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 Jun 6 2004, 08:34 PM
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 JeSsIcA rAyE  Group: Member Posts: 782 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,977  |
OK my friend just recemtly got married...(dated for 1 year and 3 months). SHe's only 19 and so is he.....(she has only been 19 for like 2 months before the wedding and him only a month)..... WHat do you think about marrying young ?>? IT was ok a long time ago, but is it still??... she didn't have money for anything. she wore her mother's old wedding dress. $12 wedding rings from Wal-Mart and the honeymoon was with her aunt and her family in Virginia... from NY............ I think she' snot very bright....
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Jun 6 2004, 08:40 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
yeah thats a very CHEAP wedding.. if i was marrying young its gotta be as big as if i was older... tahst why marry someone RICH ^______^" muahaha.
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Jun 6 2004, 08:43 PM
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I think marrying young is totally okay if you're independant and you know what's gonna happen in the future.
Marrying young takes a lot of planning and commitment coz you still have to study. My ex and I used to talked about marrying after I turned 18. I'd move to Maryland with him and I'd go to college there while he was with the army. But what your friend did, sounds kinda like one of those rushed things. I mean rings from Walmart...? |
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Jun 6 2004, 11:40 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
everyone has their own preference i guess .. i, for one, would like a decent sized wedding with all my family and loved ones .. i'm not in a rush for marriage though .. it involves a lot of time and committment and you have to make sure you're making the right decision.
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Jun 7 2004, 12:14 AM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
well if they are in love then why not!!! for the wedding... they probaley juss wanted it simple.. and they didnt have much money.. so they dealed with wut they had.. but personally i wouldnt marry that young... i mean how do you know that he is the one? soo yehh... you should play the field..
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Jun 7 2004, 08:49 AM
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why in earth did they get married at age 19 when they still have college to go to?
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Jun 7 2004, 03:17 PM
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JeSsIcA rAyE Group: Member Posts: 782 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,977 |
yup still going to college...lvin with one of their parents until school comes back and then they can stay in one of the school apartments
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Jun 7 2004, 04:09 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
i think its okay if you TRULY know you want to be with that person for the rest of your life cos i believe that divorce is a sin somewhat annnnd yeah..i dont know where i was going with that..i forgot LoL
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Jun 8 2004, 10:18 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
WELL IF THEY L0VED EACH 0THER, I GUESS THEY SHUD D0 WATEVER THEY WANT. BUT U KN0W... I THINK THATS A FAST START 0N MARRIAGE L0LS! I MEAN THAT`Z WEIRD T0 MARRY THAT FAST... S0UNDS LIKE MARC ANTH0NY AND J L0 L0LS BUT U KN0W IF THEY THINK THEY CAN TAKE CARE 0F IT WELL. I GUESS THEY SH0ULD BE FINE. BUT M0RE RESP0NSIBILITY F0R THEM WILL BE HARDER...I H0PE THEY CAN MAKE IT NEWAIS... IM N0T REALLY AGAINST 0N Y0UNG MARRIAGES... WELL I D0NT LIKE WHEN THEY MARRY AT AGE 16 T0 18....CUS THAT`Z WEIRD... L0LS HAHA... BUT IM N0T AGAINST IT NEWAIS... IN JESUS TIMES...THERE WERE S0ME GIRLS WH0 WERE 16 MARRIED T0 A 30 YEAR 0LD MAN...S0 YEAH... I MEAN THAT TIME IT WASNT ILLEGAL. BUT IN THE 21ST CENTURY... I GUESS IT`Z ILLEGAL L0LS. AGE 19 IS 0K...BUT AS L0NG AS THEY D0NT DIV0RCE FAST... I THINK THAT`Z WEIRD GETTING DIV0RCE S0 FAST L0LS.
. . S0 IM N0T AGAINST 0N Y0UNG MARRIAGES LIKE AGE 19. THAT 0NE`Z 0K. I MEAN THEY ARE IN C0LLEGE. N0T HIGH SK00L. DAMN HIGH SK00L IS W0RSE L0LS! |
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Jun 9 2004, 06:54 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,234 |
It really all depends on marturity levels... Yeah, tehy might be fickled and fall out of love, but this isnt the case with everyone. If they truly love each other then it will work. If they know in their hearts they are meant to be, then it will work!
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