see.
They do drugs.
If they're short.
Immature!!!

And etc.

[Kaytay]

-druggies
-obnoxious
-ugly
-annoying
-the kind of guy who just wants to get into your pants
-farting

and moire

[YaGurlSukedMe2SL...]

Excessive butt hair
Ability to stick 3 golf balls in their mouth
Eating a burger with their feet
Picking my nose with their big toe

[$$$ soul]

-ugly

That sucks.

[danifibble]

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[Narcotic]

-smoking.
-chews dip ewww.
-smelly.
-greasy hair.
-not being clean.
-if they're a whore.
-being super immature.
-bad breath.

mmm probably more but i cant think right now

[*steve330*]

My turn offs are if they have a penis.

[RyanWasHere]

My turn offs are if they have a penis.

I second that.

[NgocQuyen]

-smoking/drugs
-grills
-conceitedness
-cockiness
-taking everything a bit too serious
-talking about his ex's too much
-not ENOUGH confidence
-shorter than me
-pants sagging down to the knees and 2XL shirts on 100 lbs guys.
-being bent. :\

[LUVMELUVUNOT17]

stupis boys