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My best friend and I like each other. If you would ask me, I think it is rather obvious, we just never told each other. Other people think so, too. But my problem is that we're both too shy to say anything. And I know if I don't do something, he won't. WHAT DO I DO???????????????
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Feb 17 2007, 12:31 AM
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well you guys can't really rush things.
 but then again, you don't wanna wait until he stops liking you to tell him you like him... hmmm... toughie.. sorry. |
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Feb 17 2007, 12:33 AM
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Sometimes you have to be stright forward about your feelings and go for what you feel is best. If you know you like him and he likes you.. damn.. GO FOR IT!
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Feb 17 2007, 12:34 AM
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Well, I don't know for a FACT, but he makes it look so OBVIOUS.....
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Feb 17 2007, 12:58 AM
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QUOTE(death of seasons! @ Feb 17 2007, 12:34 AM)  Well, I don't know for a FACT, but he makes it look so OBVIOUS..... Sometimes you just have to stiffen up your back and hope for the best. Try not to trip over your words. Say what you feel and it should work out fine. He is your bestfriend he should understand. 
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Feb 17 2007, 01:54 AM
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If you feel uncomfortable with telling him face to face, write him a nice letter and then wait for his reaction.
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Feb 17 2007, 02:21 AM
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I think you guys should COMMUNICATE...
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Feb 18 2007, 12:54 AM
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QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 17 2007, 2:21 AM) I think you guys should COMMUNICATE... To big of a word for her.  //edit. Sorry. That was rude. |
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Feb 18 2007, 02:02 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
QUOTE(death of seasons! @ Feb 17 2007, 12:30 AM) But my problem is that we're both too shy to say anything. And I know if I don't do something, he won't. WHAT DO I DO??????????????? I think you just answered your own question. Look at it again, and act upon it. Shyness is an excuse, not a reason. Grow a pair in the metaphorical sense. |
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Feb 18 2007, 08:20 AM
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QUOTE(JakeKKing @ Feb 18 2007, 2:02 AM) I think you just answered your own question. Look at it again, and act upon it. Shyness is an excuse, not a reason. Grow a pair in the metaphorical sense. I love how you brought this up. I read over it and saw that she did answer her own question. I was about to say something about it before you posted this. Haha 
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Feb 19 2007, 10:37 PM
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QUOTE(oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo @ Feb 18 2007, 12:54 AM) To big of a word for her. //edit. Sorry. That was rude. lmao! yeah, but kinda funny... anyway, you know that you have to make a move. so why not just do it? you said that it's obvious, so you have nothing really to be afraid of... |
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Feb 21 2007, 03:05 PM
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 Oh My Goblet of Fire! Group: Member Posts: 222 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 504,421 |
QUOTE(ashopely @ Feb 17 2007, 1:31 AM) well you guys can't really rush things. but then again, you don't wanna wait until he stops liking you to tell him you like him... hmmm... toughie.. sorry. I agree! Don't rush into anything. Let it happen. Love comes and goes, good friendship is worth holding on to. |
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Feb 21 2007, 05:56 PM
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I still stress... COMMUNICATION!!
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Feb 21 2007, 09:48 PM
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QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 21 2007, 5:56 PM) I still stress... COMMUNICATION!! TO BIG OF WORD!  editt// I'm not sorry this time.. |
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Feb 21 2007, 10:05 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
QUOTE(death of seasons! @ Feb 17 2007, 12:30 AM) My best friend and I like each other. If you would ask me, I think it is rather obvious, we just never told each other. Other people think so, too. But my problem is that we're both too shy to say anything. And I know if I don't do something, he won't. WHAT DO I DO??????????????? You do something. He does not always have to make the first move. We don't live in the old ages. |
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Feb 22 2007, 03:33 PM
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well if your not shy to tell us about this, then you shouldn't be shy to tell him. although i know its easier said then done, but if you wont tell him now, you might not ever get the chance to.
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Feb 22 2007, 09:14 PM
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do something!
i must warn you,, bestfriends yah they seem amzing but they don't make good boyfriends! tust that. or maybe thats just how it was for me.. but things just end up not workin' out.. but then again that might have just been me.. |
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Feb 25 2007, 01:43 PM
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Just tell him!
Don't let it pass >.< |
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Feb 25 2007, 02:08 PM
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QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 21 2007, 5:56 PM) I still stress... COMMUNICATION!! Tarzan no understand. Ugh. Jane. Why communication? THey'll talk when they see eachother. |
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Feb 25 2007, 03:57 PM
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tell him.
its kind of obvious. or just sit there and wish that you were together |
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Feb 25 2007, 07:05 PM
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Thanks guys! I just it's just that I have a problem with wording things..
That's what I'm mostly stressing with... Or even like, how to say it. |
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Feb 25 2007, 08:15 PM
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Just another kid... Group: Member Posts: 600 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,690 |
Hate to say it but once your in a relationship you pretty much say goodbye to being friends ever again. Is that a risk your willing to take??
P.S. you can still be friends after, but normally its either really hard to get OR not as as strong but its slightly possible |
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Feb 28 2007, 06:10 PM
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not ALWAYS. sometimes you're still friends with your ex. it just depends on how your relationship with them was. if it wasn't really too romantic, you can probably go back to being friends quickly.
edit: didn't see your PS, nvm. |
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