first breakup, and it wasn't bad Options

[gita]

so, me and my boyfriend broke up tonight. he was my first bf, but we only went out for 5 weeks. i certainly wasn't in love with him, and i don't feel at all sad. i knew it was coming. in the car on the way home he just blurts out, "i think we should just be friends" and i said, "yeah, i've been thinking the same thing" - which is true. he said he wants to still be friends and hang out though. but we'll see.

just wondering - how was YOUR first breakup? not bad at all, or horrible? are you two still friends?

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Well, my first break up was in 1st grade cus he moved. So that doesn't count cus he kissed me good-bye on a swing set at the park and I didn't see him again until my freshman year in highschool.

But the one that really counted, he said that I wasn't putting out. I was 11. Stupid boy.

[Cujiine]

Oh gosh theres one that was awkward. I told him and expected him to want to know why or who else there was and everything but he smiled and hugged me. "I pushed him away and demanded to know why he wasn't angry andhe said that we acted more like friends and stuff so we agreed to just go back to being friends.


Edit:// Oh i'd like to add that we'd been going out for a year and a half before we broke up.

[mznikki]

first real break up, eh it wasn't the worst, i cried when we broke up for like 3 min and then i was alright, we went out for like 2 months, and it was a long distance relationship. we said we'd be friends after..we lasted being friends for about 7 months after then after that we just stoped talking.

[smileeetina]

Hah, well, like, it was weird -- well not really. I knew it wouldn't last, but the thrill of having a boyfriend for the first time was overwhelming. But then after one month, I wanted to break up. We remained friends for one week and never spoke to each other again.

[KissMe2408]

Yes, well, if the breakup is mutual like yours was, then it really doesn't hurt that badly. And 5 weeks isn't a long time, It really hurts when you've been with that person for a long time.

I believe my first break-up was a lot like yours. Mutal, and for the most part, pain-free. We dated for 6 months I believe, but never really got too close. I mean, I was really young, and it was my first relationship, one of those middle school ones. So it didn't mean much.

[SimplicityGirl]

A month and we broke up. It hurts a bit since I found out that he went out with me not because he liked me but because he knew I liked him. But since we weren't friends or anything beforehand it was cool afterwards.

[*Monochrome.*]

He ended it with calling me a "dumb spic whore" and spiting on me.
I in turn broke both of his f**king arms.

what does that tell you?

to this day hes scared of me..id be scared too.

[gita]

Oh gosh theres one that was awkward. I told him and expected him to want to know why or who else there was and everything but he smiled and hugged me. "I pushed him away and demanded to know why he wasn't angry andhe said that we acted more like friends and stuff so we agreed to just go back to being friends.
Edit:// Oh i'd like to add that we'd been going out for a year and a half before we broke up.

that's not good. if i'd been going out with someone for that long, i'd have expected them to be angry, too...

[ksoyeah]

Ooh, okay, mine was stupid.
I was going out with this guy for like...already about 2 hours [[yes, I said 2 hours]] and he wouldn't stop calling me. I already had like...20 missed calls from the guy. I was like, "kcool..." and the next day [[Valentines Day]], I saw him holding hands with another girl. No, I wasn't "heartbroken" I was more like...whatever, haha. Then he called me and was like, "I can tell you want to break up with me," and I was like, "Why?" and he goes, "Because I didn't talk to you after school." what a doofus. xP

[me1issaaaa]

It was really rough - a little after a year of being together, he wanted "space". That lasted a few weeks, and then things started to pick back up. Two days before Valentines, he dumps me completely... right when I thought we were better than ever. Obviously we weren't. I was a wreck for weeks... cried myself to sleep for over a month. We still talked everyday, which made it that much harder. Eventually, I grew to learn that I deserved better and I got over him. He wanted to get back together at that time, but he was just too late. Tomorrow will be one year since we've been seperated, and we're both in relationships now, happier than we've ever been. We talk like once a month just to check up and see how each other's doing, trying to stay friends after being through so much.

[redpeony]

It was pretty harmless. Dated him for 5 months but never got close to him... I just didn't feel it going anywhere and to be honest I only liked him for how he looked. We both had no idea what we were like.. so I basically just broke up with him on msn hahaha. He said he was sad and I'm sure he was at time.. but he was like 'we have to stay friends okay??' and I said sure. He made the same attempts to talk to me every day for like 3 days. Then I think he got over it so we stopped talking, and last summer we hung out like once in a group and had our first actual conversation since then. I'm now dating one of his best friends and have been for 1.5 years actually... but it's cool because me and him never really had anything.

[Stefanny]

My first "breakup" was with I guy I was "with" for like 8 months. I broke up with him cuz he was stalkerish and VERY attached. It wasn't hard on me at all, except for the fact that everybody kept blaming me when he started cutting....But that's a whole nother story.

[Jinny]

my first break up?
terrible
i mean, i didn't like him, we were together for 3-4 weeks.
he was really jealous.
i have a lot of guy friends, so after school i usually hang out with them because my other girl friends always have to do something/have something after school.
so my guy friends, me, and dylan [my first bf] all hang out after school.
dylan got really.. he tried to get my attention a lot. it was annoying --;
and i got fed up with it.
he started back talking my guy friends & suchh
so i just said, DYLAN I WANNA BREAK UP WITH YOU. <-- harsh, right?
and he started crying.
so i got all.. ATROGAJR:GLKAJW:REGLJACRGAJ
and i just left. ;p

[Jayembe]

My first break up.
Oh man it was bad.
I cheated on my boyfriend twice.
The first time he gave me another chance.
And then the second time i did it he got mad.
And pretty much made me feel terrible and what i had done.
But it taught me a valuable lesson.

DONT CHEAT.
And i havent since.
:]

-End of Story-

[pkbabe]

My 1st one wasn't too bad. Well the only reason is because I did the breaking LOL. I was with him for 5 days. I ended it because he only saw me as a sex object & not as a person. Also him repeadily going in & out of juvi was another factor I couldn't handle(multiple drug & assult charges). He took it pretty well...

Until I figured out he still shows people my pic & tells them I'm his girl. But its been over 2 yrs, hes far away & if hes still living in denial it won't matter cuz i won't ever see him again

[foreverNalways]

When my first boyfriend and I broke up, I pushed it off like it didn't really matter to me and I kept telling people that I was fine. Because I put up a wall and didn't express what I was really feeling it killed when I did. It took about a week until I realized that we weren't together at all and that we weren't even talking like we used to.. and yea that makes me sound dumb because I didn't realize it.. but seriously I didn't want to realize it.